21 Subtle Signs A Scorpio Man Loves You

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A Scorpio man’s mind is like a closed book as they are inherently reserved and do not express their feelings. So if you want to know if a Scorpio man loves you or not, you need to know how to identify certain signs that bespeak their feelings. Men belonging to the zodiac sign of Scorpio tend to be quite calculative about words that come out of their mouths. Using patience and secretiveness as their weapons, Scorpio men are known for their confident demeanor. Even though they may not open up easily, their traits of loyalty, honesty, and truthfulness make them desirable partners and add a certain charm to their personality. If you happen to be attracted to one, it will surely be an exciting journey of getting to know such a mysterious lover. So here we have a list of some telltale signs to help you decode a Scorpio man’s feelings towards you. These traits are based on Western astrology sun signs. It is important to remember that to know a man’s traits and interests, you need to get his birth chart analyzed by a professional.

21 Signs A Scorpio Man Shows When In love

1. He keeps an eye on you in a caring and protective way

Have you noticed your Scorpio man secretly glancing over at you or his glances drifting across the office looking for you? This protective behavior comes naturally to them. They tend to get drawn to the person of their interest and feel obliged to take good care of them.

2. He pursues you

One thing that makes it easy with Scorpios despite them being reserved is that when they get interested in someone, they will put in the effort to pursue that person. So you do not have to be the only one putting in all the effort. He might flirt with you or even be upfront about his feelings for you, so stay prepared.

3. He displays pangs of jealousy

A Scorpio man may love you if he shows pangs of jealousy

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Jealousy is a key personality trait among Scorpios as they tend to be protective of their love interest. Expect some sourness if he sees you too close to other prospects, or at times, even your friends.

4. He acts possessive

As expected, protectiveness and possessiveness make a Scorpio a great partner but, at times, a little difficult to manage. He would want you all to himself, and he would also do the same, giving you his full time and attention.

5. He is interested to know what’s on your mind

He would be intrigued by your thought process and be curious to guess what you might be thinking. Expect to be asked the question, “What’s on your mind?”

6. He is interested in knowing the real you

Scorpios are not surface-level lovers and tend to dig deep when it comes to love and relationships. If he’s after you, he would try to know you better, learn your small quirks, habits, opinions, tastes, and preferences. You would be surprised how well they get to know you in a short time.

7. He prefers one-on-one rendezvous

Meaningful conversations are usually one-on-one

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Do not expect him to blurt out anything when you hang out with your pals. Meaningful conversations with a Scorpio mostly happens when you sit alone with him. If you have been indulging in a lot of one-on-one talks with him lately, you’ve probably caught his fancy.

8. He makes eye contact with you with a certain intensity

When a Scorpio makes up his mind for a love interest, he sees no reason not to be confident and upfront about it. They wouldn’t act shy in front of you but instead will take charge, starting with eye contact and other bold maneuvers.

9. He asks you out for coffee or dinner

As mentioned earlier, Scorpios are good at taking the lead, and therefore, expect them to ask you out for a date. Be mindful, though; if met with a no, their ego wouldn’t let them keep trying.

10. He has started opening up to you

Although he can be extremely reserved in the initial phase, you may notice him sharing more with you eventually. This is an encouraging sign. It is a clear indicator that you have won his trust, and he perceives you as someone with whom he can share his life and experiences.

11. You have his full attention during conversations

Listening intently could indicate that a Scorpio man loves you

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Expect undivided attention from him during conversations, no matter how trivial it is. You would love to talk with him at length on any issue or seek any advice. He would listen intently and maybe even provide some reasonable solutions to your problems.

12. You consider him a trusted confidant

Besides being a good listener, Scorpios are good at keeping secrets. You trust him with your thoughts and secrets and feel secure in confiding.

13. If ignored, he would be dejected but won’t express it

Have you mistakenly not given him enough attention or outright ignored him? Be ready to face the repercussions now. Although he wouldn’t admit it to you directly, you would see clear signs of him distancing himself from you. It would need certain coaxing from your side now to bring him back to a good mood.

14. He treats you well

Scorpios take their love interests seriously, and as such, expect some pampering from him. Being taken to a nice restaurant or receiving a lovely gift from them shouldn’t come as a surprise to you.

15. He often compliments you

He showers you with genuine compliments

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Scorpios are observant and notice what dress you’re wearing or if you have had a new haircut. He wouldn’t be shy to give you compliments or praise you for some action of yours. Expect to be showered with positive compliments around a Scorpio. But also be ready to hear the truth. Scorpios will tell you both good and bad with complete honesty.

16. He acts courteous and gentle around you

Is he the perfect gentleman to you, always courteous and gentle around you? It is a sign that he is putting in the effort to initiate a romantic relationship with you. He may express it through his body language and actions.

17. He touches you affectionately

Scorpios are affectionate, and when they consider someone to be close to their hearts, they are not afraid to show their love for them. Gentle touches on the hands and hugs come naturally to them.

18. He likes sharing his belongings with you

You would notice that he likes it when you borrow a pen or other small stuff that belongs to him. Sharing something with you gives him the confidence that you, too, are  comfortable with him as a friend and confidant.

19. He extends help and assistance

Scorpios are always ready to help their close ones

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Scorpios are ever-ready to help their close ones. Even before you state your problem, he would probably guess it or ask you about it and come up with solutions, offering his assistance.

20. He responds well to your approaches

The good thing about trying to woo a Scorpio is that they would respond well to your approaches once comfortable. In addition to the previously mentioned signs and body language, he would also participate in courting, making it exciting for you.

21. He shows you his sensual side

At this stage, you can say that the feeling is strong from both sides. Scorpios are anyway hard to resist thanks to their brooding intelligent demeanor. As he tries to work his charm on you, you would notice how sensual he can be. His acute observation and timing with words would leave you desiring for more.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How does a Scorpio man express his love?

A Scorpio man might not be open about his feelings towards you but could be giving subtle hints. He might ask you for a date to spend some quality time or could share his secrets with you. Keep observing what he does for you, and soon you will know about his feelings.

2. What does a Scorpio man want in a relationship?

Trust, commitment, and companionship are what a Scorpio man looks for from his partner in a romantic relationship because he has the same traits imbibed. However, as every Scorpio is different from the other, spending time with him and closely watching him would help you understand him better.

3. What makes a Scorpio man fall in love?

A Scorpio man doesn’t like when someone is acting fake. He looks for honesty and likes to be a part of deep conversations wherein he can open up and pour his heart out. If he likes you for who you are, he will reach out to you to take your relationship to the next level.

Scorpio men tend to pursue the women they love and prefer one-on-one rendezvous. Taking the lead to ask you out, opening up about himself, being protective and possessive, and making intense eye contact are some signs that a Scorpio man loves you. If ignored, they tend to distance themselves from their crush and never express their emotions. However, if encouraged, he will be gentle and courteous around you and show you his sensual side. Although these signs may help to identify a Scorpio man’s emotions, having a conversation is the best way to determine each other’s feelings.

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Ratika Pai

Ratika has experience writing in various fields including finance, education, lifestyle, and entertainment. After her masters degree in Commerce, she acquired a PG Diploma in Communication and Journalism from Mumbai University. She is inquisitive about human relationships and likes to study people and how they manage their relationships, during her freetime. At MomJunction, Ratika writes insightful and informative articles on...
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Catie Cadge

Catie Cadge began her journey with astrology three decades ago. In 2014, she pursued more formal training as an evolutionary astrologer through the Steven Forrest Apprenticeship Program. She completed a master’s certificate with Steven Forrest in 2016.  She is now serving as Dean of Instruction for the Forrest Center For Evolutionary Astrology.