6 Things Wives SECRETLY Desire But Never Tell Their Husbands

Husbands and wives have a unique relationship. They share everything in their lives – be it the lovely moments, family problems, responsibilities, and what not. Often, we’d like to believe that there are hardly any secrets between them. But then, what’s life without a few secret desires, isn’t it? The uncertainty and the suspense behind such secret desires are what add spice to our lives. And, like everyone else, wives too have certain secret desires which they never tell their husbands. Want to know what they are? Here are some of them:

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1. Generous But True Compliments

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Remember the time when your wife stepped out of the trial room wearing a steamy dress and asked if it looked good on her? Or when she asked you if she has lost her postpregnancy weight after six months? Well, truth be told, she’s hardly looking for your opinion or approval. However, instances like these are a wife’s subtle way of getting generous compliments from her husband. She knows she is beautiful. But she just loves hearing it from her husband, again and again.

2. Inane Amount Of Flirting

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It’s true! Wives secretly wish to flaunt their flirtatious side to their husbands. Whether it’s words with double entendres, some amount of teasing, secret winking in public places, or stolen kisses in the most unimaginable circumstances, wives can really get creative with it. And if the husband is game, this makes it all the more merrier!

3. They Love Surprises

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Who doesn’t love surprises? Wives are no different. In fact, they love to be surprised as often as possible! Yet, they don’t tell this to their husbands. More often than not, husbands cite their busy work schedules for lack of quality time with their spouses. However, it isn’t as if wives expect extravagant surprises each time (not that anything’s wrong with extravagance). A bunch of pretty flowers, a box of their favorite chocolates, or an unplanned romantic drive – little, impromptu surprises such as these are enough to bring a smile to their lovely faces!

4. Complete Attention

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The best thing a man can give his wife is his undivided attention! Of course, wives do believe in giving space to their husbands. That is why they are often content staying at home, or with the kids, while their husbands go partying. At times, though, husbands may not realize when their buddy-bonding and partying routine goes beyond a certain limit. In the process, they might end up neglecting their wives’ feelings. Listening to her when she’s speaking or taking interest in the way she dresses are some of the ways she’s bound to feel your attention.

5. A Well-Groomed You

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Contrary to popular belief, wives are not always obsessed about dressing themselves up. They also secretly wish that their husbands have a keen sense of fashion. And not only that, women love how men smell, especially after a hot shower or a fresh shave. Whether its the after-shave cologne or just the way you look – we are not sure – but certainly it is a huge, secret turn-on for women. So, don’t reserve your best look for those occasional parties and weddings!

6. That Hint Of Jealousy

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Of course, you trust your wife. And she trusts you too. But with time, your display of affection gets diverted either to your kids or wanes a bit as you get caught up in your daily routines. And then, bang! Out of the blue, your wife bumps into a new neighbor or can’t stop gushing about her new colleague at work. Feeling jealous? Wives love that hint of jealousy on the faces of their husbands on such occasions. It gives them a reassuring feeling that their husbands are still protective about them.

Now that we’ve let you into some of the wives’ secret desires, why don’t you make the most of it? Well, its never too late to bring that spark back in your married life. Give a shot to some of these and let us know (albeit secretly) how it went. Good luck!

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