Long Distance Relationship: 45 Love Letters For Him

In today’s world, driven by technology, handwritten letters have almost become extinct. In this post, we bring examples of some heartfelt and romantic long-distance relationship letters for him. While many of us keep texting, sending emails, voice calling, or video calling, receiving a handwritten letter in the mail can make one feel very special. A beautiful handwritten note or card with some beautiful, tender moments or memories of the past and promises for the future can surely make your guy’s face light up and make him feel important and valued. In a personal letter, you can surprise your beau with loving words that express your devotion to him. This will assure him that the physical distance between the two of you does not affect your bond. You may take inspiration from one of these beautiful handwritten letters below. Scroll down.

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45 Long-Distance Relationship Letters For Him

“I Miss You” Letters For Him

Tell him with a letter if he is your morning's first thought

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1. Darling

Darling, this is just a reminder that you are my first thought in the morning and my last thought before I fall asleep. No minute passes by when I do not sigh, wanting to be near you, with you. I know you are out there chasing your dreams, and I am here trying to make a life of my own. However, I’m yearning for you and cannot stop missing you terribly. You are a part of everything I do because I hold you close to my heart.

Love you always and forever

(Your name)

2. My dearest love

Today, I was at the supermarket when a couple in front of me stood holding hands. I immediately thought of you and the warmth you shared with me whenever it got chilly during the winter months. The packet of ramen on the shelf reminded me of the annoying slurping sound you make while eating. I almost bought a beer box when I realized that the one who drinks it all isn’t waiting at home. Everything around me reminds me of you. No matter where I look or what I do, you are always with me. I miss you every moment of every single day.

Your love

(Your name)

3. Dear (Nickname)

Waking up alone is the worst thing ever. I feel as though the days without you have been stretching so long. It’s almost unbearable.

But know this, my sincere love, I am proud of what you are doing, and you always have my full support. I miss you like crazy, but I find solace because you are happy doing what you love doing the most. You are where you always wanted to be, and I am truly happy for you.

All I wish for is to meet you soon to make up for all the time we missed being together. I hope to see you soon!

Your darling

(Your name)

4. Hi handsome!

It feels weird to wake up at sunrise and not see your smile. And it feels wrong to see the stars twinkle in the sky and not share the moment with you. I miss you so much, my love. You have no idea how I long to see you again and caress your handsome face. Multiply the distance between us with infinity, and whatever you get is how much I miss you.

I feel blessed to have you in my life, and even though we do not see each other every day, I know we are there for each other. You are the center of my universe, and no matter where you are, my heart will always point in your direction. Know that I am always devoted to you.

Love you lots.

(Your name)

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TouchNote is an app for long-distance couples that helps you make customized postcards with pictures and personal messages.

5. Hi honey

You realize you have a deep bond whenever you think of him

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Even though we are miles away from each other, I feel the deep bond we share each time I think of you. I miss your wet kisses, tenderness, and warm hugs. I miss the way you act funny, just to make me laugh. I miss the way we talk about anything and everything under the sun. I miss the way your eyes twinkle with passion. And I miss the way you bite your upper lip when you are up to some mischief.

But I know we both have to be strong if we want to make our dreams come true. And I hope we’ll soon be together, never to be separated again.

Love you, my darling.

(Your nickname)

6. Hi babe

If absence makes the heart grow fonder, then I think I hold all the ‘fondness’ in the world for you. Each day spent without you feels like years. I know we promised to stay strong, but sometimes I cannot help wishing you were here to hold me and tell me that everything will be alright. Watching Netflix alone is no fun, and even my favorite fried chicken feels tasteless without you. I miss you from the bottom of my heart and yearn for the day I’d see you again.

Take care, my love.

(Your name)

7. Dear (Nickname)

It has been exactly 286 days, 13 hours, and 15 minutes since you left the city, which means I have to brave it out another 250 days till I can finally have you in my arms. Whenever I miss you, I hug your Lakers’ jersey and try to sleep, hoping to see you in my dreams.

I hope you are happy in your new place. Do not worry about me, as your love is enough for me to get through these days of physical separation. Though I miss you terribly, I want you to know that I am there with you and would like you to come back to me only after you have completed the task you set out to achieve. I want you to know I have always been appreciative of your endless support for me. Now it’s my time to support you. All the best, my dear. See you soon.

(Your name)

8. Dear (Name)

My heart aches for you even as I sit here and type these things. Every day without you feels incomplete because of how far apart we seem to be. I long for your warmth in the form of your embrace, laughing, and smile. Without you here with me, the nights are lonely. Please understand that even though we are separated, I am constantly thinking of and loving you. I look forward to the time when we will be reunited and I will be able to hug you again.

