Men can be fascinated by the little things that women do. While it is believed that they get attracted to clothes and physical features, there is more to it. Some things you do consciously or unconsciously can make him like you more. It can be the dimple that flashes when you smile or the way you care for him— they notice it all. When you enter into a relationship with a guy, there might be many quirks about you that he finds adorable.
If you are curious about the things that catch your boyfriend’s eyes and charm him, we could help you. Keep reading this post as we share a list of 30 things girls do that guys love.
30 Things Girls Do That Guys Love
While it might be difficult to figure out a man’s thought process, a few cues could point you in the right direction.
1. Tying your hair or randomly touching it
You must have noticed your guy staring at you while you tie up your hair in a messy bun or a ponytail. They find the action cute and fascinating. Men love long hair, and when you tie it, their eyes automatically focus on your beautiful tresses. They also like it when you randomly touch your hair, flip it, or tuck it behind your ears. Such gestures make you look adorable.
2. Wearing your comfy PJs
Guys adore girls in their PJs as they look all-natural with their face scrubbed clean of makeup and messy hair. The look makes you appear comfortable, innocent, and cute, which guys find appealing. They desire to hold you close and protect you from the world.
3. Running your fingers through his hair
Run your fingers through your guy’s hair, and you will find him leaning into you and closing his eyes. Some men are possessive about their hair, so they don’t enjoy a random person touching it. However, if he likes you, he might feel relaxed when you run your fingers through his hair. They feel special and pampered by your touch. You can enhance their experience by lightly massaging their scalp.
4. Wearing high heels
Wearing high heels makes your legs appear longer and in shape. High heels also transfer your weight to the balls of your feet, causing you to sway your hips and making your walk sensual and inviting. Guys find it attractive, so they can’t help but stare when you walk, clicking your high heels.
5. Resting your head on his shoulders/chest
Do you enjoy the closeness and warmth of the guy you like? It feels good to rest your head on their chest or shoulder and relax, forgetting all the worries and tiredness of the day. Guys love this feeling too. This small gesture shows you trust him and feel safe with him. Holding you close makes him feel like he is protecting you from the world.
6. Giving him a back or neck massage
Everyone loves a relaxing massage after a long and tiring day, especially from the person they love. Guys enjoy the feel of their girl’s soft and smooth hands on their body, and they instantly feel relaxed. Massaging also builds intimacy. There are certain erogenous points around the neck of guys, and when you massage those points, it soothes their mind and body.
Some girls look down or hide their faces when they blush. However, guys love it when their girl blushes in response to their flirting or teasing. They find the reaction cute and adorable. Blushing makes girls seem innocent and sensitive, which makes men fall harder for them. If you want to know how this action affects your guy, look at him while you blush, and the emotion in his eyes will reveal the depth of his feelings.
8. Talking passionately about something
If you are passionate about something, it shows in your body language. There is an excitement on your face and energy in your body when you talk about the thing you are passionate about. Guys enjoy witnessing this side of you. Your face glows with a passion that makes you attractive to them. They love and admire that you are so involved and driven by something.
9. Carrying yourself with confidence
Confident women are a huge turn-on for some guys. A confident woman knows what she wants. Men find this trait extremely attractive. Confidence shows in the way you walk, the way you speak, and the way you dress. It is powerful and magnetic, adding a certain allure to your body language. Guys are awed by this. So, carry yourself with confidence around your guy, and you will see the approval in his eyes.
10. Giving them cute nicknames
Guys love hearing their name from their girlfriend’s mouth. But it completely melts their heart when you call them with a cute nickname. It makes the guy feel your affection and care. While generic nicknames such as “baby” can make your boyfriend happy, unique nicknames would delight him. It also deepens the intimacy and connection you share.
11. Biting your lips
Guys find it sensual when girls bite their lips consciously or unconsciously. The action attracts their attention towards your lips and entices them to kiss you. If you look at the guy from beneath your eyelashes while biting your lips, it might make him lose his mind.
12. Showing your appreciation
Guys like to pamper their girlfriends. They shower them with compliments, gifts, and affection. When girls show their appreciation for these efforts, it makes them happy and fall more in love with you. So, show your guy how much you appreciate him and his efforts. You can tell him or express indirectly by giving him gifts. He would enjoy some pampering from you.
13. Wearing your glasses
When you wear your reading glasses, you might notice your guy staring at you. It is because many guys love seeing their girl in glasses. They find the look cute. Glasses make you look studious.
14. Listening carefully when they speak
When you listen intently to someone without interrupting, it shows your respect for the person and their words. Guys appreciate it when their girlfriend pays attention to what they say without passing any judgments. When you listen patiently, it shows men that you care and give them the confidence to open up more to you. It increases their love for you. So, pay attention, make eye contact, and show support when your guy tells you something.
15. Expressing physical affection in public
Guys love it when their girl shows affection in public. The gesture shows them that you love them and are not afraid to show it in front of the world. Physical affection doesn’t always mean passionately kissing or making out. Subtle gestures when you are out in public can also communicate your love for your guy. Holding hands, touching his shoulder, and casually putting your hand around his waist are some ways to establish intimacy and subtly show your affection.
