120+ Interesting Things You Can Talk About With Your Boyfriend

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You might have had occasions when you ran out of things to talk about with your boyfriend. And on such occasions, you may have had apprehensions about your relationship turning dull or your feelings for each other beginning to fade away.

The silence between you and your boyfriend may seem awkward and scary but do not get worried. Every loving relationship, no matter how deep and strong, goes through uncomfortable moments. Instead of letting such circumstances give birth to negative feelings, you should make an effort to strengthen your relationship by coming up with certain alternatives.

The post suggests a list of interesting things you can talk about with your boyfriend when those awkward silences creep in.

121 Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend

Never run out of words while talking to your boyfriend. The following list of things will help you keep the conversation going and add spark to your relationship. Keep reading!

Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend

Struggling to keep the conversation going with your boyfriend? Here are some questions to ask.

  1.  What makes you happy?
  1.  What are your passions and goals in life?
  1.  What do you like the most and why – sea, forest, or hills?
  1.  What does your dream home look like?
  1.  Do you have any embarrassing stories to tell?
  1.  Who has inspired you the most?
  1.  What makes you feel confident about yourself?
  1.  What are your dreams and aspirations?
  1.  What would you do if money didn’t matter?
  1.  Tell me about your family and what they do?
  1.  What are your guilty pleasures?
  1.  Do we have a love language?
  1.  What are your secrets?
  1.  What are your hidden talents?
  1.  What are your New Year’s resolutions?
  1.  What are your fantasies?
  1.  What are the top three things on your bucket list?
  1.  What’s on your travel bucket list?
  1.  What are your future plans?
  1.  What career goals do you have?
  1.  What are your strengths and weaknesses?
  1.  What do you like and dislike?
  1.  When do you want to settle in your life?
  1.  What do you want from your life?
  1.  Want to tell me about your ex? (only if you both are comfortable with that)
  1.  What are your favorite things in life?
  1.  What are some memorable incidents in your life?
  1.  What do you desire?
  1.  Is there any confession that you want to make?
  1.  What are the things that you love and hate about me?
  1.  What’s your craziest story in bed?

Topics To Talk About With Your Boyfriend Over Text

There can be things that you’re too embarrassed or shy to ask your boyfriend in real. So the best thing you can do is to send a text and ask them to reply.

  1.   Tell me your first kiss story.
  1.   What do you like most about me?
  1.   If you become rich, what crazy things will you do?
  1.   What’s your favorite game you wish to play with me?
  1.   Do you like to kiss or hug me?
  1.   How much do you miss me right now?
  1.   Would you like to go on a late-night date with me?
  1.   What’s your favorite place where you want to spend time with me?
  1.   Who is your celebrity crush?
  1.   What do you think about me? Answer in three words only.
  1.   Is there any specific adventure that you want to try out?
  1.   Which is your favorite sport?
  1.   What’s the craziest thing you’ve done while drunk?
  1.   Is there something that you regret doing?
  1.   How happy are you in our relationship?
  1.   Do you see your future with me?
  1.   What is your dream date like?
  1.   When you saw me for the first me, what did you think of me?
  1.   What, according to you, makes us the perfect couple?
  1.   Would you feel jealous if I had a guy best friend?
  1.   Would you like to introduce me to your parents?
  1.   Would you like to travel the world with me?
  1.   What’s your favorite food?
  1.   Do you know how to swim?
  1.   How hard did you try to impress me when we were not in a relationship?
  1.   Would you still love me if our thinking and perceptions differ at some point in time?
  1.   If we’re in a long-distance relationship, do you think it would survive the test of time?
  1.   Would you like to come and meet my parents someday?

Funny Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend

There should be fun in every relationship, and laughter makes a relationship easy. So here are some fun topics to talk about with your boyfriend.

