How To Attract An Aries Man: 16 Simple Ways

An Aries man is passionate and confident with a fiery personality. If you are drawn to him, we have some tips on how to attract an Aries man.

An Aries man belongs to the first fire zodiac sign and can be hot-headed and self-centered. He is a man who loves to surprise his partner with gifts and pamper her. He is anything but a selfish lover, so be assured that he will love you fondly when in a relationship. An Aries is ruled by Mars and driven by competitiveness and ambitions.

If you want to know how to grab his attention, scroll through as we have compiled a few ideas and tips to help you court him, along with his preferences for seeking a partner.

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How To Attract An Aries Man: 16 Ways

The first rule in the attraction game is to ‘be patient.’ Attracting an Aries man can be a little tricky, so you need to be calm even if you are nervous. Once you get this right, the rest should be a smooth drive.

1. Allow him to chase you

To entice an Aries man, it’s important to present a bit of a challenge and make him work to win your heart. An Aries man likes women who are difficult to impress. Play a little hard to get and see how he takes it up as a challenge to woo you. Nothing excites him more than a good chase. When he gets you too easily, the chances are that he might get bored quickly. So, make him work hard to win your heart.

2. Tickle his funny bone

One way of making him want you is to display your humorous and witty side. The more he enjoys your company, the more he will be smitten by you and looks forward to spending time with you. And when you pull back, he will want to chase you with fervor and determination.

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If you are not naturally humorous then do not try too hard to make him laugh. Forced attempt at humor can put him off as a sharp Aries man will see right through the façade. Instead, work on the other pointers mentioned below.

3. Flirt with him

Flirting may attract an Aries man

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Flirting with him can be a great way to seduce an Aries man and pique his interest in you. He would enjoy some teasing too. If flirting in person seems complicated, try it through texts. Play hard to get and do not cave in too quickly. Make him excited, but just enough to let him long to be with you.

4. Avoid being a damsel in distress

Some men love to save the day for women, and an Aries man is no different. However, remember that he likes a woman who is strong and independent. Running to him for every small problem will put him off, and he might lose interest in you. Instead of asking him for help with everything, tempt him by showing how you solve your issues effortlessly and prove to him that you can be okay on your own too.

5. Have a career goal

A successful and confident woman who knows what she wants can easily bewitch an Aries man.  A successful career is what an Aries man is often after. He pursues his ambition passionately. Similarly, he appreciates a career-oriented woman who works hard to achieve her life goals.

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Don’t make the mistake of putting your career goals on the back-burner after finding love. An ambitious Aries man appreciates and admires a woman who has her priorities set and knows how to achieve her goals.

6. Be physically active

Be physically active

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Outdoor games, sports, and activities excite an Aries man. If you like outdoor activities too, then you have found your perfect match. If not, start exercising and then move on to outdoor activities. It is a win-win situation because it will help you get closer to him and also inculcate a healthy habit in you. You can also suggest trying out new outdoor activities together, as Aries men tend to enjoy a good challenge. This can satisfy his competitive nature and bring some excitement and fun to your relationship. It can even enthrall him, making him feel more connected to you and appreciative of your adventurous spirit.

7. Maintain occasional distance

Even if he has won your heart after chasing you, it does not mean your job is done. An Aries man can get bored easily, so you need to put in constant effort. Take a break from him once in a while. Give him some space to miss you. If he doesn’t reply to your messages, do not pester him for it. Let your absence beguile him, and he will come around eventually.

8. Ask about his preferences

Confidence is an attribute of an Aries guy, and he loves to talk about himself. Show interest in knowing him. Ask him about his likes, dislikes, and hobbies. Don’t ask everything in one day. Leave some questions for your next date, so he looks forward to meeting you to share some more details about himself.

9. Do not pretend to be something you are not

Do not pretend to be someone you are not when dating an Aries man

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To truly allure an Aries man, it’s important to be authentic and genuine in your interactions with him. An Aries guy despises any pretense. In a bid to impress him, if you try to match interests with him or fake knowledge about something, he will not like it and might bid you goodbye. He has no time, or interest in playing fake games, so do not even try that with him.

10. Be socially active

An Aries man likes hosting and entertaining friends and family. He wants to spend time with his close ones and invites them to his house and enjoys treating them. So, it is natural for him to seek a partner who can manage a social gathering and be a good host to his party.

