20 Practical Ways to Make A Man Fall In Love With You

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Relationships need your time and love, and they also need to be nurtured with care. If you are wondering how to make him fall in love with you forever, you are in the right place. A girl cannot control how a guy feels for her, but she can attract his attention and let him know how much he means to her.

In this post, we bring you some interesting and effective tips on making the guy you like to fall head over heels for you. So, read on to learn how to make him fall in love with you and ensure it lasts forever.

How To Make Guy Fall In Love With You: 20 Simple And Crazy Ways

If you have developed feelings for him and he doesn’t seem to feel the same, don’t get discouraged. Get familiar with some of these simple yet crazy ways.

1. Dress up confidently

Take pride in dressing up and embrace yourself like the queen. A clean and crisp outfit portrays dignity and shows you are confident in your style. You can wear something that helps you express yourself. When you are comfortable and confident, you can have a healthy conversation without hesitation.

2. Make him smile

Who doesn’t want to be around someone who makes them laugh? A girl with a good sense of humor is adored by many. When you can make him chuckle, you have won half the battle. You can crack a joke or smile at his humor for a good start.

3. Take a stand for him

It’s demoralizing for a guy when he becomes the center of laughter. This is the time when you should take a stand for him. Let him know either privately or publicly that you value and support him.

4. Smell great

Try the best perfume that suits your personality and matches your style. It will ensure that you leave your fragrance behind whenever you walk past him. He can be attracted to your pleasant scent and will know whenever you are around.

5. Take an interest in his hobbies and interests

Everyone has certain hobbies and passions that they like to indulge in and derive happiness from. Know about his interests and allow him to share how he wants to achieve them. He may appreciate you for being such a good listener, which can start a meaningful relationship.

6. Carry your style

Every girl has a unique sense of style. The style statement you carry should be graceful yet bold. Do not fake or act as a model to impress him. Show who you are by sharing your opinions, and he will be delighted to see you.

7. Try to be his friend

It all starts with a friendship. Be there for him when he needs you the most. Make time for him and let him know that you are there for him. Instead of making him like you, focus on becoming a good friend. This way, you can leave a mark on his heart.

8. Be yourself

Be simple and real. Don’t get too fussy in presenting your best self on social media. Simply embrace who you are, and he will like your way.

9. Be kind and generous

One of the easiest ways to impress your crush is to show how genuinely generous you are. He would love to see you helping others and being active in volunteer programs. Show him what a good heart you have. You two might develop a different kind of connection with each other.

10. Talk about your passions in life

Share your thoughts, likes, and interests with the guy who you like. Tell him how much you love traveling and what’s the best part about it. Talk about your goals and values in life. Make him realize how passionate you are about so many things in life—it is something impressive for a guy.

11. Show your funny side

Nobody likes to be serious all the time, so do not be afraid to share your crazy ideas. Dance and sing even when you’re not good at it. Enjoy being you. You never know your quirks can positively impact your crush.

12. Stay fit

You don’t need to have a perfect body to impress your guy, but remember that staying fit means staying healthy. It also shows how disciplined and dedicated you can be and that can be an impressive aspect about you.

13. Be independent

Being independent is one of the best qualities a person can have. When you do not rely on others and stand for what you believe in, your guy can admire you and fall for you.

14. Add positivity to his life

Instead of focusing on what’s wrong, you should try to come up with a solution. Moreover, be pleasant and avoid gossiping. Be a positive person and attract him with your aura.

15. Make him feel needed

Doing things to make your guy feel needed may increase his affection for you. Asking him to help you with something or seeking his advice can make him feel needed and important.

16. Give him space

Once you make him feel needed, the next step is to give him enough space to share his thoughts and opinions. When you give him space, he can be more open towards you. Nobody would like to have a clingy girlfriend.

17. Surprise him

Even men like to have surprises at times. Keep a note of what he likes and surprise him either once in a while by bringing him his favorite food or taking him to his favorite actor’s movie.

18. Let him be the man he is

Do not try to change the guy he is. When you let him be who he is, he will open up to you without hesitation. And soon, you may find him an inch closer to you.

19. Feel free to disagree

You don’t have to agree with everything the guy says or does to impress him. Even if you disagree, share it upfront with him. This way, he can notice your real character and respect you for who you are.

20. Be honest

Be clear and share your feelings with utmost honesty. If it’s been a long time, then you can be upfront about your feelings. If you tell a man that you’re looking for a serious relationship, he may understand and reciprocate the same way. While being honest, also remember to be kind and non-judgemental.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What triggers emotional attraction in a man?

A man may become emotionally attracted to you when he sees that you are thoughtful and a great listener, take an interest in his hobbies, are independent, and are able to understand his love language.

2. How do I create a deep connection with a guy?

To create a deep connection with a guy, show him that you are committed to the relationship, take an interest in his life, and respect his feelings and opinions. Also, don’t hesitate to show how much you appreciate him because men require affirmation as much as women. With time, your bond will grow deeper and become more meaningful.

Making a guy fall in love with you is all about adding value to his life and helping him be the best version of himself. If he likes you back, then nobody can be happier than you. But if he doesn’t, then don’t get disheartened. Life is all about beautiful experiences. Sooner or later, you will find your soulmate.

Key Pointers

  • To make him fall in love with you, make him smile, bring optimism into his life, and be honest with him.
  • Love is a mutual feeling, so do not get disheartened if he does not feel the same way about you.

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Shikha Thakur

Shikha is a writer-turned-associate editor at MomJunction. Having done a certification in Relationship Coaching, her core interest lies in writing articles that guide couples through their courtship to marriage and parenthood. She also specializes in baby names. Being a postgraduate in Human Resources from Jawaharlal Nehru Technological University, she likes understanding people and their relationships. This reflects in her relationship... more

Shreshtha Dhar

(M.A, M.Phil )
Shreshtha Dhar is a licensed Clinical Psychologist running her private practice Thought Craft in Kolkata. She has special interest in the emotional and behavioral issues of both children and adults. Shreshtha has previosuly worked as a lecturer, published various research papers and contributed to magazines. She provides long distance teleconsultation in English, Hindi and Bengali.