  1.   How would you feel about kissing a pig?
  1.   Why do guys have nipples?
  1.   What’s the worst smell ever?
  1.   Imagine you’re superman. Now tell me, how do you want to use your powers?
  1.   What’s the craziest thing that you’ve ever done?
  1.   Which animal do you think is sexy?
  1.   Have you ever peed in the swimming pool?
  1.   If you were an animal, which animal would you be?
  1.   What’s your favorite go-to lame joke?
  1.   If you were a superhero, what color underwear would you wear?
  1.   Why do guys have testicles?
  1.   What’s the most useless talent you have?
  1.   If you were a zombie, whom would you bite the hardest?
  1.   If you want to insult someone badly, what funny words would you use?
  1.   What’s the weirdest Wi-Fi name you’ve ever heard?
  1.   Have you ever peed in the shower?
  1.   What’s the grossest thing you’ve ever done?
  1.   If you got the power of being invisible for a day, what would you do?
  1.   Have you ever gate-crashed a wedding?
  1.   What’s your favorite organ?
  1.   Have you ever used makeup?
  1.   Have you ever made a prank call and pretended to be a woman?
  1.   What’s the most embarrassing moment of your life?
  1.   Have you ever been caught peeing in public?
  1.   Have you ever farted in public?
  1.   What’s your cheesiest pickup line?
  1.   If you had three testicles, where would you put the third one?
  1.   What’s the most awkward moment of your life?
  1.   Would you sleep with a donkey if it cost you your life?
  1.   If you come across a ghost and they tell you to go to hell, what would you say?
  1.   If I stood naked in front of your friends, would you think that’s funny?
  1.   If a 100-year old millionaire with a single tooth in the front asks you to marry her, would you agree?
  1.   If you were batman, which car would you buy?
  1.   Have you ever kissed a guy?
  1.   Can you wiggle your ears or nose?
  1.   Have you ever stolen anything from anyone?
  1.   Have you ever counted the stars?
  1.   While peeing, have you ever tried hitting a target?
  1.   If you had a treasure to bury, where would you hide it?
  1.   Would you rather be a zombie or a vampire?
  1.   How many dating sites you had a profile on?
  1.   While riding a rollercoaster, do you scream?
  1.   What’s the funniest nickname you’ve been given?
  1.   If a genie offers to grant your three wishes, what would you ask for?

Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend On The Phone

If you’re wondering what to talk to your boyfriend about on the phone, here are some suggestions. Have a look!

  1.  What would you do if I got pregnant accidentally?
  1.  If you win a lottery, what’s the first thing that you would buy?
  1.  How much do you love me?
  1.  If our relationship requires you to compromise on something, would you do that?
  1.  Do you like pets?
  1.  Have you ever wanted to die?
  1.  What’s the most painful thing you’ve ever experienced in life?
  1.  What kind of relationship do you have with your family?
  1.  How are your parents? Are they strict or chill?
  1.  Who are there in your family?
  1.  Have you ever cheated on anyone?
  1.  Do you have any bad habit that annoys other people?
  1.  Have you ever cried while watching a movie?
  1.  What annoys you about my friends and family?
  1.  Whom do you trust the most?
  1.  What’s the best thing about your parents?
  1.  Is there anything that you’re addicted to?
  1.  When did you realize that you’re in love with me?

When you ask the right questions or choose the right topics to talk about with your boyfriend, you get to go a step closer to each other. You start knowing your guy well – in such a way that you’ve never imagined. All the awkwardness, shyness, and hesitation between you go away, and your bond becomes stronger! Ask the above questions and see how well it turns out.

Key Pointers

  • To strengthen your relationship with your boyfriend, talk about his life goals, talents, deep secrets, and future plans.
  • Text him and discuss the favorite place where he would like to take you or an adventure he would try.
  • Have fun talking about the craziest thing he has ever done or his go-to lame jokes.

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Shikha Thakur

Shikha is a writer-turned-associate editor at MomJunction. Her core interest lies in writing articles that guide couples through their courtship to marriage and parenthood. She also specializes in baby names. Being a postgraduate in Human Resources, she likes understanding people and their relationships. This reflects in her relationship articles, where she deals with both the rosy and the grey side... more