220+ Romantic And Special Happy Birthday Wishes For Lover

110+ Romantic Birthday Wishes, Quotes, And Messages For Lover

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Your whole year of waiting to surprise the love of your life on their birthday ends here. Your partner holds a special place in your heart, and therefore, we bring you some special and romantic birthday messages to a lover that you can share with them.

Your beautiful and heart-touching birthday message can make their day. After all, it’s your lover’s birthday, and they deserve all the love and attention on their special day. So, read this long list of birthday wishes and send one to your partner.

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220+ Birthday Messages For A Lover

Birthdays are special, and you cannot afford to let this beautiful occasion pass without wishing your lover. Show your fondness and gratitude to your lover with these heartening greetings.

Romantic Birthday Wishes For Lover

Try sending any of these romantic birthday wishes to a lover to bring a smile to their face.

Today is the birthday of the most special person and I’m going to celebrate it in a big way. Happy birthday my love.

I’m glad to have you in my life. Happy birthday to my sweetheart.

Happy birthday dear love. You mean the world to me.

You got a killer smile baby! I can cross every limit to see that on your face. Happy birthday to you.

Having you in my life is like having a special occasion every day. Happy birthday to the most special person in my life.

Hey lover. On this special day, I hope to be the reason behind your smile now, tomorrow, and forever. Happy birthday, sweetheart.

Happy birthday to the apple of my eye. May your special day be as beautiful and extraordinary as you are to me.

Happy birthday to the one who paints my life with love and laughter, making every day special.

You are the oxygen that I breathe. Celebrating your birthday is my pleasure.

Happy birthday to the most romantic person in the universe. I’m lucky to have you.

Happy birthday sweetie. You are sweeter than honey.

I don’t think you’re born this day. To me, you just come down from heaven. Happy birthday to the treasure of my life.

I promise on your birthday to love you more and more, now and forever.

I have only one thing to gift you on your birthday and that’s my heart. Would you accept it?

Blow out the candles and I’m ready to make all your dreams come true.

On this special day, I wish you are blessed with great fortune and good luck so you can excel in every aspect of your life. Have an amazing birthday.

May your birthday be filled with excitement, and may you have a stress-free life full of success and happiness. Wishing you a very happy birthday, sweetheart.

Today, I celebrate the day you were born because it brought you into my life. Happy birthday, pretty lady.

I forget my real self when I am with you. Happy birthday, beautiful!

Your birthday is special to me, even more than my own, because on this day, my lifeline was born, and I was born to love you. Happy birthday, gorgeous!

You began your life on this day and I began my life the day I got you. Happy birthday to you, dearest!

Happy birthday to you and I will keep loving you.

You’re the perfect creation of God. Happy birthday, baby. I love you.

Nothing can beat my passion for you. You are my everything. Happy birthday to the love of my life.

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I wonder how someone could grow more and more beautiful every year. You rock my world. Happy birthday.

Though we’re miles apart, you stay in my heart. Wish I could have you in my arms on your next birthday.

Happy birthday to the most caring, loving, and kind person in the world. I love you.

You are my better half and each day I fall deeper in your devotion. Happy birthday, darling.

Happy birthday, lovely soul. Here’s wishing you a day filled with happiness and unforgettable memories.

To my partner in love and life. Your presence is the greatest gift from God to me. Happy birthday.

Happy birthday, sweet love. You are the reason why my heart dances with joy.

Happy birthday, my love. Let us write another chapter of love and happiness.

Sending you unlimited hugs, kisses and love on your birthday. Love you to the moon and back.

You are the perfect boy that every girl desires. I want nothing more than you. Wish you the happiest birthday, my love.

Happy birthday to the jolliest person in the world. You are the reason for my happiness. May all your dreams come true.

On your birthday, I give you a world of the warmest hugs, the most beautiful kisses, and a promise never to leave you. Many happy returns of the day, my soulmate!

I sincerely thank you for staying with me through the ups and downs of life. Happiest birthday, love.

Your presence fills up the empty space in my heart. My life is overwhelmed with energy for this special day, and I cannot wait to celebrate it with you. Happy birthday, dear love.

I wish you shine like the sun on this birthday and forever. Happy birthday, dear.

Let’s celebrate your sweetness by cutting a sweet cake on your special day. Happy birthday to the sweetest person.

