200+ Text Messages That Will Make Her Want You

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You don’t always need grand gestures to show your love. Sometimes, finding the right words at the right time can touch those chords of your lover’s heart.  One of the best ways is to send text messages that will make her want you and fall head over heels for you. Texting can do wonders and get your girl to love and connect with you instantly. Italy-based professional life and executive coach Rodolfo Parlati says, “Text messages can help build and maintain relationships by encouraging regular communication, sharing meaningful messages, and showing affection, even when life gets busy. Sending encouraging or lighthearted texts can strengthen emotional bonds and show that you care about your partner.” Use these romantic messages or build on them to put a smile on her face and make her think about you all day.

200+ Romantic Text Messages That Will Make Her Want You

Marriage and family therapist Jessica Jefferson opines, “Texting allows couples to maintain their connection and flirtation even when they’re not in the same room. It provides a better way to check in throughout the day, offering support when needed.”

A romantic text can remind her of your feelings, brighten her day, and strengthen the bond you share. Send these earnest messages and bring her an inch closer to you, one text at a time. You may also use these messages as an inspiration to express what’s in your heart.

Long-Distance Love

When love stretches across miles, heartfelt text messages become the bridge that keeps the connection strong. Here’s how to make her feel close, even from afar.

1. We are meant to be together, and I cannot imagine a single moment without you.
2. I still get astonished by your enamoring beauty.
3. The thought of you warms my heart even during the cold winters.
4. If I could, I would have sent you thousands of kisses over the phone.
5. Nothing makes me happier than your presence.
6. Baby, you have the purest soul I have ever met.
7. I feel lost when you are away from me.
8. I start my day with you and end it with you. I am lucky to call you mine.
9. Our bond is strengthened by God’s blessings and transcends beyond boundaries.
10. Hey, stop coming into my dream. Instead, come to my home and stay with me forever.
11. I’m on my way, sweetheart. I can’t wait longer to hold you in my arms.
12. I’m sending you an island full of kisses and an ocean full of love.
13. You are the spark in all my fireworks.
14. The truth is, I am always occupied with your sweet thoughts. Love you, baby. I can’t wait to meet you.
15. Every moment with you feels like a beautiful dream that I never want to wake up from.
16. If kisses were snowflakes, I would have sent you a whole blizzard.

17. I wish I could store your laughter in a bottle and listen to it during hard times.
18. Even miles apart, I feel you in everything I do. My heart is always with you.
19. Though far, our love makes the distance feel small. I’m closer to you every day.
20. The distance is tough, but knowing you’re out there makes it worth it.
21. Each sunrise reminds me how much I miss you, but it brings me closer to you.
22. The space between us is temporary; our love is endless. I feel you with me.
23. I carry a piece of you in my heart, no matter the miles. You’re always on my mind.
24. The distance is hard, but it makes our love stronger. Every call brings me closer.

Early-Stage Dating / New Love

The beginning of a relationship is filled with excitement and curiosity. Use these messages to spark interest and show her just how much she means to you from the start.

25. Do not ever ask why I love you because there’s no reason for it. I just love you.
26. For you, I may be just a person, but for me, you are my entire world.
27. I can climb a thousand mountains to see you smile.
28. Your love is a gentle, soothing breeze that refreshes my soul on a stuffy, humid day.
29. Your gorgeous eyes have pierced my heart and made me fall for you.
30. Although the night sky may seem magical, nothing is more magical than you.
31. Holding your hands and hearing your voice makes me feel as though I could live forever.

