Capturing a man’s attention can be flattering. But what if you catch the fancy of a married man? It’s the last thing you would want. Is there a way to identify if a married man you know is hitting on you?
Getting involved with a man already taken is never a good idea because it only causes pain to all those involved in the love triangle. If you feel a married man is “extra nice” to you, and you are not sure about his intentions, we can help you with it.
Here are some signs a married man is flirting with you. Perhaps they could help you know his tricks and cunning. If you notice these signs, stay away from him and confide in a close friend or family.
25 Signs A Married Man Is Flirting With You
Do not feel guilty for doubting the intentions of a married man. Men can give mixed signals, and it is natural to feel confused. Watch out for these signs to be sure if a married man is flirting with you.
1. He finds ways to spend time with you
If you notice that this married man spends too much time with you, he must be interested in you. Any moment he is free, he will prefer being around you. You may not like his company, but he will somehow gain entry into your circle so that he can be close to you.
2. He initiates conversations most of the time
The moment you see him, he will be the first to initiate a conversation. If he is interested in you, he will make all efforts to keep the conversation going. Each time you try to call it a night, he will start a new topic to keep you engaged for as long as he can.
3. He tries to know everything about you
Your conversations with him often steer in the direction of your personal life. He tries to know about your hobbies, likes and dislikes, friend circle, and everything else that involves you to find a common interest and impress you.
4. He remembers every tiny detail associated with you
He knows your favorite cuisine and your favorite holiday destination. He even remembers your pet’s birthday and your best friend’s name. This is because he feels that remembering little details about you can help him get close to you.
5. He shows interest in your love life
He teases you with random guys and subtly asks you about your dating life. He does this to know if you are seeing anyone, and if you are, he will find a way to learn more about this person and the extent of your relationship with him. He may even make you uncomfortable by asking for details about your dating history.
6. He seems jealous of your dates
When you tell him about a potential date, chances are he might somehow try to talk you out of it or will have some nasty things to say about your date. This is a clear sign of jealousy. He wants you to be single and will never accept your closeness to any guy other than him.
7. He listens to you attentively
If this married man always listens to you attentively, know that he is interested in you. He will repeat key points in whatever you say and will even remember them the next time the topic comes up. He will never miss a chance to make you aware of it.
8. He is always willing to help you
No matter what you need or the kind of problem you are in, he will do everything to solve it to win brownie points. Of course, friends help too, but this guy will move mountains to fulfill your every need. He wants you to rely on him in every situation.
9. He checks you out
An indicator of his attraction to you is his frequent glances in your direction. Even in a crowded room, you might feel his gaze at you, and when you turn to look back, he will quickly look the other way. He may even stare at you to the extent that it makes you uncomfortable.
10. He notices the slightest change in your appearance
If a married guy ever comes up to you and tells you he likes the new nail color on your toes, take it as a hint to stay away from him. It takes a little more than keen observation skills for a guy to notice such a minor change in a woman’s appearance. It is his undoubted interest in you that makes him notice even minor changes.
11. He compliments you too often
A married guy interested in you will like anything you do and even compliment you for it. Buy a new bag or style your hair differently, and he will always have nice things to say about it. Genuine compliments that come occasionally are ok, but compliments that come too often and from one person are pretty suspicious.
12. He smiles a lot around you
Do you always find him in a good mood or smiling when you are around? If yes, it is because he likes you and feels happy to be in your company. He probably feels attracted to you, and his inner happiness shows on his face while he may not even be aware of it.
13. He tries to make you laugh
He may not be a humorous person, but to impress you and make you enjoy his company, he will try his best to tickle your funny bone. You will often find him going over the top with his jokes so that he has your attention.
14. He makes intense eye contact
Does this guy often stare at you intensely while you speak? Know that he is attracted to you and is unable to get his eyes off you. Either avoid talking to him or make it clear that his stares make you uncomfortable.
15. He mirrors you
Mirroring is one of the biggest signs of attraction. A person who is attracted to you will unconsciously mimic your body language and gestures. If you notice this guy imitating your hand gestures or other actions, it is a clear indication that he is attracted to you.
16. He likes all your social media posts
There is hardly any post on your Instagram that he hasn’t commented on or liked. And he even discusses every post of yours whenever you meet him. This is because he stalks you online and knows your virtual activities.
17. He often buys you gifts
It is not your birthday, but still, you find chocolates on your desk. It’s winter, and you find hot chocolate on your desk every morning. If he buys you gifts often, know that he is trying to lure you to have a relationship with him.
18. He invites you to lunches or dinners
In a bid to spend more time with you, he will invite you to lunches or dinners. To not make it look like a date, he will keep it casual and occasional. He may even invite common friends, but when together, he will ensure that he has your complete attention.
19. He complains about his married life
If this married guy wishes to be more than a friend to you, he will complain about his unsuccessful married life. It is a way to gain your sympathy and ensure that his marital status does not become a deal-breaker for him. He might even hint at separation from his wife.
20. He treats you differently from others
He may be a reserved person who seldom talks to people around him, but with you, he can talk for hours. He may get angry at the slightest mistakes of anyone else but you. Your mistakes are often ignored or taken lightly. This is because he wants you to see only his good side and not scare you by his bad behavior.
21. He values your opinions
If this married guy is pursuing you, he will give your opinions a lot of importance. Suppose he is buying a new car, he will seek your opinion on it. You may know nothing about cars, but he will still want your opinion on it to make you feel like an important part of his life.
22. He always protects you
You will notice that he glares at any man staring at you or even physically blocks their line of sight. Even when you mess up something or are in an argument with someone, he will take your side. He will be hyper-aware of the things happening around you and react in ways that make you feel protected.
23. He jokes about having an affair with you
To check if there is a chance of you ever dating him, he will joke about you guys being together. He will ask you questions such as “What if I wasn’t married, would you date me?” or “Forget that I’m married, and tell me how attractive do you find me?” He will hint at an affair to check your reaction to the idea.
24. He often forgets to wear his wedding ring
A wedding ring is a reminder that he is off limits for every woman now that he is committed to his wife. If you often see him without his wedding ring, it means he is trying to pretend to be single and available for you.
25. He acts differently around his wife
The biggest indicator of flirting is his change of behavior in front of his wife. If this guy, who is usually cheerful and flirty with you, suddenly seems cold and distant when in the presence of his wife, it is evident that his intentions for you are not noble.
Lastly, trust your instinct, as it will never misguide you. If your heart tells you that this man, who belongs to another woman, is showing interest in you, it is likely true. And before things get out of hand, it is best you take a step back and limit your interaction with him. If you work with this man and daily interaction is unavoidable, ensure that your topics are restricted to official work. A man who is not loyal to his wife can never be loyal to you.