How To Keep Him Interested In You: 15 Secret Tips

How To Keep Him Interested In You: 15 Secret Tips

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If your beloved cares for you in every way, you may also want to do something special for him. While there are tons of ideas available about how men can charm the love of their lives, let’s also take a look at what women can do for their better halves.

It’s not always about buying expensive gifts. Simple gestures or actions can make him fall for you again.

Keep reading this post as we share some tips to keep him interested and keep the spark in the relationship alive.

Ways To Keep Him Interested

These tips don’t mean you have to change yourself for your partner. They are meant to help you highlight your attributes and apply them for your man as much as he does for you.

1. Don’t be over-possessive

Everyone needs some private space even when they are in a relationship. Support him, but don’t judge him or raise suspicions when he talks to other women, be it in person or on social media. When you love your partner, let him be himself the same way he gives you freedom. It helps you have a healthy relationship.

2. Show your cooking skills

Food can be a way to a man’s heart. That’s a common adage and holds true for most men. You can try cooking or baking some of his favorite dishes to excite him. It doesn’t have to be absolutely perfect every time. It’s your kindness and thoughtfulness that counts the most. If you’re not into cooking, you can buy him some delicious goodies or take him to his favorite food joint.

3. Support him in his interests

Everyone desires a partner who understands, appreciates, and supports them. This can be effortlessly done by showing interest in his hobbies or activities. It doesn’t mean you have to participate in his hobbies since they may not be to your cup of tea. But you can listen to him, encourage him, and help him pursue his desires. You can also share with him the latest updates and resources relevant to his interests.

4. Be your unique self

Every person should be strong and independent in their own way. One of the easiest ways to keep him interested is by being interesting in your special way. Recall what made him fall for you and your attributes that impressed him. Be yourself, and his love will always stay the same for you.

5. Appreciate him

It’s not just women who like to hear compliments. Men do, too. Express your feelings for him and let him know why you love him so much. Make him feel special. Praise him for his qualities, and appreciate him whenever he helps you out. Those simple words can go a long way and make him hooked to you forever.

6. Stay positive

When you have a positive and happy mindset, some of it trickles to your man, as well. Of course, it is not always possible to have a smile on your face since life brings its share of low moments. But when you take each experience in a positive stride, you let yourself shine in your partner’s eyes. All that positivity and zeal will make him even more enticed with you.

7. Be respectful

Respect your partner, whether you are alone or in public. Don’t criticize him, don’t use harsh words, and don’t shout at him. Talk politely, even if you are angry. If you sense that you are becoming annoyed, then have a discussion in private. Remember the golden rule. Treat him the way that you want to be treated.

8. Be playful

Stay playful, and your partner will love to be around you. Hug him, give him surprises, and play with him. Create beautiful memories with him so that he misses you when you are not around. Be cheerful and keep showing him your bright side. Your positivity will draw others towards you, especially your man.

9. Indulge in intellectual discussions

Having intelligent conversations is another way to form a deep connection with your partner.Show your studios side by discussing current events, career goals, and future plans. It is an excellent way to learn more about each other. Try to understand his thought process, and bring him closer to you.

10. Be truthful

Truthfulness is one of the essential characteristics of a healthy relationship. When you are open and honest, your guy will find that he can trust and rely on you. It is an attribute that any partner would value and appreciate. So, be genuine at all times.

11. Charm him with love

Create a seductive ambiance around yourself so that your boyfriend or husband is hooked to your sensuousness. Make love to him, cuddle, and hug him. You can enchant him with your words and actions, too. Just make sure you do whatever is most comfortable for you and for him.

12. Try new things

Your partner may enjoy seeing you involved in a variety of activities, such as sports, baking, painting, or planning trips. Stay open and adventurous. When you are open-minded and keep yourself engaged, your life becomes exciting. When your life is exciting, you become more attractive, which in turn will make you more interesting.

13. Laugh together

A couple looks perfect when they laugh and enjoy each other’s company. When you laugh together, it shows your like-mindedness. Such quality will lay a strong foundation for your relationship, and your partner will look forward to enjoying more fun moments with you.

14. Know his friends

You can meet his friends and get along with them, too. Try to know who his close friends are, his school friends and friends he trusts the most. It doesn’t mean that you have to be with him and his friends every time they’re together. Showing interest in his friend circle is about validating his social skills, making him appreciate you even further.

15. Be the source of peace

After spending most of their time at work, people look for peace at home. You can be his haven of peace. Avoid questions that may give the impression that you are nagging him or trying to be a controlling partner. Instead, give him some ‘alone time.’ You can save your discussions for later when he wants to talk. Creating a peaceful aura around yourself is good for your relationship and will also draw him close to you.

When both the partners make equal efforts, the fruits of a balanced relationship can be enjoyed. Making effortless gestures and special attempts for each other would make your bond stronger, healthier, and happier. Try to incorporate the tips we have shared and keep your partner interested in you, even when you are far away from each other.

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Andrea Riley

Andrea Riley is a TV talk show host, blogger, podcaster, author, certified life coach, certified trauma healing facilitator, licensed relationship instructor, certified biblical counselor, licensed minister, and keynote speaker. She co-founded the Marriage Service Technicians with her husband, Clifton, in 2008. Their mission is to ‘equip relationships with tools to go the distance’. They use comparisons between maintaining cars with... more

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