I am thankful for each and every day that God gives us, and I pray that you get many, many more. Happy birthday.

I am excited to make you feel special on this special day, so be prepared for a surprise! Have an amazing birthday.

I am grateful to God for allowing me to share life with an incredibly amazing man like you on the anniversary of your birth. Wishing my prince charming a very happy birthday filled with love and warmth.

I was born to brighten your day with the sweetest kisses and warmest hugs because you are a fantastic lover. Happy birthday, love.

Your touch makes me go crazy, babe. Want to hug you tight on your birthday. Happy birthday.

May your birthday be as beautiful and special as you are. You are the best and deserve only the best things in your life.

Thanks for all the beautiful memories that we shared together. Hope to have more beautiful memories years after year. Happy birthday!

It doesn’t matter how old we grow, I will always be there by your side. Have a cherished birthday.

To the one who makes every day more special to me. Happy birthday, lover.

On your special day, I want to shower you with all my love and appreciation. Happy birthday, love.

I want to wish the best lover in the world a beautiful birthday and a great day. Happy birthday, my love.

Happy birthday, darling. You are the best and kindest person I know; having you in my life is bliss. I hope you have a wonderful day.

The day I met you, my life has changed. You’re a true blessing for me. Have a blessed birthday.

I have nothing special to give you on your birthday, except my true love and adoration. Accept my love and embrace me. Happy birthday.

On this big day may all your wishes come true. Have an awesome birthday.

Happy birthday sweetheart. This is your day. Let me fulfill your every wish with delight.

Happy birthday to the dearest person in my life. Thanks for all the love and happiness you filled my life with.

You, my amazing person, hold a special place in my heart. Happy birthday.

May your birthday be filled with joy from opening your eyes until closing late at night. Here’s wishing you a blasting happy birthday.

On your birthday, I hope that our relationship develops and stands out as it always has. Happy birthday, my dearest.

Happy birthday to my best friend, my lover. You are the one who stole my heart and has filled my life with hope and happiness.

My feelings for you are getting stronger day by day. On this special day, I pray to God to give you good health and happiness.

I am lucky enough to have you in my life and I want you to be in my life forever. Happy birthday to my cutie pie.

Falling in love with you is easy, staying in love with you is easier. I wish to celebrate your every birthday with love and joy.

Happy birthday, sweetheart. I hope all your wishes get fulfilled because being with you has already fulfilled all of mine.

When I look at you, I see a bright future ahead with you, embracing your arms and holding your hands. Happy birthday, my soulmate!

You are not just a year older today, but a year closer to our future. Happy birthday, darling.

You are the sole reason that keeps me going throughout the day, even during the toughest of times. Happy birthday to the love of my life.

Do you know that I start and end each day with a thought of you? I wish you a fun-filled birthday, my love.

Thanks for choosing me to celebrate the most important day of your life. Thanks for everything you have done for me. Happy birthday to the love of my life.

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I’m running out of words to express my feelings. But my hug can help you understand how much I love you. Have a cheerful birthday.

Happy birthday to my angel. I would like to hug you and kiss you so you can understand how true my feelings of admiration for you are.

You are the love of my life, and I hope to spend many more birthdays with you. I love you, sweetheart.

To the person who has stolen my heart, I wish you an amazing birthday filled with love and happiness. Here’s to many more years of love and togetherness.

Only one day a year is not enough to celebrate the birthday of an incredible human being. Happy birthday to the love of my life.

On this special eve, I want to remind you that you hold a very special place in my heart and will forever remain there. Happy birthday.

Happy birthday to my wonderful lover and best friend. I hope you have a great day. Thank you for being so awesome. Love you.

I’d like to wish my favorite person a happy birthday. You are my prince, and I will always adore you.

You are the sugar in my life. Stay in my life and keep adding the sweetness. Happy birthday sweetie.

I’m captured in the cage of your love. Every second I think only of you. Happy birthday, dear.

Love to be loved by you. You are my world and I want to make your day more special.

I don’t need any special day to remind you how important you are in my life. You are the precious gift I could ever have. Happy birthday.

May this day bring you everything you wished for. Have an amazing birthday. Love you always.

You bring a smile to my face, and your touch reveals your love and care for me. Wishing you the happiest birthday, dear.

