Baby-Led Weaning: Right Age, How To Begin And Tips To Follow

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Baby-led weaning is a feeding approach that was reintroduced in the UK more than a decade ago. In this feeding technique, an infant starts complementary feeding by self-feeding rather than spoon-feeding. Thus, the infant foregoes commercial baby foods and purees in favor of eating bite-sized, solid food items with their hands on their own (1).

You may begin this feeding technique when your baby reaches six months of age, though some babies may require more time. Due to the hazards, such as choking, involved in this feeding technique, experts have been debating its implementation.

Read on to learn more about baby-led weaning, its benefits and drawbacks, and how to do it successfully and safely.

When Should You Start Baby-Led Weaning?

Baby-led weaning, also known as auto-weaning, doesn’t start suddenly. As a parent, you need to look for signs of readiness. A baby is ready to self-wean, under supervision, when they (2) (3):

  • Can sit straight without support.
  • Can hold their neck and head straight.
  • Show interest in eating food that others are eating.
  • Can pick up food, hold it, and put it in their mouth.
  • Can move the food from the front of the mouth to the back with jaw movements.

Most babies develop these abilities by six months of age, but some may take longer. Depending on the signs of readiness, you can try baby-led weaning for your baby.

What Are The Possible Benefits Of Baby-Led Weaning?

Baby-led weaning allows your baby to touch, smell, and taste the food independently, thus honing their sensory skills. Besides, supervised baby-led weaning may help your baby in (3) (4):

  1. Understanding and regulating hunger and satiety cues, allowing them to decide what, how much, and how quickly to eat. It makes the infant an active partner in the feeding process and not a passive recipient. According to experts, self-regulation of feeding could help a baby eat adequately and prevent chronic health issues, such as excessive weight gain.
  1. Inculcating healthy food choices wherein the baby selects foods based on their type and texture, not solely on taste. It exposes the baby to various healthy foods, such as fruits and vegetables. It also helps a baby develop healthy eating habits from an early age and reap long-term health benefits (5).
  1. Reducing picky eating habits that make a baby eat certain types of food and reject others. Although fussy eating isn’t always a concern, it raises the risk of nutrient deficiencies, which can have long-term health effects.
  1. Developing motor skills by letting children pick and hold foods of different textures, shapes, and sizes. Picking food requires a baby to use their fingers (pincer grasp) and palm (palmar grasp). Bringing the food to their mouth exercises the baby’s eye-hand coordination and dexterity.
  1. Fine-tuning oral motor skills by letting babies chew and move food of different textures inside the mouth from an early age. Most babies develop teeth between six and 12 months, and it is when baby-led weaning can help babies bite foods and support their teething process (6).
  1. Making feeding easier for parents and caregivers as baby-led weaning lets the baby control what they eat and how much they eat. It also takes off the extra effort of preparing purees. Parents can serve what they are eating in minced and chopped forms to their baby for self-feeding.

Several parents find baby-led weaning enjoyable as it lets the baby be a part of family mealtime, helping them learn eating by observing.

How To Begin Baby-Led Weaning?

Baby-led weaning doesn’t need any particular arrangement. However, it does require you to follow some simple tips to start safely.

  • Adjust the baby to a comfortable position and choose an appropriate place, such as a high chair or your lap. Ensure the baby is seated straight and not leaning forward. Also, the baby should be able to move their arms and hands freely.
  • Turn off those screens: Your baby is learning a new skill. Televisions, mobiles, tablets are not just distractions but they effectively switch off your baby’s thought process. So basically the baby no longer knows what she or he is eating, the taste, color, texture, appearance of food being consumed, how their family is eating, is she or he hungry or satisfied. This is true for children of all ages and even adults so always switch off screens during meals in order to make the most out of them.
  • Offer food in age-appropriate size and texture. Some of the foods that babies can self-feed are minced, chopped, or bite-sized chunks of baked or boiled skinless sweet potato, carrot, and potato wedges. Some of the other food items that you can consider are thin banana or mango slices, mashed beans, shredded fish, tofu, chunks of hard-boiled egg, and mashed meat (4).
  • Serve food in an unbreakable bowl or plate. You can also use an anti-skid mat or a suction bowl. Place a small cup of water that the baby can sip in between.
  • Make meal times fun times: Serve food in colorful plates and bowls. Use your imagination – bowls made from watermelon or musk melon, coconut kernels as small bowls, plates made from banana leaves are just some ideas to begin with. You can have an underlying theme for any meal eg. all courses of the meal should contain coconut (start with a thai soup and end with a coconut pudding). Meal platters should not become battlegrounds between your dominance and the baby’s natural urge for independence.
  • Start slowly and give your baby ample time to self-feed. In the beginning, the process may be messy, but it will improve as the baby hones their self-feeding skills.
  • Let the baby divide what and how much they intend to eat. Initially, the baby will not eat much and instead will explore food. They will gradually consume food and adjust their appetite in sync with their breast milk or formula intake.
  • Set the right examples and eat healthy food. Babies mimic adults. Help them learn healthy eating habits and serve them healthy foods that you eat yourselves.

If you are considering baby-led weaning, be aware of the concerns associated with it.

What Are The Concerns With Baby-Led Weaning?

Even supervised baby-led weaning could pose some risks that parents should know to make informed choices (7) (8).