Please know that I miss you more and more every day until then.

All of my love,

(Your Name)

9. My Lovely (His Name)

I wanted to let you know in writing how much I miss you. I now understand how silly and harmful my statements were after our most recent dispute. There is a deafening quiet between us, and I want for your presence, your pardon, and the opportunity to put things right. I miss our shared love, the way you make me laugh, and your presence in my life. I’m hoping we can move on from this and reconnect as soon as possible.

With regret and affection,

(Your Name)

10. Honey

Without you, my days are filled with an awful emptiness. I miss your knowledge, your direction, and your unflinching assistance. I find myself missing the sound of your voice and the security of being in your presence because your absence causes a gap that will never be filled. Wherever you are, I hope you understand how much I miss you and value the times we spent together.
With tears and love,

(Your Name)

11. My Love

Without you by my side, life simply doesn’t feel the same. I dearly miss our trips, our late-night conversations, and your contagious laughter. I miss how you brighten up a room and how you always manage to put a smile on my face. There is a lot I want to tell you, so I hope we will meet soon. Keep in mind that I’m thinking of you right now and that you are being missed more than you can imagine.

With love and desire,

(Your Name)

12. Greetings, Dear (Name)

Without you, these days seem to go on forever. Even though I am confident that we will soon be reunited, I want you to know how much I still miss you. Without you here, the house feels empty, and I miss the little pleasures we frequently take for granted. Everything about you is greatly missed, whether it be your warm morning hugs or the sound of your laughter. Till we can reunite, I’m counting down the days, with eagerness and love,

(Your Name)

Romantic Love Letters For Him

There are different ways to convey your feelings through letters. An anonymous female blogger shares that one can get creative writing love letters in a long-distance relationship. She says, “Because mail can take a while to get from here to England I thought it would be nice to send a package that contained 7 envelopes so that he could open one each day for a week. It would give us both something to look forward to and talk about each day: for him he would find either a cute or sexy surprise with a letter, and I (with great anticipation) would get to see which envelope he opened. He absolutely loved it 🙂 (i).”

We bring you some inspirational letters that you may use to write for your prince.

13. Hey (Nickname)

You are my sun and my moon that light up my world.
You are the ketchup to my fries and the guacamole to my nachos.
You are the Noah to my Allie and Harry to my Sally.
You are the William to my Kate.
You are the Jay-Z to my Beyoncé.
You are the iOS to my Apple and Windows to my Dell.
You are the tint to my lipstick and glimmer to my gloss.
You are my everything.

Love you lots!

(Your name)

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Couples in long-distance relationships often find it hard to deal with missing each other and the loneliness that comes with it. Love letters can help you express your feelings better and stay connected with your partner.

14. Dear (Name)

We bicker and fight when we are together, and now that you are away, I feel so lonely without you. I now realize how much I love you. I remember how you’d start laughing in the middle of a fight or buy me ice cream to make up with me or hug me in bed to tell me you still love me.

Your gentle touch, your sweet voice, and your sweet scent still linger on and keep me going. I wish I could make you come back sooner. Our correspondence is a lifeline, connecting our hearts across the distance I love you, baby. I always will.

(Your nickname)

15. My dear

I hope to meet you and hug you soon

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I hope you are well. I’m writing to you to tell you that I pledge my heart to you. I promise to give this relationship my all and make it work despite the distance. I think of you each day, my love.

I now see how incomplete my life feels without you, and I’m glad that our time apart has cleared my mind of any doubts. I want you to know that I wish the best for you no matter where you are. I hope to meet you and hug you soon.


(Your name)

16. Dear (Name)

I have never been able to say this when you were here, but this distance between us has pushed me to pour my heart to you. I want you to know that despite being surrounded by loneliness, the only thing that keeps me sane is your love.

It is very easy to feel bogged down by adversities, but I keep afloat because your love consumes my entirety. With you, in my life, there is nothing that I cannot overcome. You bring so much positivity in my life that negativity does not even look in my direction. I never said this before but know that you are the love of my life, and I hope to spend an eternity with you.

(Your nickname)

17. My Romeo

Where are you? Your memories have taken over my life, and I cannot stop thinking about you. I feel like dwelling in your love all the time. Thank you for erasing the pain from my life and filling it with your love.