32. You are the angel of my life. The day I met you, my life became brighter and happier.
33. I can’t figure out the reason why I am feeling so affectionate for you.
34. Nothing in the world is as sweet as you, not even honey.
35. You are the reason for my happiness, the center of my life, and the whole of my heart.
36. I have already given you my heart, mind, and soul. What else do you want?
37. My life feels complete whenever I see you around. I love you, my darling.
38. Nothing can change my love for you. What I felt you years back when I first saw you are still the same.
39. I used to think you are my girlfriend, but your pure love made me realize that you are my better half.
40. You are the embodiment of perfection because I can’t find a single fault in you.
41. I was missing something in my life. I didn’t know it was you until I met you.
42. For me, you are true love.
43. You are more precious than a diamond. I can lose a diamond, but not you.
44. I want to choose you for the rest of my life.
45. Every day, I used to go to sleep wishing for true love, and then finally, God sent me His best gift — you.
46. My life has been filled with happy stories since the day I met you.
47. You have a beautiful heart that I admire.
48. My love for you is eternal. It will never disappear from my heart.
49. The most romantic thing I can think of is seeing my future in your eyes.
50. Every love song ever written is meant for you. I am completely lost in you. I love your eyes, your smile, your body, and everything.
51. You are getting irresistible day by day. What’s the secret, sweetie?
52. No one believes that angels exist. Please give me one of your pictures.
53. Just when my life was turning boring, I found you. You made my life worth living.
54. Here’s my list of hobbies: reading, listening to music, and daydreaming about you.
55. Listen to my heart; it beats faster when you are around.
56. I never felt so confident before. It all started after meeting you. Will you be mine forever?
57. I don’t want anything more than you. Just be with me in every phase of life.
58. Let us grow old together, holding each other’s hand for a lifetime.
59. If I were a woman, I would surely envy your beauty. But being a man, I can’t stop falling for you.
60. Please forgive me if I love you too much because that’s the only thing I can do and the only mistake I want to commit every time.
61. My dearest, I never knew loving you would forgive my sins.
62. The moment I see you, my life seems so beautiful. I do not want to leave you, ever.
63. Every time I look at you, I fall in love with you again and again.
64. I want to see you every day, hug you, and kiss you. I want you so badly. Baby, I love you.
65. You are the one who inspires me to fight against all odds. You are my role model, and, above all, the love of my life.
66. If I could rearrange the alphabetical system, I would put U and I together.
67. You are my best place to go when my mind needs peace and my heart needs solace.
68. Dear love, give me a chance to prove how true my feelings are. No one can love you more than me.

Long-Term Passion

Long-lasting love requires effort and attention. Keep the flame alive with thoughtful and passionate messages that remind her how special she is to you, no matter how much time has passed.

69. I love to be myself when you are around me because you never judge me.
70. Nothing in the world is more important to me than you.
71. I get the best curve on my face whenever I look at you.
72. I never get tired of thinking about you because that is my favorite hobby.
73. The way you touch me sends shivers down my spine.
74. In your arms, I found my world. In your eyes, I found myself.
75. Honey, you have captured my mind. From waking up to going to sleep, I keep thinking about you.
76. You are the queen of my heart. I owe my smile and happiness to you.
77. Baby, your smile is like the radiance of the sun that can melt any cold stone heart, just like mine.
78. I can give up everything to get your rapturous love. I love you so much, sweetheart.
79. Some say that there are no perfect women. But they might not have seen you.
80. You are the biggest dream that came true for me. You are my everything.
81. As long as I am alive, my heart will beat for you. I mean it!
82. I’m ready to climb a thousand mountains and swim across a thousand seas just to see your smile.
83. For others, you may be one person, but for me, you are the world.
84. You are an evergreen flower that will never wither.
85. My heart has a secret key, and its owner is you. Only you have the access to open it.

