21 Clear Signs Of A Libra Man In Love With You

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Do you have a libra man in love with you? Then you may be wondering what his likes and dislikes are. We are here to help you answer those questions. Libra is an air sign and is known to be an exceptionally good listener and observer. They can give you insights into things that others may not understand at all.

Such attributes make them woo people easily and charm them. However, most of the time, they state things to impress others. Thus, their opinions or care toward you might not be entirely genuine. It is also difficult to figure out what is happening inside their minds because of their friendly talks or sweet banter.

In the case of romantic relationships, they make it easier for the women to approach them and initiate the first move due to their romantic and expressive nature. But, at times, there might be some confusion while reading their signs owing to their nature.

To understand further, here is a simple yet fun list of libra man traits who might be in love with you. Please note that these traits are based on the western astrological signs and do not refer to someone personally.

21 Signs A Libra Man Is In Love With You

We’ve identified some of the key facets of Libra men’s personalities and how they May behave when they are with someone they love. Look out for these signs to get an idea if a Libra man sees you as a friend or something more.

1. He is happy with you around

He is happy with you around

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While this might seem cliche, it is true for Libras as they are expressive. If you are that special someone who brightens up his day and makes him happy, you are likely to see him smiling when you enter the room. Smiling is one of the most natural expressions of joy, and it shows up on the face of a Libra man instantly if he likes your company.

2. He goes out of his way to spend time with you

Libras are innately romantic and tend to put themselves out there when it comes to relationships. It means that Libra men will make a more significant effort to meet someone and spend time if they have a romantic interest in them. It could be something as simple as him going out of his way to drop or pick you up or staying late to join you in activities of your interest. Sometimes, he might drop in to see you even if you aren’t expecting him.

3. He’s always his best self around you

It doesn’t mean he’s two-faced or being someone else for your sake. Libra men wear their best behavior when they’re around someone they love. Whether it’s showcasing their exquisite manners, trying to make you laugh, or simply being the best version of himself, a Libra man is always at his peak to impress his love interest.

4. He shows interests in you

Libra men are romantic, and when they fall in love, they fall hard. He might be willing to talk or meet you at short notice, or you notice him answering your calls and texts immediately, even if you’re texting late at odd hours. As a Libra in love, he lives for the moments where he gets to be with you or talk to you. Look for these subtle signs in his behavior, and you will know if he is attracted to you.

5. He only has eyes for you

He only has eyes for you

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Once a Libra guy starts loving you, he won’t see other girls romantically. While they might notice someone physically attractive, they would not stare or engage with them in any manner. If you see a Libra man consciously not responding to attention from a beautiful woman, there’s a good chance he’s in love with you.

6. He doesn’t shy away from emotional attachment

While many play it cool and detached in the dating game, Libra men are seldom this way. They will express how much your presence means to them. If a Libra guy likes you, he would not waste much time and makes it easy for you to guess.

7. He gives and expects total commitment

While cat and mouse games are common in the early stages of dating, Libra men are usually direct when it comes to love. They are relatively straightforward. You would rarely find them flirting with other women and show their commitment towards you. If he likes you, you can find him visibly hurt or jealous if you’re flirting with other men. You become his priority, and he expects the same from you.

8. His happiness is centered around yours

Libras are empathetic. When a Libra man finds you upset, he would listen to your problems and try to help out and cheer you up. He would make efforts to bring a smile to your face. If a Libra man is always there for you when you are at your lowest, he is likely in love with you and doesn’t want you to feel low.

9. He involves himself in your issues and tries to sort them out

Libra men like to be a part of their romantic interest’s lives on a deeper level and are always ready to help. It is not just a tactic to woo you but a general indication of their nature. They would listen to your problems and try to make things better wherever possible. Don’t be surprised if he tries to make your day better in the event he can’t help you. It’s his way of showing you he loves you.

10. He engages with your social circle

He engages with your social circle

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When we pursue a relationship, it’s natural to want to know the person’s family and close friends. Libras take this to a whole different level. They want to be on their best behavior and impress your family and friends. It’s like declaring to the world that he is interested in you and is pursuing you—something men often do to keep the competition away at a subconscious level.

11. He is patient when it comes to signals

You might think you’re making it clear to a Libra man that you are also interested, and he should make his move—a Libra won’t see it as such. Given how much importance they give to permanence and commitment, it’s perfectly natural for him to take his time to fully process these signs and then articulate his emotions to you.

If a Libra isn’t responding to apparent signs, it doesn’t mean he’s not interested. Rather, it’s quite the opposite! He will commit to you fully when he is sure that there is a concrete future to your relationship, and it will be worth the wait.

12. He knows you better than you do

Libras are excellent conversationalists by nature. And their desire to spend time with someone they love leads them to a better understanding of that person at every level. If he is in love with you, he will remember the smallest details about you—food preferences, allergies, your first pet’s name, the first time you met, and many other things that make you think they might sometimes know you better than you do!

