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Deciding if you want to have a baby is one of the most critical decisions in a person’s life. It’s true that your life changes when you have a little one in your arms. Suddenly that little bundle of joy becomes the central focus of your life, and you will do anything and everything in your power to make their lives extraordinary. All thanks to the internet, there is no surprise element left in what to expect when you have a baby. Here are some things every new parent goes through that might help you decide whether or not you are mentally, physically, and financially ready to welcome a little one in your family. Read on to know them all.
1. Say Good-Bye To Good Nights Sleep
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If you ask a mother when was the last time she slept well, she will literally have to go back the memory lane and pick a time when no baby was sleeping beside her/on her. It’s a mystery how moms manage to function perfectly without sleeping adequately for years.
2. It Might Be Hard For You To Catch Up
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You just had a baby, and now you are finally setting foot outside your home; it might not be exactly like how you left it. Your discussion topics will always hover around the baby, and all you share are baby photos. So it’s ok if you can’t find topics of dating and clubbing interesting anymore; tons of moms will totally understand you.
3. Feeding Can Be A Challenge
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Kids don’t take weaning well, and there might be days when your highlight of the day will be feeding your kid. It can take hours just to feed one meal. Also, you might feel dissatisfied if your child does not finish the entire bowl, but don’t ever force-feed your child. Your baby will eat if they are hungry and stop when they are full. Forcing food on them can give way to unhealthy eating habits.
4. Be Prepared With A Lot Of Nappies
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You probably guessed that babies poop a lot, but what you didn’t know is that it has to be cleaned after every 15 minutes. So be ready with tons of diapers, diaper rash creams, wipes, and a nice diaper change kit.
5. There Is A Fourth Trimester
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It doesn’t end just after the baby is handed over to you. A baby needs your warmth, essence, and heartbeat sound even after they are born. But obviously, you won’t mind, as holding your baby in your arms is the best and most rewarding feeling ever.
6. You Have Not Seen Anything Like Your Babies’ First Poo
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If you are eating right now, sorry, but someone needs to tell you this. You might be scared at first, but the first poo is more like black tar. Also, don’t bother washing it out of the bedsheet or nappy as it doesn’t come off. You just need to throw it away.
7. You Will Feel Every Emotion
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It might be the hormones, but you will feel every emotion at once. One moment you are overjoyed at seeing your baby; the next, you are crying as you can’t remember where your birth certificate is. The hormonal turmoil will recede in a few weeks if you get ample time to rest.
8. You Will Miss Your Baby Even When You Hold Them
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There is no end to how obsessed you can get with your child. It will always feel like you have the only baby in the world. Also, you might feel like you miss your ‘me time’ and sulk about missing your hobbies. There will come a time when you leave your baby with the dad or grandparents for the first time, and you won’t be able to think of anything other than when you will hold your baby again.
9. You Will Be Obsessed With The Baby
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You might not know a lot about skin care or take the effort for yourself, but you will turn into a skincare enthusiast once you have a little one. You will do anything and everything to keep the baby’s delicate skin nourished and healthy. Also, not all ingredients used in popular products will suit your child. While heat rash and diaper rash are common in infants, getting the products beforehand and seeing what suits your baby is essential.
10. The Development Is Not Linear
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Not every baby follows the book when it comes to reaching milestones. Others might tell you it’s just for a few months, but you might have to deal with it the whole year. If your child sleeps on time, has food on time, doesn’t get gassy, and follows the growth chart, consider yourself blessed. It’s essential to be patient and work on a positive routine to work through the changes in the early days of parenthood.
11. Feeling Lonely Is Normal
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They say you can be in a room full of people and still feel lonely. This is common when you become a new mom. Although you might have a supportive husband who participates actively in parenting, the midnight nappy changes and nursing sessions might feel somewhat isolated. But again, there will be moments when there are people to take the baby from you and let you rest, but you will miss holding your baby!
No one ever said having a baby would be easy. From the moment they are born until they are old enough to take care of themselves, you will always feel responsible for guiding them and caring for them. But then again, it is the most rewarding feeling to see your child prosper and succeed in life. So, do you have anything to add to the list from your personal experience? Let us know in the comments section!
