15 Subtle Signs Of A Virgo Man In Love

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Virgo men are usually straightforward with their emotions, but sometimes it is tricky to identify a Virgo man in love. However, compatibilities between a couple rely on several factors, including cultural, professional, and age-related attributes. In addition, individuals of different zodiacs convey their likings differently, and you must comprehend these signs to adapt and react accordingly.

Virgo men are known to express their feelings in quite optimistic ways. So whether it’s listening to you while getting to know you well or spending some quality time with you to support or cheer you, it is easy to make out when a Virgo man starts to have romantic feelings for you.

Browse through this post to understand the top signs that may indicate that a Virgo man could be in love with you.

15 Signs That A Virgo Man Is In Love With You

1. He’s not afraid to let his hair down

Virgo men tend to be more self-conscious than others. They are usually very concerned about how others perceive them. A promising sign that a Virgo man is in love with you is if he is not worried about being himself around you.

It shows that he cares for you enough to be himself without worrying too much about how he is perceived. He wants you to see that unknown side of his personality. If a Virgo man opens up to you and feels relaxed around you, maybe he’s trying to tell you something.

2. He tries to stand out from the crowd

Virgo men will make an effort to stand out from the crowd to get your attention or affection. This will manifest itself in how he cracks jokes, demonstrates his social skills, shows his capabilities in sports or general knowledge, etc. This doesn’t necessarily mean he’s competitive or jealous. He’s showing off to attract your attention.

3. He loves to make conversation with you

By this, we don’t mean small talk. Virgos are known for their excellent communication skills, which is something you are bound to notice. Every conversation you have with him will be stimulating, thought-provoking, and enjoyable, going beyond the trivial “How was your day?” or “What did you have for lunch?” Virgos also prefer to speak to you in person. When this is not always possible, they will prefer to talk over the phone instead of messaging.

4. He makes you feel special

Virgos are famous for their tendency to show their affection through gestures. This can manifest in the form of grand gestures during birthdays, promotions, anniversaries, etc. They will go out of their way to make every occasion memorable and make you feel wanted; you are the center of attention for them.

This doesn’t stop at grand gestures. Don’t be surprised if he constantly showers you with small gifts and treats, writes you romantic or funny notes, and does other little things that are intended to brighten up your day. Through these efforts, he wants to show that you are special to him.

5. He puts in the effort to get to know you well

Virgo men tend to take it to the next level when trying to get to know a romantic interest. Most people who have a crush on you will remember things such as your dietary preferences or favorite drink, but a Virgo man will want to know the most minute details about you. These could range from a childhood hobby to your favorite band or even the name of a pet you had growing up. If a Virgo makes an effort to know all these little things about you, it is a strong sign that he is in love with you.

6. He loves your furry friends

Virgos are known to be extremely sociable and friendly, but this doesn’t end with humans alone! Most Virgos are pet lovers and tend to get along well with animals. A Virgo’s natural attachment to nature and animals will make him gravitate towards loving and caring for your pets and getting to know their little quirks and behavioral patterns. If a Virgo man is often willing to walk your dog or brings treats for your pets, you can safely assume he is romantically interested in you.

7. He has a deep respect for you

Virgos are often considered picky or judgmental, but this is inaccurate. What is true, though, is that most Virgos are perfectionists who strive to better themselves and others whenever they can. This means that if a Virgo man is in love with you, you have little to no flaws in his eyes. This will manifest in him having a positive opinion about you as a person and showing you great respect in all your interactions. If you’ve managed to earn a Virgo man’s respect, love can’t be too far behind.

8. He plans your meetings ahead of time and in great detail

You may think that it’s just a hangout or a quick lunch, but you can rest assured that if the person planning it is a Virgo, he has put in a lot of thought and effort into it. Everything from the restaurant location to the choice of cuisine will have been factored in to suit your taste and liking. A seemingly random stop on the way to the restaurant will have been part of his plan all along. If a Virgo man makes plans with you, it’s safe to assume he really cares about you.

9. He listens intently and pays a lot of attention to you

It’s not some supernatural power that makes a Virgo man know you so well. It’s a consequence of them being good listeners and their intrinsic nature of paying attention to detail. While Virgos are good listeners in general, they will make a much greater effort for someone they are interested in romantically. If he listens to you attentively and remembers the smallest details of your conversation, there’s a good chance he is in love with you.