11. Get along with his friends

If you want to be a good host, you need to get along with the people that matter to your Aries man — especially his friends. If his friends find you cool and awesome, he will be glad to have found you.

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You do not have to force yourself to like his friends. But you can surely be warm and cordial with them. Treat them well despite any differences and your Aries man will love you for your consideration.

12. Try to be fun-loving

Be fun-loving, how to attract an Aries man

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Your Aries man is not the type to stay put for long. He has to be up to something because he is a fun-loving person. So, if you want to be with this guy, try out adventurous activities. If you can be a partner who matches his enthusiasm for life, he will never let you go. If you can pursue new experiences together, he will never let you go.

13. Participate in community service

Leadership comes naturally to your Aries man. And so does being socially responsible. He is a very compassionate person and is always ahead of others to help those in need. If you want to make your way to his heart, try to take some interest in community service, or if he ever asks you to accompany him, do not fail to show up.

14. Focus on his good qualities

Like anyone else, an Aries man too exhibits certain negative traits, such as childish behavior, selfishness, and over-competitiveness. When you witness these traits, try to keep your calm. Do not snap at him or continuously point out his flaws. Be patient and focus on the good that he offers—his natural charm, confidence, and smartness. Let him know that you accept him at his best and worst.

15. Show him you have similar tastes

Show him you have similar tastes

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Aries men have a taste for museums, galleries, and artistic stuff. If you are interested too, show him you have a penchant for finer things. You can talk about the last museum or art exhibition you liked or your collections. Sharing similar interests can help you get closer and amplify their desire to be with you.

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Don’t try to be in sync with his personality. If you fake interests only to get closer to him, he will eventually notice and will despise you for trying to mold yourself differently only to impress him.

An Aries man is passionate, so once he knows you are the one for him, he will hold on to you forever. He will consider you as a life partner only if he finds compatibility. Someone who can spend time with him enjoying all that life has to offer and who will adorn his life with love and happiness, intrigues him.

16. Don’t be clingy

It is important not to be clingy when trying to attract an Aries man because he is a fiery, independent soul who thrives on freedom. Aries individuals, being a fire sign, discover their true power when given the space to navigate life independently. Restricting their freedom may lead to an explosive reaction, hindering the connection. Clinginess contradicts the Aries’s nature, as they relish independence. Allowing him the freedom to pursue his interests fosters trust in the relationship. By embracing his need for autonomy, you demonstrate understanding and appreciation for his individuality, creating a foundation for a healthier and more harmonious connection with the dynamic and energetic Aries man.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How do I know if an Aries man is into me?

Some obvious signs that an Aries man is attracted to you include being your shadow and following you around. He praises you with compliments, frequently asks you out on dates, introduces you to his friends and family, and is honest and transparent with you.

2. What is an Aries man’s love language?

Physical intimacy and positive words are the love language of an Aries man. The perfect companion for them is also their strongest advocate and cheerleader.

3. What type of humor and wit does an Aries man appreciate, and how can I incorporate this into my interactions with him?

Aries men tend to appreciate a quick-witted and clever sense of humor. You can incorporate such humor into your interactions with him by skillfully opening humor-filled conversations and using gifs, memes, wordplay, witty comebacks, intellectual puns, or playful teasing to spark his interest in you. However, ensuring your delivery is timed, situationally appropriate, and non-judgemental or unbiased is essential.

4. What turns an Aries man on the most?

A friendly-yet-heated debate, a spontaneous lovable suggestion or reminiscing text, and a relaxing massage can all be potential turn-ons for an Aries man.

You can try a few of these tips to win over your ideal Aries man. When trying to win over an Aries man, it’s important to maintain your own unique appeal and personality. Give it your best shot, but do not do it at the cost of losing yourself in the bargain. You are a one-in-a-billion. Make the whole exercise fun, be patient, be genuine, and he will eventually shower you with all the love and care in the world.

Infographic: Additional Ways To Attract An Aries Man

Along with the ways mentioned above, we have prepared the following infographic containing a few more approaches to catch the attention of an Aries man. Give the infographic a read and save it for future reference.

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Key Pointers

  • Aries men are known to be compassionate and confident about their feelings.
  • You need to be patient and allow him to pursue you instead of going after him.
  • Be yourself before him, and don’t pretend to be someone else before an Aries guy.

Learn how to get an Aries man to fall for you! Discover the secrets to winning his heart and making him yours forever.

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