3 Reasons You Love Co-Sleeping And 3 Reasons Your Partner Can't Stand It

Co-sleeping is a pretty controversial topic in the parenting world. Some parents think of it as their saving grace whereas others are dead against snuggling up to their little one all night long. But irrespective of if you subscribed to the co-sleeping life through careful meticulous research and planning or by complete accident, there is only one reason for this big change and that is sound sleep. After months and months of sleepless nights all parents want is a good night’s sleep. And at first, co-sleeping may seem like the solution to all your problems. But does this apply to your partner as well? Sometimes co-sleeping may seem like a dream until you realize that your partner is a light sleeper and wakes up every time your baby snores or sniffles. Co-sleeping brings out a love-it-or-leave-it attitude in those who try it. Ever wonder which side of this bed you lie on? Here’s a list to help you decide.

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3 Reasons Why You May Love Co-sleep

1. You Sleep

You Sleep
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Let’s be honest, this one is number one on everyone’s list of priorities. At the end of the day, no matter what the process may be, if co-sleeping works for you and your baby, there is nothing like it. Never again will you be jolted awake wondering if it’s the baby monitor whimpering or just plain paranoia. This can lead to deep, undisturbed sleep. Finally!

2. Cuddle Time Is The Best Time

Okay we’re sure the cuddles come in at a close second. There’s nothing more satisfying than cuddling your baby right before bedtime. And the fact that you won’t have to untangle them from your arms and lay them down only makes it so much sweeter. Besides this way you don’t run the risk of waking them up. Talk about a win-win situation!

3. Nighttime Feeding And Diaper Changes Are Much Easier

Nighttime Feeding And Diaper Changes Are Much Easier
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The main reason so many parents love co-sleeping is because it’s practical. Getting out of the bed in the middle of the night at regular intervals to either feed the baby or change their diaper can be a nightmarish experience. It will leave you groggy and exhausted because falling back asleep is nearly impossible. However, when you sleep next to your little one all you have to do is roll over and proceed to feed, change or pat your baby to sleep.

3 Reasons Your Partner Does Not Love Co-sleeping

1. No Sleep

No Sleep
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As it turns out, not everyone can fall asleep with a baby right next to them. Some people are very sensitive to sound or touch and will wake up instantaneously if their baby so much as sniffles or snores quietly at night. Your partner may also be very anxious about the fact that your tiny infant is sleeping right next to them, fearing that they might hurt them by mistake. This fear can keep them awake and on edge all night long. So while you and your baby snore blissfully, your partner is two seconds away from having a full blown panic attack. A few of these nights in a row and you’ll be kissing co-sleep goodbye!

2. Cuddle Time Is A Problem

We know what you’re thinking, how can someone complain about cuddle time? Although this may seem like the most magical time for you, your partner may not feel the same way and they’ve got a valid reason for this. Cuddling can be a no-go when your partner seems to be a magnet for small feet and fists. Your baby may not look like they can do much damage but if they move their legs and arms a lot when they sleep, they can cause discomfort to your partner who’s taking every hit that comes their way. So, you’re either going to have to stop co-sleeping or get a bigger bed.

3. Something Is Missing

Something Is Missing
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This could be a quiet bedtime routine without your baby or a few moments alone with your partner at the end of the day. Whatever it may be for you, there’s no denying that co-sleep has robbed you of these precious moments to unwind. Your partner may also miss the spontaneity they used to share with you. Now the only mystery lies in whether or not the kid’s diaper will leak on them. Distance really does make the heart grow fonder and there is nothing wrong with wanting some time away from the baby, even if it’s just in sleep. Talk to your partner and find out how much of a problem this really is. Maybe you can work something around the things they miss the most, like watching your favorite show together until you both fall asleep.

No matter where you and your partner stand when it comes to co-sleeping, the most important thing to do is communicate with each other and find a balance that works for the both of you. Maybe this is a temporary situation where you and your partner don’t sleep next to each other until you no longer have to co-sleep with the baby. Whatever the case may be, do what works for your family!

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