19 Signs That Say You Are An Unromantic Wife

Your husband is a hopeless romantic, and you have no romantic streak in you whatsoever. Ugh, that makes a bad combo right? Well, it takes all sorts to make the world, isn’t it? And in a marriage, the partners should ideally complement each other, but that’s not the case always. What if you don’t reciprocate your husband’s romantic moves at all. Isn’t that sad? I am not saying that romance is all in a marriage, but it can act as a catalyst in your marriage that leaves a beautiful effect.

Take a closer look at yourself and check on your romance quotient. Here are a few signs:

  1. You don’t appreciate the little things he does for you, and what makes it worse is you don’t even notice those little things.
  1. He’s got flowers for you on your birthday, and you think it’s a waste of money.
  1. He holds hands in the movie theater, and you just push him away as you want to focus on the movie and popcorn.
  1. He’s got a box of chocolates for you out of the blue, and all you can discuss is your TV serials.
  1. He lends a hand in the kitchen on his off day, and you are like, “Please, I don’t want to get sick eating what you cook!”
  1. He’s surprised you with a candle-light dinner, and you think it’s for teenagers.
  1. He loves calling you ‘baby’, but you detest it. You make no attempt to understand the language of love.
  1. He plans for a weekend getaway to a cozy resort, and you tell him, “Wow great, let me ask my parents to join us.”
  1. He prepares dinner for you to surprise you after work, and you say, “Thank God, let’s eat quickly and sleep”, instead of giving him a nice and warm hug.
  1. He makes you coffee, and you say, “It’s too bitter to my liking.”
  1. You are busy in the kitchen, he comes and holds you from behind and instead of enjoying the warmth of his hug, you shrug him away saying, “Please not now!” How cruelly, unromantic is that!
  1. Being silent is one thing but not talking even when he wants you to is totally unromantic.
  1. He sends you romantic texts at an odd hour and instead of being thrilled about it, you let it slip the cracks.
  1. He plans for a long drive with you, and all you want is tag your best friend along!
  1. He buys you a beautiful watch, and you tell him, “That’s not what I wanted.” Lady, you have just broken his heart.
  1. You’re quite scared when watching a horror movie, and he holds your hand to calm you down. But, instead, you just your hand away and start biting your nails.
  1. You just walk up to him and ask him what gift he would like on his birthday, with a straight face. Darling, you could have surprised him something nice instead, right? He would appreciate your surprise as it’s not the gift that matters, but the concern and love in a relationship that does.
  1. He loves his adventurous rides and sports and is kind enough to ask you to join him. But no, you’d rather say no than cheer him up.
  1. Nothing upsets a guy more if you sit there with a dull face when you are meeting his friends and family!

Simple things such as doing the above things right can spice up your marriage and can go a long way in strengthening your bond forever. It’s better late than never, so ladies if you think you fall in the unromantic end of the spectrum, it’s time to turn the tables. Take charge of your romantic life by appreciating the little things that he does for you, understanding his emotions, surprising him with romantic dates, complimenting him, and just letting him know you love him by saying, ‘I love you’ more often. And mean it too! Make your marriage romantic!

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