86. My heart has found a safe place, and that is inside your heart.
87. There was an emptiness in my life but was filled the moment I met you. I love you, darling.
88. Some cannot live without food, and some cannot live without air. But me? I cannot live without you.
89. You are my favorite notification, my favorite text, and above all, my favorite person.
90. You are the best part of my day.
91. When you are around, I feel like I can conquer the world.
92. I want to make my life spicy. So, can I call you babe from now?
93. You are not just my love but my destiny. Your smile has the power to light up any of the darkest rooms.
94. I am in love with a girl who has beautiful eyes. If you want to know who, stand in front of the mirror.
95. Your eyes say a thousand words, and I can keep looking into them.
96. Some people are worth melting for. For me, it’s you.
97. With you, every day is a new story, and I can’t wait to explore the next.
98. You blow away my mind. Could you stop being so amazing?
99. People say we fall in love once in a lifetime. But, whenever I see you, I fall in love with you over and over again.
100. Before meeting you, my life was dull, but now it is filled with joy and happiness. And the reason behind it is ‘you.’ I love you.
101. I have never seen such a caring lady in my life. I want to love you and take care of you for your whole life.
102. You are the story of my life that I do not want to end.
103. It’s odd how a stranger suddenly becomes your life and means the world to you.
104. I don’t need a compass to guide me; I want your love to be my guiding star.
105. I still remember the day we met for the first time. Today, I would like to thank God for connecting us and giving me a new life.
106. You are my motivation. Whenever I see you, I get motivated to work harder. Stay in my life forever.
107. They say I am alone. The truth is, I am always occupied with your sweet thoughts. Love you, baby. I can’t wait to meet you.
108. You are the light of my life, and when I get stuck in darkness, you are my rescuer.
109. Hey, my shining star! Just want to remind you that you are incredibly special to me.
110. If kisses were snowflakes, I would have sent you a whole blizzard.
111. Every moment with you feels like a beautiful dream that I never want to wake up from.
112. Do you have a map? I just got lost in your eyes once again.
113. You are the queen of my heart, and I’m your loyal subject.
114. I want to kiss you to check if you are made of sugar because you are too sweet.
115. Even though the temperature falls to the lowest, you still have a warmer place to find comfort. And that’s my arms.
116. You are the blood that runs through my heart, and you make my heartbeat.

117. My search for true love ended the moment I saw you.
118. The depth of my love is deeper than the ocean. I cannot explain how important you are to me. You are my world, and I love you.
119. I wish I could store your laughter in a bottle and listen to it during hard times.
120. Your love is like a warm cup of coffee on a chilly morning — fresh and comforting.
121. For billions of riches, I cannot exchange my love for you. I love you so much, my dear.
122. I have seen many beautiful girls around me, but a beauty like you only comes in dreams.
123. I love you more than the stars in the sky and grains on the beach.

Affectionate Expressions And Compliments

Everyone loves to feel appreciated. These affectionate messages and compliments will make her smile and show her how much she’s admired, inside and out.

124. I hate to see the tears in your eyes. It hurts me, and I can do anything to get you out of any trouble.
125. Meeting you was the event that changed my life forever. I can’t wait to see what our future holds for us.
126. You are on my mind every hour, every minute, and every second of the day.
127. Just thinking of you makes me smile even in the middle of any task.
128. Nothing can define your fascinating beauty. Hence, you never get out of my mind.
129. Every time I see you, I feel like I have met you for the first time.
130. You are so charming, sweetheart. I can’t take my eyes off you.
131. If I were an artist, all my canvases would be filled with your face.
132. Do you know magic? Because I can see you everywhere.
133. I am thankful for the moment when I welcomed you into my life. You became mine in no time.
134. You were the most perfect gift the universe could give me, and I feel lucky to have you as my partner.
135. Everything I have is because of you, and everything I will become will be because of you.
136. You are the most stunning lady I have ever met. I’m lucky to have you.
137. Like a valuable gem, your love for me is priceless; you are a treasure I will cherish forever.
138. You are the best part of my day.
139. I am proud to have you in my life. I will keep adoring you forever.
140. I think I had done something good somewhere in my life, so God gave me ‘you.’

Promise Of Commitment And Future Together

Build a strong foundation by expressing your commitment and plans for the future. These messages will let her know you’re serious about a life together.

