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There are many things we wish we could get from our man. And while we all try to say that our man is perfect, there are things we wish we could slightly change about them. “I wish he could be more sensitive”, “I want him to surprise me like he did when we were dating”, and the list goes on. There’s no doubt that we are complex creatures. Like Justin Beiber puts in his song ‘What Do You Mean’, men often find it hard to decode the meaning of everything we say or don’t say.
Women often hesitate to talk about what they want from their men or their relationship. We wish they could understand it without us telling them exactly what we want. “Shouldn’t they be able to figure it out themselves?”, “I want him to do it on his own” – these are the thoughts that hold us back from communicating in marriage.
What do you think men would say if they got a chance? Do you think they would dare say exactly what they want from their wives? Brace yourselves, because we have got five husbands who told exactly what they want from their wives. Read on to find out if it would reignite the spark in their relationship or would create some fireworks in their marriage.
1. The Fantasizer
“I wish I could get my wife to roleplay sometimes when we are being intimate. She is a very passionate woman, but seeing her dressed in my favorite fictional character would be a fun thing to do inside the bedroom,” says Rakesh who has been married for over 3 years now. This reminds us of how Ross from FRIENDS got Rachel to dress up in his favorite Star Wars character, Princess Leia. Well, communicating his desire might help him to finally get his fantasy fulfilled.
2. The Perfect Guy Doesn’t Exis..
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Oh, only if we could all get a guy like him. Be frank ladies, we all secretly wished that our guy would say that there is nothing he would change about us. “You are perfect” is something we love to hear. And that’s exactly what Kiran said about his wife. “As cliche as it sounds, I don’t wish anything from my wife as she is perfect just the way she is.” All we can say is that Kiran’s wife is one lucky woman.
3. The Guy Who Craves Some Trust
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“I wish my wife could trust me more and feel secure in our relationship,” says one husband. Marriages are built on trust and honesty. And infidelity is something that can rock even a 20-year long marriage. In spite of being a loyal husband and a doting father, Mathew always finds himself being constantly doubted by his wife.
4. The Guy Who Loves To Joke
We all love some Chandler in our guy. Naveen says that he wishes his wife would laugh at his jokes more as she did in the first few years of their marriage. “I miss seeing her tears of laughter when I crack a joke. I simply miss making her laugh.” Naveen definitely makes us go “awww”. But we are yet to find out how good Naveen’s jokes really are.
5. The Guy Who Misses His Girlfriend
“We got married 1 year into our relationship. And my wife got pregnant soon after our marriage. Amid taking care of our kid and dealing with all the household stuff, I terribly miss the relationship we shared in the beginning,” says Sharath. He wishes his wife would find some time for him and they could plan a few romantic dates to bring back the spark. Well, relationships are something you constantly need to work on and we think a few dates and some alone time might be all you need.
Did our post remind you of something you want from your partner as well? What did you think about what these 5 husbands had to say? Do let us know in the comment section below.