My life is enhanced by your smile and love, which makes it more positive, joyful, and cheerful. Happy birthday.

You were there for me during my difficult times and added a new meaning to my life. I cannot thank you and God enough for making my life so colorful. Wishing you a very happy birthday.

On your birthday, I wish for your life to turn out better than expected, and may you feel happier than ever.

My bad memories fade away when I see your smile. I get confidence when I look into your eyes. You mean a lot to me. I wish you a wonderful birthday.

It’s incredible to love a girl whose inner beauty is as pure as her outer beauty. My life is incomplete without you and your love. Happy birthday to the lady of my life.

I just want to say that I’m madly in love with you. Happy birthday my hero!

You are the color in my dark life. May God fulfill your every desire and give you immense happiness.

I love celebrating this day as it is the day when my lover, my soulmate was born. Happy birthday, honey.

Happy birthday to the best-looking bae in the universe. I hope all your dreams come true this year.

Happy birthday to my friend and soulmate. I love you deeper than you know, baby.

Many more happy returns of the day, my rockstar. I’m grateful to lay my back on you.

As you blow out your candles on this special day, I want you to know that you have made all my wishes true, and I wish that all your wishes may come true. Happy birthday, dear love.

Every day is a great celebration when you are around me. Happy birthday, baby, I love you.

Birthday Wishes And Quotes For Lover

You may share these birthday quotes and wishes with your lover and make their day.

May God bless you with never-ending joy and bliss. You deserve all the good things in life as you are yourself a gift to this world.

Even if the world turns upside down, you’ll always be my favorite person. Happy birthday, sweetie.

My heart bursts with joy and happiness whenever you look at me. Happy birthday to the thief of my heart!

Even if you blow out all the candles on your cake, nothing can ever lessen the fire burning in my heart for you. Happy birthday, my sweetheart!

With you, the most terrible days become beautiful, and all my bitter thoughts become the sweetest. You are magic, my dear. Happy birthday, love!

People fall in love, but your love makes me rise to the highest of heights. Happy birthday, my darling dove!

There are great poets who can express their feelings through words. But the only words I know are Happy birthday and I love you!

This is the best day of my life as on this day a special person was born. Happy birthday to you.

The most gratifying moment of my life is when you’re with me. Happy birthday, baby.

I find all my joy, happiness and peace in you. Never ever go away from my life. Happy birthday to my life.

On this special occasion of yours, I make a commitment that I’ll never leave you and always care for you. Happy birthday.

Happy birthday to my soulmate. I can’t think of a life without you and want to express my gratitude for being able to spend some part of my life with you.

Thank you, my love, for coming into my life and making me happy. Happy birthday.

I want to give you the warmest hugs and the sweetest kisses under the stars for your birthday. Happy birthday to my hero.

Happy birthday to the most amazing lover ever. You have a heart of gold, and I hope you have a wonderful day and year ahead.

I cannot imagine a single moment without you. I needed you, need you and always be needing you. Happy birthday my love.

You are the only person with whom I can imagine my future. Happy birthday to my future.

Nothing could be as special as the day you came into this world. Now you’re my world. Happy birthday.

I’m sending you a thousand kisses and a tight hug out of affection. Have a lovely birthday and keep smiling.

You have occupied my entire memory and I have nothing to think about, except you. Happy birthday.

I earnestly wish for you to stay with me forever to create many more wonderful memories. Happy birthday, my love.

Happy birthday to my handsome boyfriend. I can’t thank God enough for sending you into my life.

I can’t wait for later today for you to taste the delicacies I’ve whipped up. It’s gonna be so much fun. Happy birthday, my favorite foodie.

Happy birthday to the cutest lover a girl can ask for. You know I love you.

I am so proud of all of your accomplishments this year and can only wish it gets better from here. Happy birthday to my hero.

My heart gets filled with love whenever I look at your face. May your birthday be filled with love and joy.

May the Lord bestow your life with success, good health and warm wishes. Happy birthday my dear love. Have a blessed and special birthday.

Flowers and chocolates are old gifts. I can give my heart to you on your birthday. Many happy returns of the day.

If I get two days of life, one day I will spend loving you and the other day you will love me. Happy birthday.