141. Whenever I face a difficult situation, I look at you, and it makes me feel better.
142. One day, we will be holding each other’s wrinkled hands and saying, “We did it.”
143. If ever God asks me a wish, I will spend my life with you forever.
144. There are seven wonders in this beautiful world. But I’m sure they’ve missed the eighth one, which is you.
145. Your voice is the sweetest melody in my silent thoughts. You make me happy.
146. I promise to love you till I get wrinkles and my teeth start falling out.
147. I have a longing to make you the princess of my world. Would you like to accept this prince?

148. I found no other love story more magnetic than us. I can tell our story again and again to anyone. I love you, baby.
149. Baby, can we live together forever and have children?
150. I wish to walk with you on the beach, holding hands today and forever.
151. Let us build a home with love and fill it with immense happiness.
152. I am on an ardent mission to make you mine forever.
153. My plans for the rest of my life are to love you, love you, and keep loving you.
154. I can walk a thousand miles to be your life partner.
155. I want to turn my dreams into reality. Could you please come and hug me now rather than hugging me in my dreams?
156. I don’t want a life without you. I needed you and need you always.
157. I can’t wait to marry a girl like you. Be mine forever, and I promise to keep loving you forever.
158. I want to write a novel on our love story, capturing all the beautiful memories we have created with each other.
159. I need not go far away to explore the world when you are with me because you’re my world.

Romantic And Poetic Expressions

A touch of romance and poetry can elevate any conversation. These romantic and poetic messages will make her feel cherished and deepen the emotional connection between you.

160. I wish I had met you earlier because life would have been so much more fun. Now that you are with me, I never want to let you go.
161. You are the muse behind all my thoughts and the melody of my heart’s rhythm.
162. You are the most beautiful flower in my garden. Keep blossoming and keep filling my life with fragrance.
163. If I were an artist, my every canvas would have you because you are always in my mind.
164. You make my heart beat faster, and I love that feeling.
165. The sound of your voice magically makes my day better when I hear it.
166. My happiness begins with you and ends with you.
167. Just like a boat with no sailor, I feel the same in your absence-—completely lost.
168. You are the only reason behind my every heartbeat.
169. I am keen to love you forever.
170. The greatest feeling in life is holding you closer. Girl, I need you.
171. You are my sunrise, and I love you more with every passing day.
172. Seeing your wallpaper on my phone makes me smile like a fool.
173. You are the light of my dark world. Whenever I fall into darkness, your light brings me out.
174. You are a constellation in the night sky. Looking at you fills me with wonder and awe.
175. I have never felt so amazing about any girl before. You have something special in you that pulls me towards you.
176. The best part of staying with you is that I can be myself, and you will never judge me.
177. I need to look for a doctor because when I see you, I lose control over my mind.
178. Whenever I sleep, you come into my dreams. God, I can’t resist this feeling.
179. It’s hard to express how I feel when you hold my hands. But I love this unexpressed feeling.
180. Your beautiful smile is the reason behind my happiness and strength.
181. All my body parts seem to malfunction when you are not around me.
182. Your presence controls the ebb and flow of my life, just like how the moon controls the tides.
183. You have seen the best and the worst of me and have dealt with me patiently. I respect and love you.
184. I have no idea why my heart beats faster when you are around me. Can you tell me why?
185. The moment I saw you, I realized you are the one to be my perfect life partner.
186. Nothing is more beautiful than the smile on your face. And I love it.
187. I get nervous when you come closer to me. I think your one hug can fix it.
188. My heart skips a beat when you look into my eyes.
189. Even after so many years, I still get butterflies looking at you.
190. You are the most beautiful dream that came true for me.
191. When I’m with you, I feel like I’m on an adventure. You give me a thrill to explore life with you.
192. Hey, something is missing in my body, and I am sure you have stolen it. It’s my heart.
193. Can I have your heart, please? As mine is already with yours.
194. Your smile makes my life purposeful. And I can do anything to keep you smiling.
195. You are the person who made me a better person.
196. My favorite song is listening to your voice—it soothes my ears and my soul.
197. The happiest moment of my life is when I make you happy.
198. All you need to do is walk into a room to make everyone else disappear for me.
199. There are so many things that I want to tell you. But for now, I just want to tell you that I’m nothing without you.
200. I have met so many people, but for me, you are the ray of hope and positivity that has defined my existence.
201. I am proud to have you in my life. I will keep adoring you forever.
202. I think I had done something good somewhere in my life, so God gave me ‘you.’
203. Let me be your heartbeat, for I can stay closer to you.
204. My favorite place is to be next to you, holding your hands.

