175 Flirty Texts For Him To Miss Your Presence

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Flirting is an essential part of a romantic relationship, and flirty text messages for him can draw your partner close to you and spice up your love life. So if you think your relationship needs a booster dose, flirting is the best option. When you flirt with your boyfriend or husband, you keep them thinking about you. They will eagerly wait for your texts and will be excited to meet you in person. Also, flirting can keep the spark alive if you don’t have enough time or opportunities to meet your partner. It lets you draw your partner into a mind game when you send subtle texts and compel them to come up with an even better response. We have listed some best flirty, naughty, and romantic text messages for you to send to your boyfriend or husband. These messages will make your partner fall in love with you all over again.

Sweet Texts For Him

A sweet text from you can make him smile when he is stressed. These texts are sweet and a bit flirty, and can be great for couples who are in a new relationship.

  1. Good morning, handsome!
  1. I dreamt of you last night.
  1. I listened to a romantic song, and it reminded me of you.
  1. I like you a lot. More than a lot, really.
  1. I can’t believe you are still single.
  1. Seeing your name on my phone makes me grin like an idiot.
  1. You make me laugh as no one has done in so many years.
  1. Thinking of you now, right now!
  1. Today would be better if I had you in it.
  1. I can’t seem to get you out of my head!
  1. I can share my pizza and chocolate with you! And you know how much I love them!
  1. I’ve been thinking about you quite a lot, and it’s only 9 am.
  1. I feel like I am the luckiest woman in the whole world because you are with me.
  1. I get butterflies in my stomach just thinking about you.
  1. I do not want to spend a single day without you.
  1. Even your text messages are adorable.
  1. Talking to you makes me feel so much better.
  1. I wish I had met you earlier.
  1. I just woke up with you on my mind.
  1. I want to dream of you tonight.
  1. I can’t wait to kiss you tonight!
  1. Guess what I am wearing now?
  1. I wish you were here to hug me to sleep.
  1. I keep dreaming of you even when I am wide awake.
  1. You are my world. I love you so much.
  1. Thanks for making my day wonderful!
  1. Did you just smile when you saw my name on your screen?
  1. I just checked out your Instagram. You are hot.
  1. Hey, did you see that cute actor in the new show? You remind me of him.
  1. Why are you so sweet?
  1. Goodnight handsome!
  1. I feel safe when I am with you.
  1. You are my dream, my man.
  1. Miss me yet?
  1. Are you up for dinner tonight?

Cute Flirty Texts For Him

If you have been on a couple of dates with a guy and you really like him, you might want to take things to the next level. These cute flirty messages can keep your man hooked on you.

  1. I’ve got an extra ticket for a movie. Interested?
  1. Hey stranger. Talk to me.
  1. I don’t have anything to say but just wanted to talk to you. Hi.
  1. Dinner on me tonight?
  1. Can we start a conversation? I miss talking to you.
  1. I am making something special tonight. Want to come over for dinner?
  1. I am so bored. Come and rescue me.
  1. Everything around me makes me think of you.
  1. I like you more than a lot.
  1. I have been hearing romantic songs since morning, and all songs make me think of you.
  1. Let’s meet this weekend?
  1. It was nice spending time with you. I feel we should do this more often.
  1. I loved the time we spent together yesterday and want to meet you again soon.
  1. Where were you all my life?
  1. I become a happier person when you are with me. Make me happier more often, please?

Flirty Text Messages For Him

Are things moving along fast? These flirty messages for him are bolder than the sweet ones and are more apt when you have established a good rapport with him.

  1. I just picked a new set of innerwear, and I can’t wait to show it to you.
  1. Send me a naughty picture and get one right back.
  1. You tick every box – smart, funny, romantic, AND sexy!
  1. I want to feel your hands moving over my body.
  1. I have been thinking about nothing but you…and I haven’t even left for work yet.
  1. You make me feel hot.
  1. Should we talk about this in person?
  1. I was dreaming about you all day. Didn’t get my work done as a result.
  1. I need you so much right now.
  1. I just got out of the shower.
  1. I am having inappropriate thoughts. It’s all your fault.
  1. You are such a good kisser.
  1. Why don’t you come over right now?
  1. I can’t believe we just spent a whole day together. I just can’t get enough of you.
  1. I love the way your body feels on mine.
  1. I can’t wait to be alone with you.
  1. Send nudes.
  1. I am naked in bed. What about you?
  1. My bed seems empty. Want to fill it up?
  1. Shall we skip work and do something naughty together instead?
  1. Tell me one thing you always wanted to do to me.
  1. You were amazing yesterday! I can’t wait for a repeat performance today.
  1. I grant you one free kiss on any body part you wish. Choose well!
  1. Let us do some things we “should not be doing.”
  1. Why are you so hot?
  1. I woke up sweating and not because it was hot outside.
  1. I just remembered how soft your lips feel on mine.
  1. My thoughts are super inappropriate right now. Want to hear them?
  1. Do you want to mess the bed with me tonight?
  1. I will always be by your side. Or underneath or on top.
  1. I am not wearing any underwear right now. Just saying.
  1. Talk dirty to me.
  1. I should be working, but all I can think of is my hands on your sexy body.
  1. I want to touch you right now.
  1. Do you want a naked bear hug tonight? Yes or yes?
  1. You are such an incredible kisser! I need your lips on mine right now!
  1. What is something you always wanted to do in bed? Let’s do it tonight.
  1. Where do you want me tonight? Over or under?
  1. I love your taste.
  1. I am naked. Want to come over?
  1. You on top of me is the best feeling ever.
  1. You know how exactly to turn me on.
  1. I want ice cream. And you to lick it off from.
  1. Tonight’s dessert is me.
  1. You won’t guess what I am wearing under my clothes right now.
  1. Tonight is your night. We will do whatever you want.
  1. I want you to tie my hands and do things to me.
  1. Is it your birthday today? Because I am your gift, I am waiting to be unwrapped.
  1. Just thinking about when you will be home so that I can feel your body on mine.
  1. I want to tie you up tonight and have my way with you.
  1. Have you made love in a car? Let’s go for a drive tonight.
  1. I was thinking of you kissing me, and I am so turned on right now.
  1. This weekend. You, me, the bed. How does it sound?
  1. I love your touch so much; even thinking about it gets me wet.
  1. Come home early. We will spend time exploring each other slowly.
  1. I wish we were together in my bed right now.
  1. What role do you want us to play tonight?
  1. I wanted to remind you of your appointment in my pants.
  1. Let’s play strip poker.
  1. I am lying on bed and thinking about what I’d do to you if you were here.