The preference of men toward overt or subtle forms of affection is dependent on their personalities. Some love the over-the-top displays, while some prefer the innocent physical connection in public. So, understand what your guy likes and act accordingly.
16. Laughing without inhibitions
When you laugh genuinely without any reservations, your face lightens up, and your eyes shine with delight. You look beautiful and alive. It makes you appealing to guys, and they can’t help but stare. Seeing their girl happy makes them glad. If they are the reason for your uninhibited laughter, it makes them feel proud that they achieved this feat.
17. Leaning on them for support
Men have an ingrained need to protect the women they love. Fulfillment of this fundamental protective instinct is essential for them. They love it when their girl shows their vulnerability and leans onto them for support. They feel fulfilled in protecting you and keeping you safe. So even if you are a strong independent woman, don’t be afraid to show your man your vulnerability. He wouldn’t perceive it as a weakness and would support you unconditionally because you are valuable to him.
18. Picking food from his plate
Usually, guys don’t object when their girlfriend picks food from their plate. It is because they find this behavior adorable. They love the familiarity and intimacy of the act. It makes them happy to know that they are providing something to you. So, go ahead and pick those chips from his plate, but don’t be too greedy!
19. Wearing his clothes
If you love prancing around in your boyfriend’s shirt, keep doing it. Guys find it charming when you wear their clothes, especially their shirts/t-shirts and sweatpants. It makes you look cute and sexy at the same time, driving them wild. When your guy sees you in his clothes, he feels like you are subtly sending out the message that you belong to him, which can be a great ego booster.
20. Taking care of him
While men adore taking care of the woman they love, they enjoy being taken care of. They appreciate it if their woman hugs them when they are down, prepares their favorite food, and takes care of their needs when they are sick. It makes them feel cherished and loved. So, show your man some love and care; it would give him a perfect reason to fall deeper for you.
21. Being flirty and playful
Usually, guys start the flirting game to impress or woo their girl. However, they enjoy being wooed too. They love it when their girl takes the initiative and flirts with them. Touching, inviting looks, playing with their foot, and
make them feel desirable. So, surprise your guy once in a while by flirting with him to keep the spark in your relationship alive.
22. Wearing sexy outfits
Sexy clothes don’t mean showing more skin. Clothes such as off-shoulder tops that accentuate your delicate neck and shoulders or well-fitting shorts that show off your long legs are enough to drive your guy crazy.
23. Initiating conversation
Our society dictates that guys should always make the first move. They have to be the ones to initiate conversation. In addition to the pressure of making the first move, they are also weighed down by many dos and don’ts of dating. All this can sometimes get too frustrating. So, when the girl makes the first move by shooting the first text, it can be pleasantly surprising for the guy. It can make him happy to receive the early morning text from you.
24. Getting slightly mad at him
Guys don’t enjoy it when you are full-blown angry. But when you are slightly mad, they find it very adorable. They think it’s cute when you narrow your eyes and pout at them. You might have seen your boyfriend trying to hide his smile when you are mad at him. Don’t get furious at him when he does this; he is just enjoying your endearing expressions.
25. Checking in with him even while spending time with friends
Some guys are secure in their relationships, while some are jealous. But even the most secure guys sometimes wonder what you are up to when you are out with your friends. It doesn’t always mean they don’t trust you; they care for you and miss having you around. During this time, if you send your guy a simple text that says “Hi” or update him about your whereabouts, it would delight him. He would be glad to know you are thinking of him even while you are out with friends. It would put his mind at ease.
26. Displaying your affection on social media
In this new world where posting your life on social media is a trend, expressing affection for your man is not something out of the box. However, this is a great way to show your guy how much you love and appreciate him in front of the world. He would feel happy and proud that you are not afraid to own your relationship in front of the world. The next time he does something that makes you happy, you can post it on Facebook or Instagram. Keep it occasional and avoid posting something extremely private or cheesy.
27. Having a great sense of humor
Women prefer guys who can make them laugh. Men, on the other hand, appreciate women who laugh at their jokes. They love it when their girlfriend shares the same sense of humor as them and enjoys guffawing at their wittiness. Laughing together also helps in building a strong connection. If you are also a witty person yourself, it will add more fun to the equation. Your funny one-liners would crack him up, making him fall for you more.
28. Making puppy eyes at him
Puppy eyes are a guy’s weakness. They find it very difficult to resist them, especially when a girl makes that face. Seeing the cuteness on your face melts their heart, and they can’t say no. The puppy eyes make you look innocent, and they feel the urge to keep you safe.
29. Investing time and energy in bonding with his friends
Guys are generally close to their male friends. These friends are an integral part of your boyfriend’s life. If you invest time and energy in getting to know his friends, it will make him happy. He would appreciate your sincere efforts and adore you more. Your wonderful gesture will make your connection stronger.
30. Stretching in front of him
Guys enjoy watching their girlfriend stretching—it can be any yoga/exercise stretches, straining on the tiptoes to reach someplace high, or lazy stretching. Men are fascinated by the movements you do while stretching. These movements also accentuate your femininity that guys can’t help but admire.
Guys love many things about the woman in their life. He might not be able to vocalize them every time, but if you pay attention, you will see the love in his eyes. You can try any of these things if you want to grab your boyfriend’s attention and impress him.