You are the hottest person I have ever met. I am lucky to have you beside me as we explore the world together. Happy birthday!

Happy birthday to the best lover in the world. I pray your day is as great as you are.

I am so eager to spend my remaining life with you. Happy birthday.

Your love has transformed my life and shaped it in the most beautiful way. I’m grateful to you, my dear. Happy birthday.

With every passing year, my love for you grows stronger. Happy birthday, my love.

To the man who has stolen my heart, I wish you a very happy birthday.

Happy birthday to the ray of sunshine who fills my life with brightness.

My heart belongs to you and only you. Happy birthday to the king of my heart.

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Dear love, many happy returns of the day. May all your dreams come true. Have a blast on your special day.

There is a special place reserved in my heart and it’s for You. And it becomes larger as we spend time together. Happy birthday to you.

I have only one desire in my life and it’s spending life with you. Happy birthday.

When you hold me close, all my fears and worries disappear, and with you by my side, there’s only pure joy. Happy birthday, my dear!

Happy birthday to the conqueror of my heart. I feel so lucky to be able to spend my life with you.

I knew I had met my idol from the moment I met you. Happy birthday. You are my everything.

Happy birthday to the magical lamp of my life. May your birthday be as radiant as your personality.

You can safely give your heart to me. I can keep it with me forever. Happy birthday to my lady love!

My dream came true the day I met you. May your birthday be filled with unlimited joy.

My heart beats for you, my eyes look for you, my mind thinks of you, my lips smile for you. I can’t live a day without you. Happy birthday, love.

May you get all the achievements in your life. I’m with you in every circumstance. Happy birthday.

The biggest joy in my life would be to see you always smiling. May God fulfill all your dreams and wishes. Happy birthday, love.

How is it possible that my heart beats faster whenever I think of you? On this special day of yours, I wish you all the very best for your future. Happy birthday.

Happy birthday to the keeper of my heart. May your birthday be as splendid as you are.

No matter how far away I am from you, remember that no distance can dim the light of our love. Happy birthday to the love of my life.

Happy birthday to my honey. I can’t wait to celebrate your birthday tonight. Have an awesome day. I love you.

I have so many things to tell you how I feel for you. But right now I can only say I love you to the birthday boy.

I have tried so many times to hide my feelings but let me reveal on your birthday that I love you.

Happy birthday to the person who makes my life complete.

I love the way you make me feel special. Now let me make this day special for you. Happy birthday, sweetheart.

My love for you can never be defeated. I want to spend my whole life and the rest of your birthdays together.

On this beautiful day of yours, I would like to gift you my heart. Happy birthday, baby!

I wish to shower all my love and kisses to the king of my heart. Happy birthday, honey.

Happy birthday, my kick-ass lover. I love you so much, with all my being.

Happy birthday, rockstar. I thank God every day for giving me an opportunity to celebrate your birthday with you. I love you lots.

Happy birthday to the coolest and most affectionate lover. I love you, darling.

My dear love, on your birthday, I pray that God may bestow infinite love and happiness on you. Have a blissful birthday.

You deserve the best birthday gifts and lots of love on this special day for being the best lover. Happiest birthday, dear love.

Your beauty is so radiant that it takes away the darkness of my life. Happy birthday to the light of my life.

The day you walked into my life, I realized what true happiness is. Happy birthday to the most special person. May your life be always filled with happiness.

You are the man I always dream about and I’m lucky to have my dream in front of me. Happy birthday to you, dear.

You are my sunshine and I wish to wake up every day looking at you. Always stay by my side. Happy birthday.

It’s impossible to stay without you. I’m deeply in love with you. Happy birthday, love.

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I’m glad to have you in my world. My heart, mind and soul are for you, only you. Happy birthday.

Not only are you the most amazing lover in the world, but also the most charming person I have ever met. Happy birthday, my cutie pie!

Happy birthday to my sweet, charming, handsome, and lovely boyfriend. I love you.

Happy birthday to my love. You always bring out the best in me, and you know me like nobody else. Have a blessed day.

I want to wish my wonderful lover a very happy birthday. Thank you for being there for me whenever I needed you. Love you lots.

Happy birthday to you, my darling. Thank you for being my friend, philosopher, and guide in every step of my life. Whatever I am today is only because of you.

