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“I swear it’ll be just between you and me!” Do these words ring a bell? Or “Do not tell this to anyone.”? Well, you know where it’s coming from. We all have our own set of secrets, be it past or present. Secrets we might honestly share only with our closest friends or life partners. Yet, at times, we are scared of letting the proverbial cat out of the bag even to them. Why? Because we fear the stakes involved. Would we lose something that we hold precious? Or will the relationship remain the same post the revelation? This and many other such questions give rise to insecurities. This is why we end up keeping certain things a secret.
When it comes to secrets, there are jokes about how women give the game away when entrusted with one. Ironically, women are also stereotypically believed to keep a lot of skeletons in the cupboard. However, this does not mean that men do not have secrets. Or, are good at keeping one. So, breaking the shackles of the stereotyped mindset, we tell you 6 interestingly big secrets that men hide from their partners. Here goes –
1. Ogling On Adult Content
All men watch blue films! Period! This is a universal truth though we are made to believe otherwise (chuckle)! Despite having their share of fun watching X-rated stuff, men are somehow embarrassed about it. Not only this, they are even embarrassed to let anyone know how often or how long they watch it. This is because they fear being judged. In their defense, it might be true to certain extent. In the society that we are raised in, discussing adult content publicly, let alone watching it, is considered a taboo. Sorry for that, guys!
2. Their Investments
Aha! Now, this is something that gives men a true sense of empowerment. A feeling of richness that they like to flaunt in front of everyone. However, what they do hate is for anyone to know the source of this “richness” – be it shares, bonds, or inheritance. Men generally make sound investment decisions. And reap the benefits too. But, from their perspective, when they’re all in the race to be the king, why let someone else in on the secret path to it! Shhh!!
3. They Are Conscious Of Their Looks
Yet another stereotype generally attached to women. But believe us when we say that men are equally conscious about their appearance. Especially when they are dating women. However, they steer away from expressing this openly. Again, due to the societal pressure where this might not be considered masculine.
4. Their Expenditures
While men work hard to earn and invest, they also feel entitled to their own wealth. But when they do indulge in shopping sprees and spend wholeheartedly, they do so albeit secretly. However, unlike women, a man’s expenditure really doesn’t come under the scanner. One reason could be that there isn’t another man repeatedly bugging him and asking him how much more he wants to shop!!
5. Family Issues
This is one secret that is probably the raw nerve of every man. Be it family health issues, internal relationships, or family feuds – men more often than not like to keep them a secret. However, if you do wish them to spill the beans, share some of yours first. And then watch the skeletons tumble out of the cupboard. But make sure your lips are sealed too afterward.
6. Puppy-Love Adventures
Ah, puberty! Another phase of a man’s life that embarrasses him. Your dude may be a stud now. But there was a phase where he was a bumbling nerd. Especially around that one girl, he had the hots for. Those embarrassing stumbles before asking her out only to be friend-zoned. Or that first kiss which he completely messed up. There will be hundred such embarrassing (mis)adventures he will hate sharing with anyone, especially you.
Now that you’ve got your hands on enough fodder to feed your curious mind, head out straight to wherever your man is. Get him to open the Pandora’s box and watch his face go red with embarrassment! Happy hearing!