At times, we may fight like bitter enemies, but deep down, we both know we hate being away from each other. Each time I step out, my eyes look out for you even though I know you are miles away. You belong to me, my darling, and I to you. We are meant for each other. You are the very essence of my existence, and every word written carries the depth of my devotion.

I hope to see you soon.

(Your nickname)

18. Dear (Name)

I thought I could fall in love only with a certain type of man, but then you happened and turned my life upside down. Thank you for it because life seems so beautiful now. I have fallen so hard for you that even your flaws seem cute to me. Like a moth attracted to a flame that ends up destroying itself, I feel completely consumed in your love only to rise like the Phoenix full of happiness and excitement.

I now advise people to fall in love as it gives you the ultimate high like nothing else. Come back to me soon, baby. I wish to shower you with my love and attention.


19. My love

All my worries seemed insignificant from the time I fell in love with you. It feels like your love is the ultimate solution to everything. When I’m happy, I think of you. When I’m lonely, I think of you. Even when I’m angry, I think of you, and everything seems to dissipate as your love takes over.

I feel I’m the luckiest girl in the world to have a wonderful man like you in my life. You are the most amazing person I know, and my strength to face this distance comes from you. I cannot wait to drown you in my love. See you soon.

20. My Sweet (Name)

I find myself yearning for the warmth of your touch and the sound of your laughter as the days go by without you by my side. Physical separation may exist between us, yet our relationship is only made stronger by distance. I am always reminded of how much you mean to me whenever I am apart from you. In order to make up for all the squandered opportunities, I can’t wait to hold you in my arms once again.

Please know that you are constantly on my mind and forever in my heart till that day comes. While distance may put our love to the test, it will always win out.

Yours always,

(Your Name)

21. My Dear (Name)

I close my eyes every night and imagine a time when we always wake up next to each other and the distance between us is gone. The light of our love brightens the darkness of this long-distance journey for me. I picture us walking hand in hand, exchanging secrets, and creating lifelong memories.

Our love endures despite our distance from one another, and I will always be grateful that you are in my life. Keep in mind that until we achieve all of our dreams, my love for you knows no limits.

I sincerely apologize

(Your Name)

22. Dear (Name)

Even the darkest of days may be made brighter by your smile and with each passing second, I miss it more and more. My memory of the joy you bring into my life is echoed by the melody of your laughing. Physical separation may keep us apart, but it will never dim the light you provide to my life.

My love, don’t stop smiling; your happiness makes me happy. Know that you are always on my mind till I get to see that radiant smile in person.

Love you forever,

(Your Name)

23. My Sweet (Name)

Your voice is a lifeline that connects us, bridging the distance between us. Every time we speak, it feels like you are sitting right here next to me, and for those little, priceless moments, distance loses its hold over my emotions. Your laughter is my favorite tune, and your words are the most beautiful symphony.

I cannot wait to hold you close, hear your voice in person, and speak all the things I’ve been holding back for you. Please know that I look forward to hearing from you till then.

Always yours,

(Your Name)

24. My Dear

Our relationship is bound together with threads of love, trust, and hope, like a gorgeous tapestry. Distance can weaken these bonds, but it only strengthens and deepens our love. We can feel so close even though we are on opposite sides of the world, and I am continually in awe of the magic of our connection.

I am grateful for you and the affection we share every day. Since you are the object of my affection, I eagerly anticipate the day when we will be able to spend time together and add even more romantic moments to our love story.

I adore you so much, [Your Name]

25. Dear (Name)

I’m finding myself keeping track of the days, hours, and minutes left till I can feel your presence in my arms again. I am getting closer to the time when the distance will be a distant memory and you will be right here with me with every second that goes by. I can’t wait for our reunion because our love is a countdown to that unforgettable moment.

Until then, please know that I am continuously thinking of you and giving you all of my love.

Yours always,

(Your Name)

26. My Sweet (Name)

Even in the presence of powerful winds and far-off coasts, our love continues to burn brightly. Regardless of how far away we are, our love is unchanging and unwavering. It is evidence of how closely we are connected and how intensely we feel.

Despite the distance separating us, I want you to know that your heart and mine are in perfect harmony. I can tolerate this separation because of our love’s tenacity and the knowledge that it will only last for a short while.

All of my love,

(Your Name)

27. My Dear (Name)

Although distance keeps us physically apart, it cannot take away the priceless memories we have made together. Every moment we have shared is etched in my heart, and I take them everywhere I go, like priceless gems. The things that keep me going are your smile, your touch, and the love we have developed.