Though we are far away, my heart always beats for you. Happy birthday and I love you a lot!

I’m mesmerized by your beauty. You compelled me to always think about you. Happy birthday to the beautiful lady.

My love is pure and divine. I love you more than I could express in words. Happy birthday.

Your support, trust, and words of motivation have made me what I am today. I have changed into a better and more mature person only because of you. Happy birthday, sweetheart!

On this special day, I hope God showers you with all the things your heart desires and fulfills them. Happy birthday, love!

The day you entered my life, my heart started to sing and dance with immense joy. Happiest birthday, my darling!

I feel lucky to connect with you and have fallen in love with you. Lots and hugs and kisses on your special day. Happy birthday, dear.

Hey you, you stole my heart and I fall for you every day and night. Happy birthday to the my heartbeat!

Your birthday is a chance to spread more love and happiness in our relationship. Happy birthday, baby.

Happy birthday, my dear love. Having someone like you is a blessing who makes my life complete in the true sense.

Happy birthday, my dear boyfriend. Always remember that I’m beside you whenever your heart needs solace.

Happy birthday, bae. I’m truly honored to have you in my life.

Happy birthday to the greatest blessing and fortune of my life. I am so glad to have such a caring sweetheart with whom I can make many good memories this year.

Happy birthday to my favorite alarm clock. You know when to wake me up with a bright smile.

On your special day, I just want to say that you are as special to me as the frosting on top of a cake. Happy birthday, cutie.

May this birthday be as cheerful and cool as you’re. Sending you an ocean of love. Happy birthday.

Your hugs give me warmth. This is the best place I could ever have. Happy birthday my love.

I feel crazy to be with you. You’re the person with whom I feel free. Let’s celebrate this day in a special way.

You were always there with me in good times and bad times. Now let me do something for you. On this special day, I’m your genie. Reveal your wishes!

Happiest birthday to the handsome man of the world. You are the hero of my life and I have deep respect for you.

The memories we spent together are irreplaceable. Thanks for coming into my life. Loads of love on your birthday.

Sending you an ocean of affection and adoration on your best day, sweetheart. Happy birthday.

Do you know you are too old to count the candles on your cake? Happy birthday, my rockstar.

I want to wish my silly boyfriend a happy birthday. Thank you for loving me like anything.

You are the one with whom I love traveling. Happy birthday, my adventure partner.

Being with you for the last few months has taught me a lot and I’m grateful for it. Happy birthday to my mentor and love.

You are my definition of an ideal person, and I bet I will find someone like you nowhere in the world. Happy birthday, dear.

You are simply the best. Thank you for the endless love, support, and happiness that you have contributed to my life. May your birthday be as amazing as you are.

Today you may receive lots of gifts but the only gift I feel can make your celebration more special is my love. Happy birthday.

You have filled my heart with love, joy and happiness. You are the only reason for my life. I love you. Happy birthday to the Rockstar of my life.

“Today is the oldest you have been, and the youngest you will ever be. Make the most of it!”.” – Nicky Gumbel

“The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.” – Oprah Winfrey

“Today you are You; that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” – Dr. Seuss

“Birthdays are nature’s way of telling us to eat more cake.” – Edward Morykwas

Exactly four years ago on this day, I fell in love with the love of my life, my enchanting lover, and here, I’m today celebrating his birthday. Happy birthday dear.

There are times when we fight each other, but I wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. I just want you for the rest of my life. Happy birthday, my love. I love you.

You will always be deeply embedded in my heart. Nothing in this world can change my love for you. Happy birthday to the love of my life.

You are the only person whom I have loved so intensely. I can only visualize a bright future ahead with you by my side. Happy birthday, my gorgeous.

“Life seems to fade our memory, so on this birthday I will forget yours if you forget mine!” – Kate Summers

“Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young.” – Dorothy Canfield Fisher

“May the love in your heart overshadow any sorrows, and may you always know with a deep inner certainty, how loved you truly are.” – Jodi Livon

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“A birthday is like a new year and my wish for you, is a great year full of happiness and sunshine!” – Catherine Pulsifer

“I believe that no matter what condition you are in when someone close to your heart remembers your birthday and wishes you a happy birthday, you feel happy.” — A. Singla

“May you live to be 100 and may the last voice you hear be mine.” — Frank Sinatra

Every day with you is a new adventure, amazing, and exciting, and I love you more than words can ever express. Happy birthday.

