10 Best And Healthy Milk Alternatives For Toddlers

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Cow’s milk is the most commonly recommended beverage to give when babies wean from breast milk. Healthy babies older than one year can have whole cow’s milk as their primary beverage (1). But, if you are a vegan or your toddler has lactose intolerance or a milk allergy, then cow’s milk isn’t the suitable choice.

In such cases, contemplating other milk alternatives for toddlers becomes preeminent. However, choosing safe and healthy milk alternatives is complex. After all, not all milk types are nutritionally the same. So, how should you decide which milk or milk alternative is suitable for your toddler?

Read on to get insight into several milk alternatives for toddlers and tips to feed these milk alternatives to your toddler safely.

Milk Alternatives For Babies And Toddlers

Milk Alternatives For Babies

The World Health Organization (WHO) recommends exclusive breastfeeding for babies up to six months of age. Then, a well-balanced, healthy weaning diet with continued breastfeeding for up to two years is advised (2). If breastfeeding isn’t possible, the baby can have fortified infant formula (3). For babies with lactose intolerance or milk allergy, using a hypoallergenic formula is usually advisable (4).

Babies under 12 months should avoid cow’s milk as their digestive systems are too immature to digest it (5). Cow milk has high amounts of protein and minerals that can burden an infant’s kidneys. Casein, the main protein in cow’s milk, can irritate the lining of the intestines, increasing the risk of blood loss and the development of iron deficiency anemia (IDA) in babies (6).

Milk Alternatives For Toddlers

Breast milk and a well-balanced weaning diet can meet the nutritional needs of babies older than 12 months. However, when breastfeeding isn’t possible, or a baby can’t take breast milk, experts recommend fortified whole cow’s milk as the primary beverage alternative for up to two years of age (7).

  1. Whole cow’s milk: One cup of fortified whole cow’s milk offers more energy, protein, fat, and vitamin D than other animal and plant-based milk alternatives (8). Besides, it provides considerable amounts of calcium and vitamin A that support the toddler’s growth and development. Toddlers between 12 and 24 months should consume two to three cups (16 to 24oz.) of whole milk every day (9). Toddlers with lactose intolerance or a milk allergy can’t have cow’s milk and will need to drink an alternate milk.
  1. Goat’s milk: Goat’s milk has a similar nutritional profile to cow’s milk, except that it contains less lactose than cow’s milk (10). Besides, goat’s milk is easily digestible, less allergenic, and has higher protein, healthy fat, vitamin A, calcium, and potassium content (11). However, it has less vitamin B12 and folate (12). Toddlers with less severe lactose intolerance can consume fortified goat’s milk after a doctor’s consultation.
  1. Toddler formula: Toddler formula, also known as transitional milk, is a milk-based formulation for babies up to 24 months of age (13). It is fortified with iron, vitamin D, C, E, DHA, calcium, and zinc. Although these formulas contain several nutrients and are often marketed as the ultimate choice to supplement your toddler’s diet, experts discourage their use (14). They recommend parents consult their pediatrician if they are considering this product for their toddler.
  1. Soy milk: Soy milk is plant-based milk extracted from soybeans. It is suitable for lactose-intolerant and vegan toddlers for its similar nutritional composition to cow’s milk. However, soy milk offers fewer calories than cow’s milk and contains less fat and vitamin D (8). It is why experts advise feeding vitamin D and calcium-fortified, full-fat soy milk to babies older than 12 months who aren’t allergic to soy and its products (7).
  1. Rice milk: Rice milk is made by grinding rice with water and then filtering the paste. Compared to cow’s milk, it has less protein, fat, and vitamin D, which is why it is considered a poor substitute for whole cow’s milk (8). However, fortified rice milk can be a choice for lactose-intolerant toddlers who also have a soy or nut allergy, provided they get sufficient protein through other foods. Since rice milk has fewer nutrients than cow’s milk, it requires fortification.
  1. Almond milk: Almond milk is a nut milk offering less energy, protein, fat, and vitamin D than cow’s milk (8). However, it does have higher calcium, iron, vitamin E, manganese, and antioxidants. Experts discourage using almond milk as the main beverage. Instead, they suggest using it to prepare snacks, such as smoothies or shakes for children (11).
  1. Oat milk: Oat is a fiber-rich, whole-grain that gives oat milk. Its nutritional profile is superior to rice and almond milk. Besides, it has higher levels of calcium and iron than cow’s milk. However, it has less fat, especially proteins, than cow’s milk. It also contains phytic acid, so its fortification is necessary (8) (11).
  1. Coconut milk: Coconut milk is made from processing mature coconut flesh. One cup of coconut milk offers less energy and protein than a cup of cow’s milk. However, it is high in saturated fat, calcium, and iron. Since coconut milk is low in vitamin D, it needs fortification. Regardless, feeding coconut milk as a primary beverage isn’t advisable.
  1. Hemp milk: It is made by blending hemp seeds and water. This non-dairy beverage has considerable calcium, iron, and vitamin D, but it is low in fat and protein compared to cow’s milk. You can add unsweetened, fortified hemp milk to your toddler’s diet plan, provided they also eat a well-balanced diet.
  1. Lactose-free milk: Lactose-free milk is cow’s milk with lactase, a natural enzyme. Lactase is added to the milk to break down lactose (milk sugar), making milk easily digestible to lactose-intolerant toddlers (15).