13. His plans involve you

When a Libra man discusses his future with someone he loves, she is bound to feature in all of them. It might not even be intentional as Libras are honest to a fault. You might find this manifesting in ways when he says you both should take a trip or he wants to settle down with someone who is like you in terms of character and behavior. Libras are incredibly invested in romance and will typically see a relationship through to a long time.

14. He frequently reaches out to you

It could be frequent visits or outings or something as simple as texting or calling often. Libras are romantic to the point of being nearly obsessive when they are in love, and that can be seen in how often they reach out to you. While they may prefer to meet in person or call you, they will also message or text you often. If the first thing you see when you wake up or before you go to bed is a text from him, there’s a good chance he’s in love with you.

15. He’s an excellent listener

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You might notice that your Libra friends seem to know you well, and that’s not just something that magically happens. Libras are instinctively good listeners, especially when the person talking is their romantic interest. If you want to talk about a passion, a hobby, your career goals, or vent your frustration at the end of a difficult day, you will always find a good listener in a Libra. If he is still there when you want someone to talk to and listen to, he is likely in love with you.

16. He is patient when it comes to relationships

Libras take their time when it comes to relationships. While they may not move fast, they will move when they are sure. A relationship is a big commitment to Libras, and they want to take time to get to know you before committing. Prepare for a more extended than usual courtship period with a Libra man before he confesses his emotions, but expect the result to be fruitful.

17. He praises you

Libras respond well to positive reinforcement. They appreciate compliments and give them when they mean them. They are receptive to praise and feedback and accordingly adjust their habits. Just be careful to encourage them to hold onto their own desires and passions because they can easily lose track of who they are in relationship. If you tell a Libra man you like something that he does and find him doing it more often, he’s likely in love with you!

18. He is optimistic

Libras have a positive mindset. They tend to be optimistic about most things you discuss, such as career and health. Most importantly, if the man you like is confident about your relationship’s future, there is a good chance he likes you.

19. He engages you in serious discussions

If you’re regularly talking to a man about the meaning of life, art, philosophy, or even your place in the universe, there’s a good chance it’s a Libra! They are good listeners and great conversationalists who love to exchange thoughts and opinions on a myriad of mutual interest topics. If a Libra man is opening up to you about his innermost thoughts and life philosophy, he must be in love with you.

20. He wants you to push him

He wants you to push him

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While Libras may seem secure about who they are, they often want to be with someone who complements their personalities and challenge them. They will be open to someone they love and want to push them to better themselves. If he likes you, he will take your suggestions positively. It opens the doors for both of you to improve and grow together as a couple.

21. He picks up on small signs

Libras tend to be good judges of character. It is even more evident when it is about their romantic interest. Once a Libra man gets to know the person he loves, he will start to pick up on the smallest signs. The keen insight into your behavior is a big part of what informs him about you. If he can pick up on things that you aren’t even saying directly or might not have realized yourself, that’s a good sign he’s in love with you.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How long does it take a Libra to fall in love?

Venus, the goddess of love, rules Libra in the zodiac system. In other words, Libras take pleasure in relationships, passion, and love. They enjoy the pursuit, and Libras understand the signs of being chased. Libras are not quick, and to fall in love, they might need some time to understand the other person thoroughly. And, before making any commitments, Libras want to ensure that the relationship is right for them.

2. What kind of women do Libra men like?

Romantic gestures are Libra’s primary love language, and they have a beautifully charming personality that women find attractive. Libra men are often attracted to women who dress classy, are witty, intellectual, fun-loving, and most importantly, honest and fair. Libra is compatible mainly with Leo, Aquarius, Sagittarius, and Gemini.

It is not much difficult to identify a Libra man in love. Libras are fairly straightforward when it comes to romance. However, they may not express their feelings or drop any hints unless they are sure about a steady future in the relationship. If a Libra man makes efforts to put a smile on your face, impress your family and friends, and avoid responding to attention from other women, he may be in love with you. Besides love and affection, such a relationship forms the basis for a wonderful exchange of ideas, support, and advice.

Key Pointers

  • A libra man is sweet to all, but he may go the extra mile for you in love.
  • Being extra observant of you, respecting your decisions, and making time for you indicate his romantic feelings for you.
  • Libra man in love can be highly optimistic and shares a deeper bond with you.
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Rohan Sinha

Rohan was an HR analyst before transitioning into a freelance writer/ editor. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration with a specialization in Human Resources from Christ University, Bangalore, and previously worked as an analyst in Goldman Sachs. Having also worked in a media and post-production firm, he has special interest in films. Rohan is an avid reader with... more

Catie Cadge

Catie Cadge began her journey with astrology three decades ago. In 2014, she pursued more formal training as an evolutionary astrologer through the Steven Forrest Apprenticeship Program. She completed a master’s certificate with Steven Forrest in 2016.  She is now serving as Dean of Instruction for the Forrest Center For Evolutionary Astrology.