Flirty Texts For A Long-term Relationship And Marriage

When you have been in a relationship with him for a long time, the love you share is something special. These texts express your deep love and feelings towards him with a touch of flirtiness. When in a long-term relationship, there is scope for all kinds of messages.

  1. It is difficult to fall asleep without you beside me.
  1. Since you came into my life, I feel everything has gone right.
  1. I want you to myself every single night of my life.
  1. I am thinking of our first kiss.
  1. I can’t wait to kiss you later today.
  1. I wish I could go back in time. I would find you sooner and love you more.
  1. I love it when you hold my hand while crossing the road.
  1. I feel my life with you is absolutely perfect.
  1. We fit like pieces in a jigsaw. Don’t you think?
  1. You are the yin to my yang, and I love you for it.
  1. You have my whole heart forever and ever.
  1. You are my world. Just wanted to let you know.
  1. I love our life together.
  1. I just felt a huge wave of love for you.
  1. What do you want me to wear tonight?
  1. I am eagerly waiting for you, counting each minute to see you.
  1. I love to see your face the first thing every morning.
  1. You are the most important person in my life.
  1. How do you manage to look better every time I see you?
  1. You work so hard. I am so proud of you.
  1. I still can’t believe that someone so incredible like you is with me.
  1. Our love story is not the perfect one, but it gets as close as possible.
  1. You matter the most to me.
  1. You are so handsome.
  1. I love it when you take me in your arms.
  1. You looked gorgeous today morning when you stepped out of the shower.
  1. Let us go on a date to the place we went to on our first date?
  1. Our fairytale has only one ending…happily ever after.
  1. Your touch does things to me that I cannot describe.
  1. Your kiss still sets off butterflies in my stomach.
  1. I just can’t get enough of you even after so many years.
  1. I am so glad you are always by my side to share my good and bad moments.
  1. I was thinking of the day we first met. It was the best day of my life.
  1. You are always on my mind.
  1. Hey there, sexy!

Feel-Good Text Messages For Him

These text messages will act as stress busters and even help strengthen your relationship after a fight or a particularly bad day at work.

  1. Don’t worry if I fight with you. Worry if I stop. Because that means there is nothing left to fight for.
  1. Even when we fight, I love you.
  1. You do so many things that I love.
  1. You are perfect, and I don’t want you to know that. That’s why I fight with you.
  1. I want all of you with all your imperfections.
  1. I am sorry you are having a hard day. Will a kiss make you feel better?
  1. You are so perfect, even on such an imperfect day.
  1. Life can get hard, but when we are together, we can overcome even the greatest difficulties.
  1. No matter what happens, I will always love you.
  1. You make me know what love feels like.
  1. I can’t imagine not having you in my life.
  1. You are in my heart, and I never want you to leave.
  1. Tomorrow will be as perfect as you are.
  1. You are special to me.
  1. You are my hero, no matter what.
  1. I miss you.
  1. We are meant to be together despite all the fights. Who could be more perfect than us?
  1. I wish you were here or I was there or we were together somewhere.
  1. I know I don’t tell this to you every day, but you mean the world to me.
  1. You make me want to let you know how much I love you every day.
  1. I want to spoil you silly.
  1. Even on your worst day, I want to be the woman who can bring a smile to your face.
  1. You might be stressed out. But know this, that you are still the sunshine of my life.
  1. I love how you appreciate every little thing I do for you.
  1. You make me want to prove to the world that we are made for each other.
  1. The way you look at me when you think I am not looking is my favorite.
  1. You stole my heart, and now I am yours.
  1. These five emojis will tell you how I am feeling about you right now.
  1. I really like being with you. I think I am a very lucky woman.
  1. I love you.

Flirting is an effective way to add some spice to your relationship and convey your deepest feelings. So pick one or more of these flirty text messages for him and share them with your boyfriend or husband. These short yet naughty and sweet messages will make your partner feel loved and put a smile on his face. So keep them busy with your memories and make them miss you hard with these flirty messages that convey what you can’t tell them in person.

Infographic: Flirty Text A Guy

You can’t stop gushing about him, and he’s on your mind 24×7! You want him to get a hint about your feelings but are not sure how? Scroll through this infographic, choose a fun, flirty riddle, and slide it into his chatbox.

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