We have wonderful memories together, and they give me hope for the future when we might make even more special ones. Keep in mind that I’ll always have you on my mind and in my heart until then.

Love you forever,

(Your Name)

28. Hello (Name)

No matter how far apart we are, our love is a strong force that can withstand anything. It is a love that transcends distances, boundaries, and oceans. As we face the difficulties posed by being apart, our love just deepens with each new day.
I want you to know that I am dedicated to making this relationship work, to closing the distance between us, and to bridging the gap that exists. I’m eager to see you again since our relationship is worth every effort.

Yours forever,

“[Your Name]”

29. My Sweet (Name)

You are my constant, my anchor, and my one and only in this chaotic, uncertain world. You are always in my heart, leading me through life’s obstacles with your love, no matter where I am or how far away I am.

I look forward to the day when our distance between us is no longer an issue, but in the meantime, I’ll cherish my memories of you and our shared affection. You are everything to me, and I adore you more and more every day.

I sincerely apologize,

(Your Name)

30. My Dear (Name)

I can’t help but think of the distance separating us while I sit here and write out my thoughts. They say that distance makes the heart grow fonder, and I can’t help but feel my love for you grow stronger with every mile that separates us.

Even though the days without you are long, the idea of our future reunion keeps me going. I look forward to the time when I can embrace you, gaze into your eyes, and express to you how much I’ve missed you.

Please know that you are the center of my universe, the reason I smile, and the reason I am happy till that day comes.

All of my love,

(Your Name)

“I Love You” Letters For Him

31. Sweetheart

Long-distance relationship letters for him

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You will be happy to know I fixed the garage shelf today. I know I shouldn’t be bragging about it, but I feel like an achiever. Well, thanks to you, you have transformed me, and I love this version of myself. Falling in love with you has made me see my true self. And I wish for nothing but the best for you.

Continue working hard, and one day, all your dreams will come true. You deserve all the happiness in the world, and I hope I can make you happy too. And no matter where you are, remember that I will always love you.



32. Honey

Here’s another letter to remind you that I love you and I am thinking about you. I love the way you look at me; it makes me feel beautiful and precious. I love the way you kiss me. I love your geeky nature; it assures me that you will always have a solution to all my silly problems. I love your handsome face; it makes my heart race. And finally, I love you making me feel special every day, every second. You are the most special person in my life, and I can never stop loving you.

Love you loads.


33. Hey Prince Charming!

My days and nights feel incomplete without you, but I know it is only a matter of time, and this longing will be over soon. I know you are working hard to secure our future, which makes me fall in love with you all the more. I want to tell you that you will always be the one in my heart. Keep going, my love. I will wait for you, no matter how long it takes.

Your love


34. Dear love

Sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and wonder why I am beaming with joy for no apparent reason. Then it dawns upon me that thinking about you brings this glow to my face. Remember the first time we met? It feels like yesterday. Back then, I never once thought you would one day become so important to me. I’m writing this letter to tell you that ‘I love you.’ And no matter how far we are from each other, my feelings for you will never change.

Love you always and forever


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Decorate your love letter with different colors or gilt pens. A nice presentation of the letter can make a big difference, and your partner will surely appreciate your efforts.

35. Dear (Nickname)

I wish you could feel my heartbeat whenever you smile.
I wish you could see the twinkle in my eyes whenever you are around.
I wish you could sense my skin tingle under your warm touch.
I wish you could feel my love for you despite this distance between us.
Yes, I love you more than you can imagine, and I know we are just meant to be.

I love you


36. Love

When I think about us, I wonder if we can keep going, with this distance between us. I then remember the wonderful times we spent together, and I cannot be more sure that we are simply perfect together. You may annoy me by blowing air bubbles in your glass like a little kid, but you also put me to sleep on days when I am feeling down. You never remember to take out the trash, but you always get my favorite cake for my birthday. There is absolutely no doubt that I love you. I love you and accept you with your flaws and strengths.

Hugs and kisses


37. Dear

Collect your beloved's love letters

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Do you know that you are the most attractive man I have ever met? I have never encountered a man as handsome as you, and I cannot believe you are mine. I don’t say this too often, so here it is: I Love You! I love you the way you are, and I would never change anything about you — not even your loud snores at night. It is what makes you ‘you.’ I love you. All of you!


