35 Cute Ways To Show Love And Affection In A Relationship

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If your love life has been slacking off lately and you are going through a rough patch with your partner, we can help you with some ways to show love and affection in the cutest way possible. It’s essential to shower the love they deserve now and then to keep your relationship active and blooming for a long time. So read on for some sweet and simple strategies to grab your partner’s attention and make them feel like never before. And sooner or later, you will find a deeper connection with them.

35 Ways To Show Affection In A Relationship

1. Identify your SO’s love language

What is your partner’s love language? Is it words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time, or physical touch? Identify what they usually associate love with and act accordingly.

2. Share

Share your past, ideas, beliefs, hopes, dreams, fears, and responsibilities. Tell them about your vulnerabilities and expectations from the relationship.

3. Listen

Listen to understand your partner. Give them your undivided attention when they are talking to you. And yes, ditch the gadgets when having a conversation.

4. Do something out of the blue

Do something unexpected for your partner. It could be anything from taking them out on a surprise date or sending them a cute video message.

5. Touch

Hold your partner’s hands while walking or watching a movie, give them a hug or kiss before and after work, cuddle each other on the couch, and shower together.

6. Give them a massage

It is a great stress buster and can strengthen your bond. A massage will rejuvenate your partner after a tiring day.

7. Stargaze

Lie down on the lawn with your partner and stargaze. You needn’t talk—just hold their hand and feel each other’s presence.

8. Write them a note

Not many people do it these days. Try it! It can be endearing. Write a simple message, and put it in their bag, or paste it on the refrigerator.

9. Compliment them

Compliment your partner for their looks, hard work, optimism, etc. Let your SO know why you love them.

10. Say “thank you”

Say thank you each time you are grateful for something your partner has done for you. Make them feel appreciated and valued for everything they do.

11. Spend time with your SO’s friends

Make an effort to hang out with your partner’s friends. Get to know them and work at striking a bond with them.

12. Show a keen interest in their work

Ask your SO how their day went at work. Show interest in the project that they are working on and let them know that you appreciate the hard work they put in every day.

13. Do chores together

Do the household chores together and have a great bonding time. You could play your favorite songs while doing the dishes or cleaning the floor and liven things up a bit.

14. Cook their favorite dish

Prepare your partner’s favorite dish when they least expect it. You could also make them a sumptuous breakfast in bed.

15. Seek their advice

This could make them feel that their opinions matter. They could even go out of their way to be helpful and lighten your burden in ways you never expected. Try it.

16. Order their favorite snack

Order your SO’s favorite snack on a lazy afternoon or surprise them by delivering it to their workplace.

17. Give them space

Give them space and time to take up hobbies and do the things they love, without intervention. Give them some me-time, and you take it too.

18. Compromise

Compromise when you have a difference in opinion, approach, or needs. Your partner will respect you for that and reciprocate too.

19. Have fun

Have fun together by indulging in hobbies that you both enjoy. If you are lost for ideas, try any of the fun games on this list.

20. Build trust

Trust your SO, and let them know that you can be trusted. Start by keeping your promises, admitting your mistakes, resolving conflicts amicably, showing empathy, and respecting each other’s differences.

21. Celebrate special days

Make it a point to celebrate your anniversary and birthdays. Show how much your partner means to you, by doing something endearing.

22. Kiss

A kiss a day keeps the relationship alive. Release the oxytocin from your body and build intimacy in your relationship.

23. Flirt with them

Flirting needn’t stop once you are “officially” a couple. Keep the spark alive and revisit those things you did when you first met.

24. Brag about your SO

Tell the world every time your SO accomplishes something significant. While you should not be overdoing it, you can share their successes and accomplishments with your family and friends.

25. Tell them “I love you”

Verbalize your feelings. Say those magical words — “I love you” — more often. Say it out loud and let them feel loved.

26. Have a meaningful conversation

Make time for meaningful conversations whenever possible. Discuss things that matter to you both. Talk about building your future, career, having, or not having kids.

27. Involve your partner in important decisions

Relationships are about partnership. Always involve your partner and take their inputs before making any important decisions.

28. Try out new things together

Explore hobbies that are new for both of you. Doing something new could expose your vulnerabilities. You could help each other reduce those vulnerabilities and forge a strong bond.

29. Bring out the child in you

Do fun stuff together and try to bring out the child in you and your partner. You can blow bubbles, try a giant wheel, or have a competition on licking a popsicle.

30. Discuss your fantasies

Share your fantasies with each other. Better still, act them out and surprise them.

31. Remember the small details

This again requires you to use your listening skills. Pay attention to what they mention about their likes and dislikes. The next time you order something, ensure it is what they like.

32. Be compassionate

Be sensitive to your partner’s feelings. Put yourself in your SO’s shoes and try to look at the world through their eyes. Be for them when they are going through bad times or have lost a loved one.

33. Make yourself useful

Be the go-to person for them. Go the extra mile to help them whenever possible, and take pleasure in it. Help them plan their career or pursue education while you support them financially or support them in starting their own little business.

34. Be your SO’s biggest fan

Provide your unconditional support in whatever your partner does, as long as it is legal and safe. Encourage them and let them know you are with them.

35. Send them cute messages

Keep sending cute messages to your partner during the day. You can either send them on the phone or write them on slips and hide them at various places, such as their wallet, bag, car, etc. Let them know that you are thinking about them.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Why is expressing love important in a relationship?

Expressing your love for your partner gives them a sense of security and makes them feel wanted. They may also feel more comfortable exposing their vulnerable side and reciprocating their affection towards you.

2. Is physical touch necessary in a relationship?

Physical touch is essential in relationships. However, the extent of physical contact required depends on the person involved. While sexual touch is important, non-sexual touches such as holding hands, hugging, and caressing also go a long way in making your partner feel desirable and loved.

This post on ways to show love and affection will help you make your significant another feel special. Relationships need to be nurtured constantly to ensure that you share mutual feelings of love and respect for your partner and there are no communication gaps. You could either write them a note, do chores together or watch a movie to strengthen your bond. You can also flirt and do fun things together to add extra spice to your relationship.

Key Pointers

  • Being affectionate towards each other is the foundation of a relationship.
  • Compliment, listen to them and perform chores together.
  • Ensure to keep the spark alive and keep trying new things together.

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Shikha Thakur

Shikha is a writer-turned-associate editor at MomJunction. Having done a certification in Relationship Coaching, her core interest lies in writing articles that guide couples through their courtship to marriage and parenthood. She also specializes in baby names. Being a postgraduate in Human Resources from Jawaharlal Nehru Technological University, she likes understanding people and their relationships. This reflects in her relationship... more