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Don’t we all just adore and love our husbands like crazy? Of course, we do (it is hard not to)! From working tirelessly to sacrificing and always making family their number one priority, there is nothing they will not do. All they want in return is for us to be happy. They know exactly how to pamper us, albeit in their own sweet way. We just need to know the signs, especially when it is staring right at us.
However, most of us have fallen prey to a few unrealistic expectations here and there. We are often enamored by the extravagant gestures and ignore the things that matter in the process. Trust us, it is not that one big gesture which makes a difference. What matters is those billions of tiny ones, which lets us know their love for us. Here, we bring you some of those signs that might help you spot whether your husband can fulfill the most important vow “till death do us part”:
1. Through Thick And Thin
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If you have found the one, he is going to be by your side in the bad times as much as he is during the happy times. If you are feeling low and it is an off-day, he will not complain and just get what you are going through.
2. A Listener Is A Keeper
When you discuss your woes and worries with him, he listens intently. If you share a genuine concern regarding the relationship, he works toward making a change.
3. Lets You Relax
There are days when you might want to just unwind and relax. Maybe sleep for a little longer. If your significant other understands this and takes a few responsibilities off your plate, you know you have found your soulmate.
4. Treats You Like An Equal
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Yes, he treats you like a princess. But, when the time comes, he understands you are his partner and have an equal say. Not only does he listen to your opinion on things but he also respects it. He won’t take any important decision without discussing with you first.
5. Just Can’t Keep A Secret From You
Yes, we know that this habit might have also ruined a plenty of surprises for you. But, you can rest assured that there is nothing major he will hide from you. Your partner will always let you know everything you need to know (and even the ones you don’t).
6. He Remembers The Little Things
He will remember about that dress you once liked in the store but did not buy because it was too expensive. And, will get it for you the first chance he gets. He will remember how your legs were aching a little too much in the morning. And, will give you a foot massage the minute you both are back from work.
7. Always Makes Sure You Are Alright
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Your significant other will ask you how your day was and listen to your response too. In fact, if he senses a shift in the tone, he will ask you repeatedly just to be sure.
You know that you don’t have to do everything on your own. You share all the chores giving both of you the time to have a moment of peace. The best part is that you know he will step in to help you out if need be.
9. Values Your “Me” Time
Your partner will spend time with his friends and will encourage you to do the same. If you need some time alone doing your own stuff, he totally gets that. A little alone time can do a lot to keep both you and your partner rejuvenated and more involved in the relationship.
10. He Does Things Just Because…
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There are times when he might not want to do a particular thing like watching a chick flick. But, he will still go ahead and do it just to make you happy.
At times, we forget to appreciate our hubbies just because we are so used to their awesomeness. But, now is the time. Step back from your device, go to your husband, and let him know how amazing he is!
