Top 35 Romantic Ways To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

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Winning over a girl takes a lot of patience and dedication. If you are wondering how to make a girl fall in love with you, this post will help. Women are often considered mysterious because it is difficult to know what’s running through their minds. Many guys work hard to impress the girl they like and often end up feeling disappointed. Knowing what a girl likes and wants from her partner can go a long way in sparking the attraction. Plunge into this post for some effective tips to get any girl to like you.

How To Make A Girl Fall In love With You: 35 Simple Ways

So, you like a girl, and you want her to feel the same way for you. Learn these tricks in no time to impress her.

1. Make an ever-lasting first impression

It matters how you present yourself to a woman when you first meet her. So, first impressions need to be pleasant. Don’t come off as someone creepy or weird, and you should be good to go. However, if your first impression was not the best, try impressing the woman the next time you meet her.

2. Make her a priority

Some women like it when you pay attention and give priority. However, putting your girl first does not mean you have to ignore your friends and family. Instead, show selflessness through your actions. Put her needs and desires first and give her quality time. For instance, if you are shopping, call her to ask which T-shirt or sunglasses to choose. She will appreciate the gesture and may fall for you.

3. Be affectionate

Bringing her flowers or chocolates are small gestures to make her understand how much you adore her. Show cute gestures of kindness and affection towards her—hug her or hold her hand when she is anxious. If she is having a bad day, take her out on an ice cream date and let her express what has been bugging her all day.

4. Understand her desires

Every girl is different and has unique needs and desires. Understanding those will help you figure out what she wants and how you can make her happy. For example, is she expecting a dinner date with you or subtly hinting at going to a place? Surprise her and take her out, and she will appreciate your initiative.

5. Be intimate with her

Now here’s the thing: many people confuse intimacy with something sexual, but it is not. Intimacy comes from hugs and forehead kisses, or when you are lying down, and you look into each other’s eyes. Romance and intimacy go hand in hand. Cuddling is also a sweet form of intimacy. Intimacy can also come in the form of sharing vulnerability and feelings.

6. Be confident

Most women are impressed by confident men. So be assertive because women do not want men who are in constant need of care. But of course, make sure that you do not become brash while trying to exude confidence because there’s a fine line between both, and sometimes one is mistaken for the other.

7. Exchange your interests

Tell her about your passion and life goals, and she will share hers as well. This way, you both can open up to one another and know each other even more. For example, if art is your passion or photography is what you like, show her your work, and she might be interested in it. You two can also share a hobby, which gives you even more time to spend with one another.

8. Help her unwind

Women these days have full-time jobs besides household chores and managing their family. Try to help her regularly by sharing the workload—this little gesture of affection will make her understand how much you care for her and love her. Little by little, she will return the care and nurturing you give to her, and eventually, she might fall for you.

9. Be kind and caring

Kindness is a gesture that is underrated. Your girl will notice how you behave with strangers, her family, or even animals. When you show her your kind and caring side, she will understand that having you by her side would result in a sanguine life. And she might crave for it and you as well.

10. Show her your responsible side

Women tend to look for responsible partners. If you show her that you are someone she can depend on during difficult times, she may start to fall in love with you. Stability and consistency are two important things in a relationship, and women seek them more than anything.

11. Compliment her

If you want her to be your “queen,” treat her like one. Give her compliments that are sincere so that she understands how smitten you are by her. When she puts her efforts into something, make sure you notice them and compliment her, especially if words of affirmation are one of her top love languages.

12. Listen to her

Being a good listener if she is ranting about something or discussing her interests. She may fall in love with you if you are an active listener and understand her. Be ready to help her solve the problems she might be facing. One of the reasons she might be sharing these things with you could be because she wants your perspective on it.

13. Be devoted towards her

Some women are attracted to men who are devoted to them. If you are dating and want to take things further, talk things through with your girl, and let her know that you are not seeing anyone else outside. Come up with agreements of what being exclusive with each other means for both of you. Moreover, remain faithful to her, and keep the agreements no questions asked.

14. Be chivalrous

If your girl wants a knight in shining armor to swoop her off her feet, then give her that. If you like her, no one will stop you from going the extra mile. Most women love nobility and chivalry. Pull out the chair for her or open the door for her—these small gestures will make her fall in love with you, and she will be swooning over you in no time.

15. Create a romantic ambiance

Every girl craves the feeling of being “special” and being courted in the eyes of their partner. So, light up some candles and create a romantic ambiance for a date, so she gets positive and intimate vibes from you. It would make her fall for you.

16. Earn her trust

Women want to spend their lives with someone trustworthy. However, earning someone’s trust takes time, so be patient and go through the process slowly. Convey that you have nothing to hide. The girl of your dreams will notice your effort and fall in love with you. But do not lie or cheat on her because it becomes difficult to mend once the trust breaks.

17. Dress up well

Most girls appreciate a well-dressed man. If you take pride in your appearance, it will automatically reflect in your personality. There are no set of rules when it comes to fashion, but you know what looks best on you, so why not dress to impress from next time on?

18. Share your plans

Now, this might seem like a long-term relationship “stuff,” but there is no need to freak out when she brings up her plans. If you do as well, you both can have a conversation. After all, you both are mature, and you know where you want to be. If you envision your life with her and she does the same, it means she is falling in love with you and has been planning a future with you. It is also important to share if you would like children, as it is important to tackle potential deal-breakers head-on

19. Deem her as an equal

Assigning gender roles in this century is not only old-fashioned but also icky. No matter who works long hours or earns a bigger salary, it is important that you deem your girl equal. For example, if she does the dishes today, volunteer to do it tomorrow or help her with other household chores. If there is equality, there will be less resentment in the future.

