Raising Kids: 8 Myths That Aren’t True

If you are a soon-to-be parent, you must have come across many suggestions. Most of them must be from your parents or relatives, who want the best for your child. Although, not every tip is entirely accurate. Some myths can be funny, while others may be misleading about your child’s upbringing. Today, we’ll take you through some of the most popular myths about parenting that are not true. Read on to bust these myths once and for all.

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1. Slapping Your Child Is Good For Discipline

Slapping Your Child Is Good For Discipline
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One of the most challenging things to do as parents is getting your kids disciplined. This process can be tiring and frustrating for almost every parent. And sometimes, things can go out of hand with your child in public places, and your frustration might result in punishing them physically to make them behave properly.

Although this act might end the ongoing drama or behavior, this isn’t a good way of handling indiscipline. Your child might become more aggressive and antisocial in the long run if you continue this treatment. To avoid this situation, you can communicate with them and try to stay calm when they misbehave to build a trustworthy relationship with them.

2. Sports Have Something To Do With Taller Height

Sports Have Something To Do With Taller Height
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You must have heard of a superstition that if someone walked across your body in childhood, you would not grow an inch after that. And one such myth is that playing specific sports will help your child get taller. But unfortunately, this isn’t true at all. Although it might boost the growth of your children, their height ultimately depends on the genetics they get from you.

Since playing sports has nothing to do with your child’s height, it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t indulge in any sports activities. On the contrary, you should encourage them to participate as sports is a great way to enhance their overall personality.

3. Letting Your Baby Cry Alone

Letting Your Baby Cry Alone
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You should never let your child keep crying if you think they are doing it on purpose. They are no evil manipulators, and the only way they can communicate with you is through crying. Isn’t that adorable? They only cry if they feel hungry, thirsty, or sleepy.

Although, after nine months, babies may recognize manipulation and scream their way to their desired outcome. To help them relax, try swinging them in a rocking chair while you softly massage their head and play soothing music.

4. By Carrying Your Little One Too Much, You Could Spoil Them

By Carrying Your Little One Too Much, You Could Spoil Them
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This myth is hilarious, to be honest. No parents would want their baby close to them so they can spoil them. Although your baby might always try to get themselves in your arms, that just shows how deeply they are connected to you emotionally and physically. Your baby needs to be held intimately to feel warm, breathe well, and healthily acquire weight.

Additionally, it may help you and your child become closer and more aware of one another.  Fathers can also carry their newborns to establish a close relationship.

5. The Needs Of Children Must Always Be A Priority

The Needs Of Children Must Always Be A Priority
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Parenting can become emotionally and physically demanding and stressful, and it takes a lot of effort and dedication to meet your children’s needs. Parents must be stable and in good health to guide their children in the proper route. Additionally, since you are the main person in charge of their safety and protection, your child may experience fear and anxiety if you aren’t entirely calm.

6. Your Kid Will Feel Neglected If You Say “No”

Your Kid Will Feel Neglected If You Say No
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You can say “no” to your children. For example, if you don’t sound threatening or intense, your child might feel safer if you place certain restrictions on them. This can also help your kid learn a range of new abilities, but remember that the situation is more crucial than the term itself. For instance, you might exclude your misbehaving child from a gathering, give them time to cool off, and verbally express their annoyance.

7. Sugar Makes A Child Hyper

Sugar Makes A Child Hyper
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You might believe that sugar causes hyperactivity in real life if you’ve ever seen a cartoon movie with your kids in which that is how it is portrayed. However, for the majority of children, sugar does not cause hyperactivity. It may not be the candy that makes children hyperactive; rather, it may be the anticipation of sugar they feel during a birthday bash.

8. Holding Books Too Near Will Cause Eye Strain

Holding Books Too Near Will Cause Eye Strain
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Another  outdated myth claims that if your child holds anything too close to their eyes, it could harm them. On the contrary, keeping a paper or other object near their face won’t do any lasting harm. When our eyes find it difficult to focus, we all understand what it feels like to have stuff right in front of our faces; it produces some eye strain and discomfort, but nothing permanent.

No matter the myth a parent comes across raising their kid, all these myths pass on to the next generation without hesitation. So let us know in the comments section about the crazy yet believable myths you’ve heard about a child’s upbringing.

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