Cashew milk, sheep milk, pea milk, and flax milk are some other milk options you can try. The suitability of milk will depend on the toddler’s age, food sensitivities or allergies, dietary habits, current health, and medical status. Your healthcare provider may evaluate these factors before suggesting a suitable milk alternative for your toddler.

Concerns With Milk Alternatives

Selecting a milk alternative may become inevitable in certain circumstances. However, milk alternatives for toddlers could raise the following concerns.

  • Lack of essential nutrients: When compared to cow’s milk, most plant and animal-based alternatives contain fewer nutrients. Thus, it is necessary to opt for fortified and pasteurized milk options. Additionally, the toddler must eat a well-balanced diet as several cow’s milk alternatives offer fewer calories and less protein.
  • Presence of additives: Several milk alternatives may contain added sugar, preservatives, and flavors that may not be healthy for babies and toddlers. Read the ingredient list carefully while selecting a milk alternative. Choose options that are unflavored, unsweetened, and have minimum additives.
  • Dilution of milk: Some brands may dilute the milk and add thickening agents and stabilizers to the final product. Since these products may affect a toddler’s long-term health, you should carefully read the ingredient list and nutrition label before making a purchase.

Tips To Make A Toddler Drink Alternative Milk

Babies tend to have preferred tastes and flavors by the time they are 12 months old. It may be the reason why several babies refuse to shift from breast milk or formula to a milk alternative. Here are some tips that can help you make the transition easier

  1. Keep the transition gradual and give your toddler ample time to adjust. A toddler may reject the milk alternative the first time they taste it. But, repeated exposure to the milk could help them adjust to the taste. The key is persistence and patience.
  1. Introduce milk by adding it to different foods. It will help the baby or toddler develop a taste for the milk before serving the milk alternative as the primary beverage. A few dishes you may consider are milkshakes, smoothies, porridges, and milk-based soups.
  1. Don’t introduce more than one alternative at a time. Instead, consult your doctor and feed the best suitable milk alternative to your toddler. For instance, if you are feeding soy milk, stick to it until your toddler adjusts to its taste and digestibility. Meanwhile, you can use other milk alternatives as ingredients, for example you may use coconut milk for preparing dishes for the toddler.
  1. Give milk in a cup and not the bottle. Experts recommend transitioning babies from bottles to cups between 12 and 24 months (16). To make the transition gradual and smooth, train your toddler to use a sippy cup or a regular cup from six months of age.
  1. Feed milk in the quantities recommended. For instance, babies between 12 and 24 months need to consume only 24 ounces of whole cow milk a day. Drinking too much milk will fill your little one’s tummy and reduce solid food intake. Drinking more than 24 oz of cow’s milk per day also increases the risk of iron deficiency anemia, especially if the weaning diet lacks iron-rich foods (17).
  1. Adjust the milk’s temperature per your toddler’s preference. For instance, some toddlers like warm milk rather than cold. If the toddler doesn’t like it that way, try serving cold milk. But while you do so, remember to use pasteurized milk only.
  1. Mix milk with formula or breast milk. It is a convenient approach to help babies and toddlers transition to milk alternatives with less hassle. You can add an ounce of formula or breast milk to an ounce or two of the milk alternative. Once your baby or toddler is comfortable drinking the new milk alternative, gradually abate mixing.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Is it ok for toddlers not to drink milk?