10. He seems to know you better than yourself

Virgos are incredibly perceptive. This means they will often notice things about you that you may not even know yourself. They will likely notice how you like to fidget, how you tie your hair, how you sound when you’re sleepy or tired, the things you look forward to, and even your morning routine.

And when we say they notice these things, we mean they love these things about you. From your quirks to your likes and dislikes, few people will know you better than a Virgo.

11. He pursues you, and only you

While a Virgo man might like to give you gifts, make occasions memorable, or keep you happy when you are with him, this is much more than simple flirting. For one, it is highly improbable he treats other women the same way. He will go above and beyond for you and only you. Virgos like to be exclusive and committed when it comes to romance. So, it’s highly likely that he is in love with you and only you if he’s putting in a lot of effort to brighten up your day whenever you meet.

If and when a Virgo man does confess his feelings for you, it’s very likely that they will want to pursue a serious relationship, as Virgos are deeply committed and do not often have casual relationships.

12. He restrains himself from displaying physical affection

Virgos can be extremely open, conversational, and caring, but they usually balance these out by being a little restrained about public display of affection. While a Virgo has no problem pouring their heart and soul out to the person they love, they will, at least initially, hesitate when it comes to overt displays of emotion. It’s not that they are shy, but it comes from a place of respect and understanding.

They want to know that you are okay with the physical contact and feel comfortable. In other words, they respect your personal space. They will engage in physical contact only if they feel strongly towards you as they tend to commit to the person they are attracted to on a more long-term level.

13. He is always there for you

While this sounds like a cliché and may seem like any potential romantic partner would do it, it is a defining trait of Virgos. The Virgo zodiac sign has positive associations with helpfulness and service. This is particularly true in a romantic context. He will always make himself available if you need him, whether it is helping you with some task or chore or just lending an ear.

Virgos will go the extra mile to make you feel like everything is under control. The best part about this is that he will likely get as much joy from doing it as you will from being on the receiving end of it. If a Virgo man goes out of his way to be there for you, he probably wants a relationship with you.

14. He loves to spend time with you

A Virgo man in love with you will take any chance to spend time with you. It could be during your lunch breaks at work or your daily commute. He will even take an interest in your hobbies or activities. He might want to help you cook a meal or move houses or even pitch in to help with some chores or errands, all to be around you. He will always put himself in a position to be near you whenever possible or spend as much free time with you.

15. He opens up to you

Virgos notice every small detail and remember things about you that you might overlook. He will open himself up to you, so you can get to know him. Whether it’s introducing you to his friends and family or telling you about his likes and dislikes, a Virgo man will want you to know him inside out so you can both commit to each other fully when the time is right. So, if he opens up to you, it means he really cares for you.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What does a Virgo man like in a woman?

A Virgo man is organized, mature, down-to-earth, and devoted. He is particular about social etiquette, very loyal in a relationship, and expects the same from his partners. A Virgo man is mainly attracted to independent women.

2. What do Virgos appreciate in a relationship?

Virgos are great listeners and like partners who genuinely listen when they are talking. Drama and indecisiveness can turn them off. They seek relationships that are built on trust and deep emotional bonding.

3. How do I know if a Virgo man is disinterested in a relationship?

Suppose a Virgo man is not drawn to physical intimacy, does not reply to your calls or messages, is critical about your appearance, is passive-aggressive, or acts doubtful. In that case, there is a high chance he is not interested in taking the relationship seriously.

When a Virgo man goes above, and beyond what other men would typically do, you can be sure that he is in love with you and will do anything to make it work. We hope the signs stated above will help you recognize if a Virgo man in your life is in love with you and help you respond accordingly.

Key Pointers

  • If you are interested in a Virgo man, there are some signs that he might be displaying if he loves you back.
  • He might be giving you some hints like taking out time for you or valuing your interests to show his love and affection.
  • Take a look at these important gestures that could help you reciprocate his feelings.
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Rohan Sinha

Rohan was an HR analyst before transitioning into a freelance writer/ editor. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration with a specialization in Human Resources from Christ University, Bangalore, and previously worked as an analyst in Goldman Sachs. Having also worked in a media and post-production firm, he has special interest in films. Rohan is an avid reader with... more

Stina Garbis

Stina Garbis is an American professional psychic and astrologer, who has been in practice for over 30 years. She has guided celebrities, athletes, politicians and everyday people in all aspects of life and love. She has been published in many magazines including, Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, Readers’ Digest, Pop Sugar, E! and more.