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Even though pacifiers are a source of great comfort, it is said that their prolonged use may cause harm to your child’s oral and dental health. That is why it is important to wean them off at the right time. Weaning your toddler off their pacifier is quite a significant parental milestone. If your child is between the ages of two to four years, it is high time to consider getting them rid of their pacifiers. In this article, we will take a look at when is the ideal time to take the pacifier away from your child. We will also discuss ways that would ensure a smooth separation of your child and their pacifier. Read on to know all about it!
When Is The Perfect Time To Take The Pacifier Away?
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According to organizations like American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and the American Academy of Family Physicians (AAFP), the ideal age bracket to stop using pacifiers is between two to four years (1). Studies have shown that using pacifiers beyond this age range may cause oral and dental issues, creating serious orthodontic troubles in the future. Moreover, having a pacifier continuously in their mouth may also hamper their language development skills.
However, you should remember that the decision of taking away the pacifier depends on your and your child’s developmental needs. In case your child is going through a major life change like the arrival of a sibling, or being put into day care, having a pacifier may actually help them calm down.
How Can You Take Your Child Off The Pacifier
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Taking the pacifier away from your child can prove to be a difficult task if not addressed methodically. Here are some ways to take the pacifier away from your child without causing much fuss.
1. Address The Issue Head On
Sometimes, the direct approach works best. One day, just take away the pacifier once and for all. Explain to your child that they’re growing up, and it’s time to say goodbye to the pacifier. Expect some protests, but remain consistent.
2. Limit Its Usage
Gradually decrease the pacifier time. Restrict it to specific times, like naptime or bedtime. Make sure your child understands when they can use it and when it’s off-limits. Reward them for following your instructions for better results.
3. Leave It For The Binky Fairy
Another good way of taking the pacifier away is telling your child that the ‘binky fairy’ has taken it away. This will give you a good chance to get them hooked in a story and thus make the transition smooth. Ask your child to leave the pacifier under their pillow or bed for the fairy to take it. In return, they can have a small gift!
4. Encourage Your Child With Positive Reinforcements
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It is important to reward your child when they successfully stop using the pacifier. Giving them rewards like stickers, or chocolates or something they have asked for a long time will help them go through the change easily.
5. Read Books To Them On This Topic
There are children’s books that can help explain the process to them. Find age-appropriate stories that depict characters letting go of their pacifiers. Books with relatable characters will help your child feel less alone in this journey. Reading together can make the transition feel like an exciting adventure. Moreover, this will also help your child ask you questions and understand the whole process better.
6. Stick To The Decision You Have Taken
Once you decide on a weaning method, stick to it. Don’t give in to pleadings for the pacifier, as it can confuse your child. Be firm but gentle in your approach. Remember that the process can be a long one and therefore sticking to the plan is important. If your child pleads for the pacifier a little too often, you can offer them comforting words and help them understand the reason behind your actions. Gradually they will understand and eventually get rid of the pacifier.
7. Let The Process Be Natural
Some children naturally outgrow the pacifier. It is one of the best ways to get your child off the device. Observe your child’s behavior. If you see a gradual decrease in their interest toward the pacifier, you may not need any other method for the transition.
Helping your child part ways with their pacifier is a significant parental milestone. Achieving the milestone is definitely not easy but with the right methods it is achievable. Make sure to be patient and try out different methods to know which one will work best for you. Consistency is the key here. Once you have decided on a method ensure you are sticking to it no matter what. Engage in conversations with your child and observe their behavior to better navigate the process.
