75 Best Tinder Conversation Starters In 2021

75 Best Tinder Conversation Starters In 2021

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Online dating usually works like this — you swipe right, and it’s a match. Now, that is fantastic. You must now strike a conversation with your Tinder match. A lousy conversation can devastate everything. But how do you successfully initiate a conversation on Tinder? And when you’re online chatting with a potential match, you don’t want to begin with something boring like ‘hey, what’s up?’

The key to leaving a lasting impression on your match is to make them feel something the moment they read your opening lines. Otherwise, your messages will be marked as read in their inbox.

Whether you prefer to take a safe approach and learn about their bio or choose to be more playful and send a GIF and a funny message to draw their attention, these Tinder conversation starters will help you get the conversation started.

Best Tinder Conversation Starters

Choose one of these many options to start a fun and exciting conversation.

1. Aww, you’re so considerate to let me start this conversation.

2. Be honest. Is that your cat, or are you just using it as a prop?

3. What’s the worst conversation starter you’ve got here?

4. What would we be doing right now if you were with me?

5. I’m looking for suggestions. What’s your go-to song when you’re feeling down?

6. What should you avoid saying at your wedding?

7. What do you like to do on weekend mornings?

8. What’s your guilty pleasure?

9. Are you competitive? What are you competitive about?

10. What little things make your day brighter?

11. If you could only eat five dishes for the rest of your life, what would they be?

12. What are some goals you want to achieve before you die?

13. What is your favorite food to eat when you’re starving?

14. Can you tell me about something on your bucket list?

15. What’s one of the funniest/weirdest conspiracy theories you’ve heard?

16. If you could move anywhere in the world, where would you go?

17. What is your most divisive viewpoint?

18. Would you instead get up early in the morning or sleep in until late in the afternoon?

19. How about I begin this conversation, and you start the next?

20. Tell me about your hidden talent.

21. What’s the one thing you always get when you go grocery shopping?

22. Tell me about your celebrity crushes?

23. What’s your most significant, “man why haven’t I done this sooner?” moment?

24. What would you do with $200,000 if you won the lottery unexpectedly?

25. What’s your ideal date night like?

26. You’re going to spend a month on a desert island. What three items would you take with you?

27. How many countries have you visited? What’s the best/memorable one? 28. If you could go to a concert right now, which one would it be?

29. Do you enjoy sports? If yes, what’s your favorite sport and team?

30. What’s your pet peeve?

31. What is one thing you would tell yourself ten years ago?

32. Do you like your job? Do you see yourself doing something else?

33. What’s your ideal date? Hundreds of people in a club or a quiet, intimate candlelit dinner?

34. Who would you choose if you could swap lives with anyone?

35. What would you do if you could stop time?

36. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

37. If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

38. If you could be any cartoon character for a day, who would you choose and why?

39. Apart from family, who is the one person who always got your back?

40. What’s something you don’t understand the hype about?

41. What is your favorite piece of trivia?

42. If you could have three wishes granted by a genie, what would they be?

43. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

44. Is it more important to do what you love or to love what you do?

Funny Tinder Conversation Starters

These witty Tinder conversation starters will make your match laugh and put a smile on their face.

45. What is the most amusing pickup line you’ve got here?

46. What’s the strangest thing that you’ve ever eaten?

47. What would you do if someone pulled your pants down in front of hundreds of people?

48. What’s the weirdest thing a guest has done at your house?

49. What’s the best inside joke you’ve ever heard?

50. Would you like to join the circus? If so, what would be your act?

51. How should I start this conversation? By simply saying hello or use a poor pickup line?

52. Tell me about a funny prank you pulled on someone?

53. Which planet would you choose if you could live on another one?

54. If you had your reality show, what would it be?

55. Let’s cut to the chase. Do you share food on a first date?

56. What are the most embarrassing things that have happened to you?

57. What is the oddest thing about someone that you find attractive?

58. What is that you are most obsessed about?

59. What are your thoughts on stinky cheese?

60. Have you ever used social media to stalk someone? If so, who?

61. What would you do if you could be immortal for a day?

62. If you had to have an extra body part, what would it be?

63. Which celebrity scandal is your favorite?

64. What’s the strangest smell you’ve ever smelled?

65. What is the ridiculous thing you’ve ever done when bored?

66. What’s the most revolting ice cream flavor you’ve ever tried?

67. Did Ross and Rachel ever really break up?

68. What TV shows or movies can you quote in your sleep?

69. What’s the most amusing you’ve searched for on the internet?

70. Huge, enormous, gigantic, big… I never really liked the small talk, and you?

71. Can you explain your first time paying taxes using only emojis?

72. If you were ever arrested, what crime would it be for?

73. When was the last time you burst out laughing so hard you cried?

74. What’s the worst piece of advice that you’ve ever received?

75. Tell me a lie you’ve told to get out of work?

Sometimes sentences can be hard to come by, especially when you like someone. So, it’s a good idea to keep a few conversation starters handy when you need them. Further, such questions will ensure that your personality shines through right from the start, making you appear more authentic.