101 Important Questions To Ask Before Marriage

image: Shutterstock


Before you decide to marry one, you need to clarify certain things. This post throws light on a few important questions to ask before marriage to ensure that no problems arise in the future. Asking these questions can also help you decide whether you want to be in this marriage or your partner’s thoughts and expectations. The answers need to be produced straight up to your partner to avoid getting lost under the carpet and give rise to fights or disagreements in the future. Read on for a list of 101 questions that you need to ask your soon-to-be spouse before you decide to walk down the aisle and ensure that you are compatible with each other and respect each other’s choices.

101 Questions To Ask Before Marriage

What your future husband or wife thinks about marriage and relationship can be understood with some thoughtful and random questions.

Important Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage

Here are some important questions to start with. They will help you know what your future spouse thinks about the foundation of a marriage.

1. What do you think about spending and savings?

2. How do you handle stress and struggle?

3. Do you want children right after the marriage?

4. What do you think about adoption?

5. What do you think about being a hands-on parent?

6. Do you think communication is crucial for a relationship?

7. Do you regret speaking ill to anyone?

8. What is the strong foundation of marriage?

9. Do you withdraw yourself if you are upset?

10. What is your biggest fear?

11. How far can you go to please your partner?

12. What do you feel about throwing surprises?

13. What are your expectations around physical intimacy?

14. What is your attitude towards debt?

15. Do you think you can combine finances with your spouse?

16. Are you an occasional drinker, addicted, or a teetotaller?

17. Do you have trust issues or insecurities?

18. What is the best you can do to express your love?

19. How much space or alone time do you need in a relationship?

20. Do you believe in heart-to-heart conversations?

21. Would you want me to change myself in certain aspects of life?

22. Are you quick to forgive?

Funny Questions to Ask Before Marriage

To make the conversation lighter, you may go ahead with these simple and funny questions.

23. If you could change three things about yourself, what would they be?

24. What is your everyday clothing style?

25. What’s your idea of a truly romantic evening?

26. If you become a YouTuber, what would be your channel name?

27. If I let you choose my outfit for our next date, what would I wear?

28. If you were to call me by a nickname, what would you choose?

29. What movie title perfectly describes our life together?

30. Do you have any specific fantasy regarding marriage?

31. What memories of childhood bring you joy?

32. What, according to you, makes a person intelligent?

33. Have you ever taken household responsibilities?

34. Any major secret you would like to divulge?

35. Any web series you are addicted to?

36. Based on our relationship, what advice would you give people?

37. Have you already started dreaming about me?

38. Do you watch horror movies even though you are afraid of them?

39. If you were to cook, what is the first meal you will offer me?

40. Have you ever been punished as a child?

41. Have you ever been rejected by anyone?

42. Are you a morning or a night person?

43. What makes you most joyful?

44. What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever cried about?

45. What’s the naughtiest thing you did as a college student or a teenager?

46. How often do you order food from outside?

47. What is the untasty thing you have cooked till now?

48. What was your biggestdream as a child?

Simple Questions to Ask Before Marriage

Here are some ice-breaker questions that you may ask your soon-to-be partner to know more about them.

49. Is there anything you would refuse to share with me?

50. How important is physical appearance for you?

51. Is there anything you are not prepared to give up no matter what?

52. How do you rate self-care?

53. Would you take up a fight and conflict or avoid it?

54. Are you comfortable talking about your preferences and fears?

55. Do you have any backup if you or I lose the job?

56. What do you think about issues like race and religion?

57. What kind of food do you especially like to eat?

58. Do you own a pet dog or cat?

59. Is there anything you would like to talk about your hobbies?

60. Are you a religious person?

61. Do you care about political issues?

62. Do you think other people can have an impact on your decision?

63. How would you gel with my parents in the future?

64. What will be your parenting style?

65. Where do you see your career tenyears down the line?

66. Do you prioritize work over other aspects of life?

67. How demanding is your job?

68. Where do you want to live after marriage?

69. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

70. How often do you like to party?

71. How important areexercise and fitness for your lifestyle?

72. What is your ideal destination for a vacation?

73. What do you prefer to do during your weekends?

74. Is money a factor for you in all aspects of life?

75. Do you prefer an apartment or your own private home?

76. How important is it for you to make money?

77. Have you ever been into a relationship before this?

78. Do you smoke, or have you ever smoked?

79. Do you have strong preferences about looks and appearances?

80. Are you a spendthrift or a saver?

81. If your friends need you, are you there for them?

82. Are you an animal lover?

83. Are you liberal, moderate, or conservative?

84. Are you a law-abiding person?

85. Do you believe what you read and see in the news?

86. Do you believe in God? What does worship mean to you?

87. Do you enjoy cricket or any other sport?

88. What is the hobby that you would like to turn into a profession someday?

89. What are your views on work from home or remote working?

90. What is your idea of perfect relaxation?

91.What is your greatest strength and weakness?

92. Are of afraid of something or someone?

93. What makes you feel alive?

94. What is more important to you? Work or family?

95. How would you best handle a disagreement in a relationship?

96. How would you communicate your dissatisfaction over anything?

97. Are you a vegetarian, non-vegetarian, or vegan?

98. What are your views on infidelity?

99. What if we both want something but can’t afford it?

100. How often do you take a break from work?

101. How much influence do your parents still have over your decisions?

Asking some in-depth and personal questions to your potential life partner about children, family, finances, career goals, hobbies, and future helps you know them better. After all, it is important to discover what lies ahead in this long journey of commitment.

The following two tabs change content below.

Ratika Pai

Ratika has experience writing in various fields including finance, education, lifestyle, and entertainment. After her masters degree in Commerce, she acquired a PG Diploma in Communication and Journalism from Mumbai University. She is inquisitive about human relationships and likes to study people and how they manage their relationships, during her freetime. At MomJunction, Ratika writes insightful and informative articles on... more