27 Strong Signs She Loves You But Is Scared Of Her Feelings

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You are dating a lovely girl but are confused about her feelings. We can clarify her emotions through some common signs she loves you but is scared of revealing. Some girls may not be expressive, while a few could be unsure how the relationship would be. Your lady love could have her own reasons for not admitting her emotions. Perhaps, she might be afraid of rejection. Irrespective of the reason, do not force her and give her substantial time to open up. Until then, read our post to figure out if she likes you or not.

27 Powerful Signs She Loves You But Is Scared of Her Feelings

She could be someone you just met or have been dating for a while, but you’re unsure whether the girl loves you. Here are some signs that a girl loves you but is scared of her feelings.

1. She’s nervous around you

If she appears nervous when speaking to you, this could be one of the telltale signs that a girl loves you. While it’s natural to feel anxious in the presence of someone you love, a girl may fidget in her seat, wiggle her hair, or play with her fingers if she is scared of her feelings.

2. She engages you in conversation

She won’t mind devoting more time to you if she likes you. But, more often than not, she will try to keep the conversation going. Perhaps she is trying to learn more about you while being scared of her feelings for you.

3. She maintains longer eye contact

One of the telltale signs she loves you but is scared of her feelings is when a girl maintains eye contact with you longer than usual. If she pays close attention to you, it means you pique her interest.

4. She’s first to text

She texts you frequently and may send you pictures of things she finds amusing. While she is the one who starts the conversation, she is also the one who responds to your texts quickly and barely gives you one-word responses.

5. She ’likes’ you on social media

She may follow your social media updates with zeal. For example, if you post a photo of yourself sipping your favorite beverage or devouring pizza, she is the first person to like and comment on your photos.

6. She has open body language

When a girl uses open body language and closes the gap between you as much as possible, it’s a sign that she likes you.

7. She smiles at your silly jokes

If a girl smiles or laughs even when you make silly jokes, it means she likes you but is scared to admit it. When she smiles at you, she expresses her excitement about you, a telltale sign that she loves you.

8. She mirrors your body language

You may notice that she is mirroring your body language. For example, if you lean forward, she may lean forward. If you place your hands on your hips, she might copy your gestures. It is a sign that she loves you.

9. She remembers even tiny details about you

When she remembers every tiny detail about you, she cares about you. For example, if she recalls details from previous conversations, you know she loves you but is scared to reveal her feelings.

10. She asks personal questions

Another sign that a girl likes you but is scared is when she asks you personal questions about your hobbies, dreams, interests, and even your love life. She will not only ask about you, but she will also tell you about her life.

11. She buys you gifts

If she takes you out on lunch in a fine dining restaurant, buys you a random gift, or gives you beautiful tees for no reason, she loves you but is scared to admit it.

12. She tells her friends about you

When a girl likes you but is scared of her feelings, she’s probably told her friends about you, and they treat you differently. So do pay attention to how her friends communicate with you and talk about you in her presence. If they’re teasing her and putting you two together, it means she likes you, and her friends are well aware of it.

13. She teases you

Another sign that a girl loves you but is scared to tell you is when she teases you as a way of flirting with you. The more ease she feels with you, the more she may engage in some playful banter.

14. She changes her looks

A change in her appearance or overall personality, whether subtle or obvious, indicates that she loves you. For example, you’ll notice that she dresses dapperly and is conscious of her appearance when she meets you.

15. She finds excuses to touch you

She may touch you quite often and find reasons to do so. For example, if she brushes up against you or touches your arm or hand while talking, it’s a sure sign she loves you but is scared to admit it.

16. She seeks your advice

If she seeks your opinion and advice on her personal and professional matters, it indicates that she likes you but is scared to express it.

17. She compliments you

When a girl likes you but is scared to express her feelings, she may often compliment you. Even the most minor details will not escape her notice. She may admire your inner qualities, talents, or intelligence in addition to your physical appearance.

18. She encourages you

When a girl encourages you to pursue your dreams and goals, this is one of the signs that she likes you but is scared to express her feelings. She will do everything she can to assist and support you along the way because she wants you to succeed in all of your endeavors.

19. She introduces you to her family

While she may appear scared to show her true feelings, she may still introduce you to her family and friends. It is a sure sign that she likes you and values your company.

20. She shows her vulnerable side

While she may be scared of expressing her feelings to you, she shows her vulnerable side to you. She may share her fears and insecurities with you, demonstrating that she trusts you enough to reveal her true self.

21. She makes time for you

A girl who likes you but is too shy to express her feelings will make time for you regardless of how busy she is. Even if her work interferes, she will find a way to make time for you.

22. She stands by you

She is always there to boost your self-esteem and morale during difficult times. She will be there for you in trying situations and will not abandon you because you are going through hard times in your life.

23. She likes to spend time with you

If a girl loves you, she will keep you close at all times. She would want to spend time with you during the day, demonstrating that she is looking for more than just a casual encounter.

24. She will act jealous

When she notices another girl around you, she acts strangely. If you want to know if a girl loves you but is scared to express her feelings, watch if she gets jealous when you are with another woman.

25. She seeks alone time with you

Though spending time with friends is fun, we all want to spend time alone with those we care about. When a girl looks for reasons to see you alone, this is one of the signs she loves you but is scared to admit.

26. She gets along with your friends

If she talks pleasantly with your friends and makes an effort to know more about you from them, it is a clear sign she likes you more than a friend.

27. She gets offended if you tease her

If she loves you but is scared of her feelings, she will be offended if you tease her by pairing her with another guy. It’s because she wants you to know that she is into you.

Understanding a woman and her intentions can be a challenging task. However, if you notice some of the above signs in your girl, it surely means that she likes you but is scared of her feelings.

Key Pointers

  • If she spends time with you but hasn’t confessed her feelings, you may be unsure how she feels.
  • Maintaining eye contact for long periods and remembering small details about you could be signs she likes you but is too shy to say so.
  • Look for more signs such as mirroring your body language and help her express her feelings.

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Bharat Sharma

(DCA, MPCC, RPC, CCAC, SAP)
Bharat Sharma is a qualified Integrative Psychotherapist in Alberta, Canada, currently working as the director at Edmonton Counseling Services. A Master Practitioner in Clinical Counseling, Canadian Certified Clinical Supervisor, and Qualified Substance Abuse Professional, Sharma believes that the mind, body, and soul are intrinsically connected. Therefore, he practices integrative therapy that involves the entire human experience, Mind, Body, and Soul. ... more

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