20. Surprise her

If she has been busy with work and family lately, then surprise her with a cozy date. Surprising her with some quality time will make her understand that you think about her, and she will adore you for that.

21. Send her cute texts

Sending good morning or goodnight texts to the girl you like can charm her. She will know you are the first thing on his mind in the morning and the last one before going to bed. Moreover, you can send her a cute song that reminds you of her or a picture of something that you find funny. It’s the constant communication that will make her fall in love with you and show you really care.

22. Don’t be clingy

When trying to impress a girl and make her like you back, you must give her space. It is important to feel comfortable with yourself because she might not like it if you are clingy. When you give her the space, she might start missing you and want to spend some time with you.

23. Serenade her

As cheesy as it might sound, it could woo your girl. You might not be a good singer, but she would appreciate a man who tries to soothe her or comfort her through singing. So prepare a song that she loves and sing to her, and it’s a guarantee she will fall in love.

24. Have a great sense of humor

Someone who has a sense of humor entices a girl. What is life if there isn’t a little joke thrown around occasionally? It also conveys that you do not always take things so seriously. So, make your girl laugh and have a good time. When she feels good being around you, she wants to spend more time with you, which is how you make her fall in love with you.

25. Maintain proper hygiene

Good hygiene is a must if you want the girl you like to swoon over you. Shave, shower, and apply perfume to smell the best. Put your best foot forward. It is an underrated tip that would help.

26. Be patient

If you are serious about the girl, it is important not to pressure her. Instead, let things flow naturally, give her time, and eventually, tell her how you feel. It is important to feel confident in who you are, and when you are steady with this, she will slowly but surely fall in love with you.

27. Be a friend and confidant

You should make sure that you both are friends first before anything else. Be her confidant so she can share anything without hesitating. When she talks about her problems, guide her into doing the thing that will benefit her.

28. Pay attention to the little things

A partner who listens to every detail that you talk about is truly a godsend. A girl wants a partner who listens to her talk about anything and everything. Pay utmost attention to the minute details that might seem insignificant because you won’t feel out of place when she brings it up. She will feel understood, which is the foundation of any relationship.

29. Make her feel protected and safe

Having a muscular body isn’t the requirement for making the girl feel safe. Instead, it’s more about being an anchor through her tough times, someone she can rely on. When everyone lets her down, she should be able to come to you because you are her safe harbor. Support her with encouraging words when she is harsh on herself; this is the foundation of any healthy relationship.

30. Be honest about how you feel

Telling her your honest feelings and intentions will make her understand that you care about what she thinks. Don’t deceive her because women tend to have a sixth sense when it comes to liars. But, if you desire to win her heart, be honest.

31. Give her small gifts

Surprising her with small gifts that she might like is a cute gesture. Give her something that she loves, and the little surprise will amaze her. She will appreciate your thoughtful gesture and adore you for it.

32. Show romantic gestures

If your girl likes romantic gestures, plan a date and spend some quality time with her. Make her feel that she is a part of a rom-com movie. You could also take her on a long drive or a walk along the beach during sunset or night. You both could sit by the water and listen to the waves crashing the rocks.

33. Be optimistic

Don’t mope around the girl you like. If you are constantly giving off an aura of pessimism and negativity, chances are the girl will feel drained out. So it is best to be optimistic without faking it. Of course, it isn’t possible for any individual to remain happy all the time, but being pessimistic will do you no good anyway.

34. Don’t make it a competition

The girl you like might have a lot of friends, and some of them might be guys. Do not make it a competition. Don’t show jealousy over any guy she talks to because it is an unattractive trait that no one likes. With little gestures of affection that you show, she will fall in love with you and choose you.

35. Win the favor of her friends

Be nice to her friends. No, it might not be as important as the other tips, but if you want those brownie points, this is the way to go. Moreover, when you impress her friends, they will act as the crusader in helping you win over the girl of your dreams.

Be original in everything you do. When you show her little gestures of affection or kindness, she may fall head over heels for you. Compliment her and express your honest feelings without rushing. Being patient is the key here. As long as you are level-headed, the girl will fall in love with you.

Key Pointers

  • Understanding her likes, interests, and desires could help you know what she expects from a man in her life.
  • Paying attention to her and being kind, affectionate, and caring for her are some ways to spark her interest in you.
  • Being genuine and sharing your feelings without appearing desperate could make her fall for you.

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Jason Polk

Jason Polk is a licensed couple’s therapist. He’s a Level II PACT (Psychological Approach to Couples Therapy) therapist and has been trained in the RLT (Relational Life Therapy) model. He’s a certified HOCII (Healing Our Core Issues Institute) therapist. Having experienced his own difficulties in relationships, he pursued a career in couples counseling to learn how to have a healthy... more

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Shikha is a writer-turned-associate editor at MomJunction. Her core interest lies in writing articles that guide couples through their courtship to marriage and parenthood. She also specializes in baby names. Being a postgraduate in Human Resources, she likes understanding people and their relationships. This reflects in her relationship articles, where she deals with both the rosy and the grey side... more