I aspire to spend the rest of my life with you, and my love for you will never diminish. Happy birthday to my favorite person.

I earnestly pray that you get whatever your heart desires and that you have abundant joy in life! Happy birthday, my lover.

Finally, the day has arrived, so embrace it, be confident, and embark on a future full of endless possibilities and opportunities. Happy birthday, love.

A birthday of your special someone is also memorable to you, and you put all the effort with dedication into making this day extra special for your partner. But whatever you plan for their birthday, the first thing you do is to wish them. So, take advantage of this lovely opportunity to wish your love a happy birthday and use these lovely and romantic birthday messages to gratify your lover. You can write these messages on a card along with a gift or flowers, or you can text them to recognize or acknowledge their value in your life. These romantic birthday wishes will surely make them feel loved and appreciated.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Should I be funny or serious in my birthday message to my lover?

Depending on the message you want to convey and the relationship tuning you share, you may choose to be funny or serious in your lover’s birthday message. Also, it may depend on your lover’s personality, for instance, whether they love sarcasm and humor or they are a sentimental individual who finds it difficult to understand the meaning between the words.

2. How can I make my birthday message to my lover stand out?

Including a sweet salutation, writing about your sweet memories with them, and adding some creativity with romance can help you personalize your birthday message and make it more meaningful to your partner. You can also add a beautiful and considerate gift, a poem, a quote or a song for them to make your message stand out.

3. Is it okay to use quotes or song lyrics in my birthday message to my lover?

Yes, you may choose to include a few lines of your partner’s favorite song or lyrics that best describe your feelings and your relationship. Similarly, a sweet, romantic, and meaningful quote that reflects your relationship can add a personal touch and make it more memorable for your partner.

4. Should I include a gift with my birthday message to my lover?

Yes. Since birthdays are all about wishes and gifts, adding a gift, depending on your personal choice, will make your birthday message even more special to your partner.

5. Is it important to personalize my birthday message to my lover?

If you lack the ability to write something on your own, you may take references from online resources, books, and others, for a birthday message, but adding some personal touch to it will show your partner your sincerity and hard work, making the letter more special to her.

6. What should I avoid saying in my birthday message to my lover?

When writing a birthday message to your lover, avoid getting too diverted from the topic, do not add too much fancy and cheesy words, and be respectful with the content of your message. Also, do not use a birthday message to resolve your conflicts but you may use it in a way to initiate a conversation.

7. Is it better to send a birthday message to my lover via text, email, or social media?

Whether you send your partner a birthday message through text, email, or social media, depends on your personal choice and the comfortability of your partner to share the information on social media. However, if you can meet them on their birthday, it’s better to handwrite a birthday message and gift them personally.

8. How soon should I send my birthday message to my lover?

It’s best to send or share your birthday message for your lover on their birthday, or it is even better if you can give them your birthday message when the clock hits 12.

9. Should I ask my lover about their birthday plans in my message?

If you’re unsure about your partner’s birthday plans, you may ask in your message. But, it is better to express your excitement and enthusiasm for their birthday and give your wishes to them. You may always send a second text or ask them about their birthday plans.

10. What should I do if my lover didn’t acknowledge my birthday message?

If you have not received a response from your lover to your birthday greeting, it is possible that they are busy or may have missed your message. You can wait for a response or follow-up, but if they still don’t acknowledge it, an issue in your relationship or a misunderstanding could be a reason.

A birthday of your special someone is also memorable to you, and you put all the effort into making this day extra special for your partner. But whatever you plan for their birthday, the first thing you do is to wish them. So, take advantage of this lovely opportunity to wish your love a happy birthday and use these lovely and romantic birthday messages to a lover. You can write these messages on a card along with a gift or flowers, or you can text them. These romantic birthday wishes will surely make them feel loved and appreciated.

Infographic: Ways To Wish ‘Happy Birthday’ To A Lover

Birthdays are all about gifts and wishes from everyone, but what could make this significant occasion more special is a sweet and lovely birthday wish from special someone. So, if your partner’s birthday is soon to come, check out our infographic below for some romantic and lovable birthday wishes you can write or send with a gift.