38. My Sweet (Name)

Every day that goes by, my love for you grows. Physical separation may keep us apart, but it will never lessen my love for you. My heart aches to be with you more each time we are apart. I treasure the memories we have made together and look forward to the ones we will make when we are together again. In the meantime, keep in mind that I always carry your affection with me.
Yours always,

(Your Name)

39. Sweetheart

My thoughts are with you from the moment I wake up till I close my eyes at night. I genuinely love you, and being apart only makes our relationship stronger. Despite the distance between us, our love readily spans it. I look forward to the day when we can be in each other’s arms once more since you are everything to me.
my entire love,

(Your Name)

40. Dearest

No distance will ever lessen my affection for you. It only makes me value our shared moments even more. I want you to know that I appreciate your affection and that it keeps me going every day. I’m looking forward to the time when we can actually meet in person as well as just in spirit. Know that I’m thinking of you constantly till then.
forever yours,

(Your Name)

41. Darling

I hope you are doing well as I write this. I want you to know that you are loved beyond what words can say. While being apart may be difficult, it simply strengthens our love. I am reminded of how much you mean to me every day we are apart. My love, the days leading up to our reunion are being counted.

I sincerely apologize

(Your Name)

42. My Sweetheart

Today, as I do every day, I want to express my unwavering love for you. Even though distance separates us, my love for the person still remains unwavering. Even though we are separated by miles, I am thankful for our love and eagerly anticipate the day we will be reunited.

Always yours,

(Your Name)

43. Darling

I cannot stop thinking about you all the time. In my life, especially during these moments of separation, your love serves as a beacon of direction. I have enjoyed every minute we have had together and am looking forward to the ones we’ll have when we’re back together. You are the love of my life now and forever, I promise.

My entire love,

(Your Name)

44. My Beloved (Name)

Although the distance may put us to the test, our love for one another will endure. I am thankful for our relationship and I love you more and more every day. I look forward to seeing you again and hugging you. Until then, know that you have my undivided attention.

Forever yours,

(Your Name)

45. Sweetie

Despite the distance between us, my love for you has no limits. You are the center of my affection, and I long for you constantly. We can’t wait until we are all back together. Please know that I love you more and more every day till that day comes.

I sincerely apologize,

(Your Name)

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How to express love in a long-distance relationship letter?

You talk to your partner daily, but you might not be able to express your love. Sometimes, you could pen down a love letter or a missive to share your emotions and the best experiences with them. If you are creative, you could write poetry or create a romantic story and send it across through a letter. Otherwise, you may take inspiration from the sample romantic letters and merge your thoughts. The idea is to make your long-distance partner feel loved and adored.

2. How do I write a love letter to my girlfriend in a long-distance relationship?

You could use quotes, poems, or jokes and create a fun and heart-warming letter for your long-distance girlfriend. The more you share your feelings, the happier your girlfriend will be as she reads the beautiful words filled with admiration. You could appreciate her and even express what you are looking forward to doing once you meet, so the distance and time between you pass quickly.

3. How often should I write letters to my long-distance partner?

Writing letters too often can take away the fun and excitement of it while writing sporadically can make your partner lose interest in it. Try to strike a balance or create a schedule. You can try writing to them once a month. This way, they will know when to expect a letter and may even look forward to it.

4. What should I avoid writing in long-distance relationship letters?

Avoid expressing negative emotions in your letters because it may not be a fulfilling and cherishing experience for them while reading. So, do not complain, blame, or insult anyone in your letters. Instead, keep it as positive and loving as possible.

5. How can writing long-distance relationship letters help strengthen the relationship?

Expressing your feelings or sharing your regular updates through letters helps your partner feel connected to you, even from a distance. It provides joy and calmness to pen down your intimate thoughts to your loved one and lets them see and appreciate your effort in writing a heartfelt letter. In addition, sharing your thoughts and views can help you better understand each other, even if you do not meet daily, and foster a stronger bond.

6. Why is it important to be honest in long-distance relationship letters to him?

Trust is crucial for any relationship. Since your long-distance partner does not see you daily, they may not know what is happening in your life. And they will believe whatever you write in your letters wholeheartedly. Not being honest in your notes can hurt him and break this innocent connection, disrupting the honesty of the relationship from both ends.

Long-distance relationships are complex, and the distance may strain both individuals. Fortunately, technological advancements have made it easier to stay connected all the time. Though you may often FaceTime your significant other, writing a letter can make them feel extra special. These love messages for him in a long-distance relationship can help put your emotions into words and let him know that you are on his mind despite the distance. Hence, send the letter you think is best or draw inspiration from these letters and write your own. Your effort is sure to put a smile on his face.

Infographic: Other Ways To Make Him Feel Loved In A Long-Distance Relationship

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tips to keep him happy when apart from each other (infographic)

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