Milk is essential for providing children with vital nutrients, such as protein, calcium, vitamin D, and phosphorus. Thus, experts advise children to consume whole milk. However, if a toddler can’t drink milk, it doesn’t mean they will not get these nutrients.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), milk is nutritious, but it isn’t an absolute necessity for a healthy diet (18). If toddlers can’t drink whole milk, they can fulfill their protein, calcium, and vitamin D requirements from other dairy products, such as cheese and yogurt. Parents may also try alternate milk sources, such as soy milk, for their child after consulting a pediatrician.

2. Why does my toddler not like milk?

There’s no specific reason why some toddlers don’t like drinking milk. Some toddlers may not drink milk because they are picky eaters, while others might avoid it because they don’t prefer yogurt over milk. Then, there can be toddlers who don’t like milk’s flavor and smell, while others may avoid consuming milk because they had a past negative experience (force-feeding).

3. What are the differences between cow’s milk and plant-based milk alternatives?

Cow milk contains essential nutrients, such as protein, vitamins, phosphorus, and calcium. Plant-based milk often lacks or contains fewer amounts of these nutrients. The protein quality of cow milk is generally higher than plant-based milk because it has more complete arrays of essential amino acids.

Plant-based milk is often fortified with nutrients; the bioavailability varies across brands and is often not known precisely. The presence of sugar and other additives and dilution of milk are some other concerns with plant-based milk that make them nutritionally inferior to whole cow milk (19).

Cow’s milk is usually a preferred choice of food for most toddlers. It is believed to be a complete meal as it has all the necessary nutrients for your little one’s growth and development. However, you may also consider including nutritious foods such as fish, lean meat, legumes, eggs, leafy greens, beans, or other dairy products such as yogurt and cheese in their diet. If your child is lactose intolerant or has a milk allergy, you can consult your pediatrician and ask for alternative food options.

Infographic: How To Select The Best Non-Dairy Milk Substitute For Toddlers

Given the wide variety of choices available, selecting suitable plant-based milk for your toddler can be tricky. Our infographic brings you simple tips for choosing the best non-dairy alternative for your child. Since the options at the store can be overwhelming, keep this infographic handy to avoid confusion.

selecting the best non dairy milk alternative for toddlers [infographic]
Illustration: MomJunction Design Team

Key Pointers

  • According to experts, fortified whole cow’s milk can be given as an alternative to children older than 12 months who cannot take breast milk.
  • Goat’s milk can also be given as an alternative because it is easily digestible, has high protein, calcium, potassium, and other nutrients.
  • Toddler formula, Soy milk, and other alternatives as you scroll through.
  • Giving enough time for children to adjust, adding the milk to different foods, and offering milk in a cup are some tips that help introduce alternative milk to children.


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  3. Infant Nutrition; Standford Children’s Health
  5. Why should I wait to give my baby cow’s milk?; WIC
  6. Why Formula Instead of Cow’s Milk?; AAP
  7. Fortified Cow’s Milk and Milk Alternatives; CDC
  8. Cow’s Milk Alternatives: Parent FAQs; AAP
  9. Recommended Drinks for Young Children Ages 0-5; AAP
  10. Should I Give My Child Goat’s Milk?; Unlock Food.ca
  11. Elvira Verduci et al.; Cow’s Milk Substitutes for Children: Nutritional Aspects of Milk from Different Mammalian Species Special Formula and Plant-Based Beverages; NCBI
  12. Milk Confusion?; AAP NY Chapter 2
  13. Infant Formula; American Academy of Family Physicians
  14. Toddler Formulas and Milks – Not Recommended by Health Experts – Mislead with Health Claims; NYU
  15. Lactose Intolerance in Infants & Children: Parent FAQs; AAP
  16. Discontinuing The Bottle; AAP
  17. Iron Deficiency Anemia; C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital
  18. My preschooler refuses to drink milk. What should we do?.
  19. Moo-ove Over, Cow’s Milk: The Rise of Plant-Based Dairy Alternatives
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Swati Patwal

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