  1. Inadequate nutrient intake: Some studies highlight that baby-led weaning could increase the risk of insufficient nutrient intake. Babies are at a higher risk for iron, zinc, and vitamin B1 deficiencies, which can lead to growth and development issues over time (9). However, more research is required to confirm the findings.

Also there is no rule book which says that you cannot feed the baby once they are done with playing and eating on their own. Try feeding them with a spoon or hand after the baby displays cues that she or he is done with self feeding for the time being. But again respect their wishes and under no circumstances should you force-feed them.

  1. Risk of choking: Babies at six months of age are still developing oral motor skills, exposing them to the risk of choking even when fed lumpy foods with a spoon. Research highlights that there is no difference in choking incidence between babies weaned using the baby-led weaning and traditional weaning method (10). Yet, it is preeminent to ensure that the baby is developmentally ready to begin eating independently.
  1. Negative mealtime experience: Gagging is a vital reflex that prevents choking in babies. A baby can experience gagging during the initial stages of baby-led weaning. It can scare some babies and may instil negative mealtime experiences, making a baby quit self-feeding (11). This is almost always a temporary phenomenon.

Besides these risks, unsupervised baby-led weaning exposes a baby to different foods at a time, making it challenging to determine the allergen if the baby has an allergic reaction.

Tips For Successful Baby-Led Weaning

If you wish to try baby-led weaning for your baby, the following tips may help.

  1. Never leave a baby unattended while they are self-feeding. It is necessary to prevent the risk of choking.
  1. Put a bib on your baby before they start feeding. Ensure the bib is big enough to cover them up to the tummy as babies often spill food while trying self-feeding.
  1. Continue feeding breast milk or formula with complementary foods. Breastfeeding or formula feeding should continue up to the age of 12 months, even when the baby is eating solid food. Breastfeeding can continue through toddler hood, depending on the choice of the toddler and the mother.
  1. Avoid baby self-feeding when they are too hungry. It will make a baby eat more food at a time and swallow fast, resulting in gagging or choking. You may nurse your an hour earlier so that their tummy is partially full and they self-feed slowly.
  1. Understand the difference between choking and gagging. It will help you take suitable practical care tips whenever needed.
  1. Give various seasonal foods across meals. The gradual introduction of foods can help a baby adjust to a particular food. It will also help rule out any allergies or intolerances, just like you would do while spoon-feeding.
  1. Offer foods cut in bite-sized pieces or chunks but ensure they aren’t too small to pick. Some babies may grow irritated if they cannot pick their food, making them lose interest and appetite.
  1. Serve only a few pieces of food at a time. Giving too many pieces or giving different foods at once can overwhelm some babies.
  1. Avoid serving foods that are potential choking hazards. Whole nuts, cherries, whole grapes, and apple slices with skin can choke a baby as the baby can’t break them into smaller pieces themselves.
  1. Try a mixed approach wherein you can let the baby self-feed in combination with spoon-feeding. The foods that you can spoon-feed your baby are iron-fortified cereals, pureed meat, and mashed vegetables. These foods are good sources of iron, protein, and other vital nutrients.
  1. Stay alert to signs of allergy. Hives, skin rash, swelling of the mouth, wheezing, vomiting, nausea or vomiting, and diarrhea are some of the common signs of allergy (12).
  1. Be patient and diligent. Baby-led weaning can be messy, requiring you to be patient and supportive to your baby. You can involve your partner or other family members to share responsibilities and supervise a baby while they self-feed.
  1. Make mealtimes fun. Baby-led weaning is all about exploring foods and enjoying their taste. So, let your baby eat and play a little with food. As a parent, you would like to discipline them around food. However, do not be too particular about it since your little one will gradually learn table manners as they grow older.
  1. Do not force your baby to learn self-feeding as you would expect them to. Every baby is different and unique in its way of grasping things. Be supportive and help them understand the basics of self-feeding.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Is baby-led weaning really better?

Several reports suggest that baby-led weaning could improve an infant’s eating patterns. However, the method’s success depends on several factors, including its suitability for families and infants (13). You may check with the doctor and get suggestions based on your baby’s eating habits.

2. Do babies need teeth for baby-led weaning?

Babies may not need teeth for the baby-led weaning technique as they have strong gums to soften foods (14). You may cut the fruits and vegetables into bite-sized pieces and offer them.

3. Is there a science behind baby-led weaning?

A few scientific studies have shown that this weaning approach has positive outcomes, such as babies being less fussy and more satiety-responsive when consuming food. However, further studies are needed to prove its effectiveness in various contexts and populations (10) (15).

Instead of spoon-feeding, newborns begin supplemental feeding by self-feeding in baby-led weaning. Once your baby reaches six months or shows an interest in eating food, you can help them self-wean under supervision. However, you must follow a few simple tips to begin the process securely, such as ensuring that your baby sits in a comfortable position and offering food in age-appropriate size and texture. Moreover, you must continue to offer breast milk to your infant, avoid allowing them to self-feed when they are too hungry, use a mixed approach, and also avoid forcing them to self-wean.

Key Pointers

  • The ability of your baby to sit upright and hold head straight and show interest in eating while others are eating indicate they are ready for self-weaning.
  • Auto weaning enhances a baby’s motor skills and understanding of hunger and satiety cues and reduces picky eating.
  • Giving age-appropriate food and keeping the baby on their feeding table can help start baby-led weaning.


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