Common Texting Mistakes To Avoid

When you are texting a new person, you need to remember their likes and dislikes. When your crush is in question, you must be even more careful to avoid offending her. Here are some tips to avoid some inadvertent mistakes when sending text messages that will make her want you:

1. Do not send a lot of messages at once without any response

Sending too many messages before she replies not only makes you seem desperate but also causes her to lose interest. Understand that she might be busy or simply not interested, so do not pester her with messages. Research published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships revealed that partners who feel their texting frequency is similar particularly when it comes to starting conversations and staying in touch tend to experience greater satisfaction in their relationship (1).

2. Do not send cheesy messages

Generic messages may come across as insincere. She may start thinking that you are not interested. Cheesy messages lack originality and personality. Even if your message is simple, make sure it is from your heart and not a generic copy-paste.

3. Do not text when you are angry or upset

Even if the anger is not associated with your crush, your text message may convey that you are irritated with her for some reason. It is likely to put her off.

4. Do not be too vague

Showing her your love is not a bad thing. Send clear messages that convey that you like her a lot. Do not leave her guessing your meaning by sending vague messages.

5. Do not use swear words or offensive language

Swear words can instantly be a turnoff. Even if she is your close friend and is used to such language while being with you, it is better to avoid such language while texting. A research conducted by the Communication Studies Department at Bethel University suggests that excessive swearing can damage relationships by making the speaker seem less competent or less considerate of the other person’s feelings (2).

6. Do not shame her

Shaming her in any way is a no-no. Even if you think she can change some things, a text message is not the way to tell her. Shaming messages include jokes that put down women or laugh at their bodies and traits.

7. Do not ignore her texts

If you are free, answer her texts. Some people may believe in the ‘let her wait for my reply’ game, but most times, it only causes the woman to lose interest.

Crafting The Perfect Message

It’s essential to send messages that are clear, engaging, and thoughtful. Here’s how to craft the perfect text message to make her want you:

• Know your audience. Tailor your message to her personality and preferences. For instance, if she loves movies, you can say, ‘Have you seen the new Marvel movie yet? I need a review from the expert!’
• Be clear and concise. Keep your messages short and impactful. For example, instead of ‘What are your plans this weekend? Maybe we can do something if you’re free,’ you may ask ‘Want to grab coffee Sunday afternoon?’
• Use the right tone. Match the tone to your relationship and context. For instance, you can keep a playful tone and say, ‘So, is today the day you admit I’m your favorite?’
• Avoid ambiguity. Be specific and clear in your texts. Instead of ‘Let’s meet up soon,’ you can say, ‘Let’s have lunch Friday at that cafe you mentioned!’
• Consider the context. Think about timing and recent conversations. If you had a recent shared experience, you may text her saying, ‘That sushi spot was amazing. Next time, dessert’s on me!’
• Be empathetic. Show understanding and care for her feelings. For example, if she is going through a tough phase, you can say, ‘You’ve got this! Let me know if you need anything, I’m here.’
• Proofread. Check for errors before sending.

These steps will ensure your texts grab her attention and keep the conversation flowing.

Infographic: Guidelines For Texting Your Girl When Dating

In this era of smartphones and social media, one of the most important and sensitive aspects of dating is to keep in touch through texts and messages. While texting can bring you closer to your love interest, if not done right, it can also become the reason for distance. Take a look at the infographic below to learn texting etiquette attributes you should be mindful of when dating the woman you love.

Illustration: Momjunction Design Team

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